There is a guy that Ive been talking to now for a while. We text at night and just ask each other random questions. My best friend doesnt really care for him to much but he is a nice guy so I can c past that. Im worried thought becuz we have been talking about .. sex... and we arent really dating yet. Should I be worried that this is all he wants?
I know that he wants it eventually, but we talk and spend more time getting to know each other. Should I still be concerned? PLZ help!!!! Thanks for readin.
2007-04-11 15:19:07 · 14 answers · asked by gurly gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't think you're overreacting b/c i would be worried too. but if you think you know him well enough and trust him enough, then go for it. i do suggest that you take it slow till you're sure you're ready for it though. good luck!
2007-04-11 15:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by Mina Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be concerned, I have dated many men from the internet after getting to know them extremely well. But any man who talks about sex before you meet or date, yes that is what is on his mind, I'd never keep talking to him. He ain't interested in the person, just getting some. Be careful. If you decide to meet, make it a well lit place like a restaurant with lots of people around and drive yourself, never go with them on dates till you know them.
2007-04-11 22:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So is your best friend in the habit of not liking nice guys? Does she routinely give bad advice? Is she in the habit of raining on your parade, just for the heck of it?
There is no way your best friend has not made clear what is wrong with this guy, and there is no way you don't understand what she means. You just want a different answer. So, which of us strangers is going to come up with something that will make you feel better about not listening to your best friend? I'm thinking its not going to be me. Heck, there goes my 10 points.
2007-04-11 22:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by Millie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be concerned if that is ALL he talks about... but people are curious about.... sex .... and he might just be flirting with u ha... so anyway if u too start dating and thats all he talks about ..THEN is the time to be concerned... otherwise if u too have a good connection and everything he cares about knowing u better than the other topic so good luck!
2007-04-11 22:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes be very concerned guys who talk about sex b4 going out even are probably in it just for the pleasure. Pls do yourself a favor an get out of that relationship as fast as possible.
2007-04-11 22:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by DA GANGSTA TRACK * 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is working it up girl friend.If it takes a while, he is willing to be patient ,especially if you have said "I think its ok as long as 2 people love each other".He will soon be telling you he loves you.Whatever it takes to get in your panties dear.You want to know what he is REALLY about?Tell him youl DIE before having sex without being married first!Watch him skidaddle away.Unless of course he thinks he can trick you by saying"ok I can respect that" then time will tell the tale.
2007-04-11 22:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i mean have you hung out with this guy? or just have a "texlationship". If he's already asking about sex before you've met him then that is all he is looking for. A guy who is into you for you will ask you about stuff you're interested in so he can try and relate to that as well.
2007-04-11 22:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be concerned. Just meet with him and get to know him for, at least, a week and then you'll know if he only wants sex or if he's ready for a relationship.......If he's too pushy at the begginning, that's a sign he's only looking for sex.
2007-04-11 22:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by FJ23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he the one bringing up the topic of sex?, if so, i don't really think you should be too concerned, just keep a watchful eye out incase he tries to step deeper with the questions. He might just be courious of what your take on things are..
basically- don't be overly paranoid about it, just make sure it doesn't go too far.
i hope i help =\
2007-04-11 22:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first Lets not put the cart before the horse. Slow down and if sex is all he can talk about then you need to put down your foot and tell him your not that kind of girl. Second our friends all ways know us best I think you should listen.
2007-04-11 22:24:36 · answer #10 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋