My ex-boyfriend has been engaged to a girl for a couple years now but I'm not sure if he really wants to marry her.
We've started talking again lately and he was telling me about their plans. He said "If we do get married..." instead of "When we get married..." Does this mean he's having second thoughts? He's not really serious about marrying her?
He also told me he has changed from when we were together and has called me a couple times. Do you think I have a chance with getting back together with him? I broke up with him 4 years ago and regret it badly. I know he is engaged but I think we are a better couple. Thanks!
2007-04-11 15:21:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well if you have plans on trying to get back with him you need to do it quick ! I know many people will say you a wrong but I say if you can take him from her then she , the other women was better off with out him , then to wait years down the line to find her husband having an affair . I know you better find out if he is having the same feelings as you . Let him know you are not trying to ruin his relationship but you have to tell him now before it is to late . Tell him do not marry her if he is thinking of another women because that is not right to ruin someones life when they can find true love else where . Good Luck ! Remember you have to be honest with him and let him know how you feel . Be prepared for the worse because the dice may not roll in your favor ! Good Luck !!!!
2007-04-11 15:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think personally, you should just wait it out. Because I mean, what if they do get married?
I think you should keep in touch with him, but be his friend not THE OTHER WOMAN.
I think for me, no matter how much I wanted something badly, I wouldn't want to develop that type of reputation.
I think you should see what happens because if something is meant to happen it will.
Obliviously there was something wrong in the first place with your guys' relationship that you left him. So I say wait things out.
Everything happens for a reason!
2007-04-11 22:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sad..... I feel really sorry for you..........
Do you really love him? Or you just love his look?
I think feelings are much more better than looks.
Just because that you and him are better couple than her, that
doesn't mean that you really like him. Are you sure you wanted to be with him? If he really likes someone, you should not bother him. Maybe he will be mad. Leave him and find else that makes you more happy and safe. So, are you going to love him forever? Give up? Find another person? It all your choice.
Did I give you a many idea? Well, than, GOOD LUCK!
2007-04-11 23:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lauvv.T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have 2 tell him how u feel before its too late..theres a big possibility that hes having 2nd thoughts..and maybe he feels like u 2 would b a better couple also.. ask him if he ever thinks about the way things used 2 b between u 2..
2007-04-11 22:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by trying2find_myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't left her what makes you think he will. It seems that he is trying to have his cake and eat it too. He is playing with both of you and does the fiancee know anything about it? Maybe he just wants a last fling. Right now you are the other woman and that really isn't respectful of either of you.
2007-04-11 22:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by pandamgy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is most likely quite confused about his situation. What you have to decide is whether you have the nerve to make a move or not. If you do, then go for it! You will never know how he really feels unless you are willing to let him know how much you want him back. Good luck.
2007-04-11 22:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he breaks it off with his fiance and then goes back to you what's to say he wont do the same to you if his ex fiance comes around a few years later!?! Stay away you will only get hurt!
2007-04-11 22:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by Love Tha Skins! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa- do not go near him until after the engagement is called off. i'm sure it will be, but don't get involved. it will only end badly.
2007-04-11 22:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious that he wants to get back with you and is giving you hints. You're a total harlot, but his fiancee deserves better.
2007-04-11 22:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by Vegan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋