I sometimes visit escort girls, but one day I called a girl and went to see her. It was my daughter!?

Question

Okay...my wife travels a lot for her sales job. Our sex life is nonexistent. Once in a while I call an escort girl and go see her at a motel. Last week I called one and went to go meet her. It was my 19 year old daughter! I thought she was at college. We both freaked out and I left. I haven't spoken to her since and my wife came back and wants to know what's wrong between her and me. I am a loving husband who just "needs some love back now and again" and I've raised my family in the most conservative, wholesome christian manner possible. How is it that my daughter has become a hooker???

Answer 1

for some reason I don't believe you !!
remember this question YOU posted ?
I am 35 and half bald. Lots of women my age make fun of me and say get plugs before I'm all bald. Should I?
My hair looks like Jack Nicholson's from "The Shining." I have tried every drug to treat it, but no dice. I part it to one side, but I don't like the look. I thought about shaving it, but I don't think it would look good. I have stressed out way too much about it (drinking, drugs, escort girls) and finally am thinking about spending the $10,000 and going to Hasson & Wong (The best HT) in Canada. I am in Los Angeles, btw so everyone is vain. Tired of balding and want my life back, including real dates with real women again.
Or this one ?
I think my neighbor upstairs is a Ho. She's cute. How can I proposition her without offending if I'm wrong?
So what is your story ?

Answer 2

Hi Labiamon, That would of been a terrible spot to be in for both of you. I can understand why you call for an escort girl. Having no sex isn't fair to anybody. You must still love your wife you are still with her. Usually cheating on a wife or husband is a big NONO!!! But i can see your reasoning why. You daughter is 19 and very young and still has a lot to learn about life. She may need money fast and thinks this is the only way to get it. If i was in your spot i would have a one on one talk with your daughter and see what is going on with her. Them you will have to explain why you are sleeping around with call girls. In a case like this i would not tell your wife what is going on. Why hurt her??? She has done nothing wrong to get hurt. Talk to your daughter and make an agreement that either will tell your wife,or her mom anything that happen that night. You need to be careful with whom you have an appointment with. Usually i would call you every name in the book for being a cheater. But i see this a lot different that usually. Yes i am a woman and my ex husband cheated with a girl and he was getting sex from me. The funny thing i found out last week ( I caught them out on the town) it's his first wife that let him for a drug life with a real loser. You never no i guess. Good Luck To Both Of You..
A Friend Who Knows What Is Going On.
Clowmy

Answer 3

You know what's funny?
She's probably asking someone else, "How is it that my DAD has started hiring hookers?!" Listen, you said you raised her in a 'wholesome christian manner', but how 'wholesome' or 'christian' is it when you're paying for escorts and your daughter is one of them. But that's in the past and all you can do now is talk to your daughter about it.
It's awkward.
It's painful.
But maybe the two of you could benefit out of a conversation like that. Like, she could promise to you that she'll quit being a hooker, and you'll promise to her that you'll stop hiring them. You should probably talk to your wife as well. I mean, you don't have to tell her about what's going down. But maybe the two of you should enjoy eachother a little more. You're married. You should be able to talk about these things with your wife.

Answer 4

I really don't even know where to begin. I almost feel the need to ask if you are serious!?! First, its not very "christian" or "wholesome" to step out on your wife. Regardless of whatever bible you are reading...ITS WRONG! Beyond that is it possible that your daughter has known about your extracurricular activities and decided that if you could do it so could she? This is karma in the worse sense, because now the only way to save your daughter is to be truthful with your wife, and if you don't tell her, your daughter eventually will. At this point all I can say is God Bless you because you are seriously going to need him to weather this storm in your life.

Answer 5

Wow thats really heavy!! I dont think I know what I can exactly say to that? Maybe try to contact your daughter and sort things out with her first before you confess to your wife. I think it will be a big shock for her to find out that not only are you seing other women, but her daughter is escorting other men at the same time. Maybe you could not tell your wife about your daughter and try to straighten her out. It will break your wifes heart to hear that her little girl is like that. Good luck, you will need it. Which ever way you go about it, it will turn out ugly...sorry.

Answer 6

You are a cheater. If you really wanted sex with your wife, you would go along on these trips with her and get some. You reap what you sow. You have screwed up your entire family with your lust for other women.

She became a hooker because your "wholesome" ways have taught her to become what she is. If you paid her or your wife any attention, none of this would have ever happened. This is ALL your fault.

The lady Kit up there is right. You ARE pure scum........and a TROLL.

Answer 7

Shes bcome a hooker the same way youve become a cheater. Drawn by the black evil forceof the world. Its just amazing how lifes most surprises come at the most unexpected times. You both got busted by each other and now hold a huge secret from your wife and her mother. Not a good situation as if your wife ever finds out, she ll be hurt twice. Guess your family christian upraising wasnt as good as you thought. Forget the lead by example thought which appears to be what happened here. Maybe it was Gods intervention to tell you both to altar your lifes path a bit. It sounds like you really need to be a "father" once again here but practice what you preach before talking to her. Good luck

Answer 8

You visit hookers, so get down off that high horse. You're breaking your marriage vows, so no matter how much you tell yourself that you raised your daughter in a conservative, wholesome manner, she obviously caught on to a few things.

Why don't you try talking to your wife and getting some counseling? Because it's easier to see a hooker than to work on your marriage. You reap what you sow.

Answer 9

where was your daughter when you would go visit the call girls?

Sins of the parents are passed on is what my mother used to always say. I know first hand with teens you lead by example.

Even if you thought you were careful, she is smart I am sure.

It may take more then an I am sorry to get through this one, but first of all you need to get your daughter OUT of the situation she is in. She is putting herself in a dangerous position and could get hurt or even killed.

Swallow your pride, talk to your wife and help your daughter before it is to late.

Answer 10

PFFT! How in the hell can you call yourself a christian when you're cheating on your wife with hookers! Nevermind that your daughter was the hooker! Maybe you should have given that extra money that you spent on hookers to your daughter so that she wouldn't have to hook! Disgusting, seriously.

You are a perfect example of why I can't stand Christians. Christians think that just because they are "forgiven" they have the right to sin. I honestly think Christians just do not know how to behave appropriately in the first place. Freaking gross! I hope you get a disease and it falls off!