how do i get over a girl or win her back. im in limbo. she wont come back but calls everyday to check on me. i need to move on or win her back...why is there so many mixed signals.
2007-04-11 17:45:11 · 14 answers · asked by docta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't win her back. Stop answering your phone. How hard is that. You got caller id? It's OK to screen when they leave YOU. It's kinda cowardly if you leave them without an honest explanation, but in your situation, it's the thing to do.
2007-04-11 17:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally, time is the best medicine...Or another girl. The latter is tough if you still have a quasi relationship with a girl that you don't any longer see. Remain cordial with her but get yourself some space, for her calling you all the time let's her remain involved in your life and creates distractions. Secondly, you may ask her why she calls so much if you two didn't work out? I'd rather see you heal, move on, and find someone who makes you happier and sticks it out for the long run...Good luck
2007-04-12 00:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by okstatecowboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to move on and forget ? Time you need time
Time you aren't being allowed to have because she keeps calling you -
You have to fish or cut bait at this time and thats the message you have to send to her and you have to mean it So if it is a bluff - don't send that message -
Limbo is your choice but she is not helping you right now is she ? She is nutureing that limbo
2007-04-12 00:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question is do you truly love her? If so what went wrong? If it's love don't let her go without a fight. Talk to her, tell her how you feel. If you are done then don't accept her calls no matter what. If you don't want to lose her for fear of being alone than you got to face that fear. No matter what you decide make sure you tell her point blank how things are, no more mixed messages.
2007-04-12 00:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by Pixel 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds as though she is using you emotinally in order to try out another guy. If it does not work with the other guy then she wants to go back to you. Tell her not to call you anymore or just don't answer the phone.
2007-04-12 00:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to be straight with you... either come back or stop calling. Tell her you are strong enough to be by yourself, so she doesn't need to "check on" you if she's not going to come back. Also, while it's hard to have someone leave, it allows you to find someone who will appreciate you, so look at it as a favor, if she can't love you, she shouldn't be with you.
2007-04-12 00:48:29 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if she didnt like you, then i doubt she'd call u so if she does then there must be somthing there...
Maybe she want you to go to her...i recomend that u go to her.
she probably doesnt wanna seem easy by calling you and comming to u while u just sit and wait.
2007-04-12 00:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure. Sounds like you need to sit her down and say, What are we doing and what are we gonna do? I can't take this limbo crap anymore. Good luck!! ;o)
2007-04-12 00:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by natsuko1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
now if she took off why would you want to win her back!? think about what your saying! go have fun and live life, let her enjoy the life she made for herself, and wallow in her own self pity! she lost! GOOD luck!
2007-04-12 00:58:52 · answer #9 · answered by brn.eyed.grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre focus is on the wrong thing!!! if She cared for you she woul stand by her man . she didnt tell you i love you but i am not in love with you, did she? wake up and listrn to what she is saying. she call because she dosent want to feel bad guilt.
2007-04-12 00:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by eds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋