i am seperated.we play lots of jealousy mind games which is stupid i know...but she got a boyfriend. she still calls everyday though..but wont come back. is she still playing the game. how do i get the power back.
2007-04-11 18:26:12 · 9 answers · asked by docta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ignore her and start dating. Women HATE to be ignored!! I don't know how else to say that...trust me, just try it. The next time she calls, act like you have something to do...be very short with her...
2007-04-11 18:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by b_sampson98055 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe thats the problem. Youre hogging the ball too much.Its notabout what YOU want but what she wants too and the ability to compromise. She probably felt smothered and controlled by you, like a player with a coach. Forget about the "power" thing and work on getting back your relationship before game over and you lost. Think about it and good luck. Also it doesnt sound like the fat woman has sung yet, so get back into the game
2007-04-11 18:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men, you're all about power. It's not about power honey, it's about the problems you guys have. Maybe the need for power is what got you in this mess in the first place.
If she has a bf she's moving on and so should you. If you feel like you can't talk to her at this point because it's to hard, or you just don't give a damn what's going on with her, tell her that and ask her not to call you unless she needs to. It's not unreasonable for people going through a divorce.
2007-04-11 18:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out something BAD about her boyfriend that she doesn't know. The next time she comes over say, "Oh, by the way, did you know . . . . . .?"
There are lots of Web sights that pry into someones past -- for a price. How badly do you want the potential for a great power come-back??
2007-04-11 18:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by Rusty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only have power over someone if they let you. If she has gotten tired of the mind games and is ready to move on with her life she will, and there is nothing you can do about it.
If you do the same you will feel much better.
2007-04-11 18:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by Ratsoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you make her stay away! she will have you playing her game, the way she wants it, if you dont let her go! and looks to me, by answering the phone when it rings, your waiting for the game!
2007-04-11 18:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by brn.eyed.grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she calls pretend as if ur having sex.. moan groan.. make it sound as if ur with woman who is drainin the juice outta u.. tell her to call back later..she wil get the message
2007-04-11 18:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her "don't you already got a boyfriend why are you still calling me" were over
2007-04-11 18:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by miss chris brown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ans. the phone let her think your out hide your can see mind games
2007-04-11 18:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋