i think it is healthy and normal, as long as it's truly innocent. my friends and i are taking a poll.
2007-04-11 19:32:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Totally normal. I have silly crushes all the time. They fade pretty quick, and I never act on them.
2007-04-11 19:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I get crushes all the time, about 10 each day as I drive to and from work. Maybe an other 2 each weak while i'm at work.
Each month I get new ones, but they all last about 2-3 days, maybe a week the longest.
Look, there will always be people much better looking than your partner. You have to come to terms with the fact that you didn't get that lucky. But for as long as it's innocent, and you don't actively provoke the situation into something more complicated, then it's fine.
Since when is fantasy sex considered adultry?
2007-04-11 19:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by Real-Estate Guru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal, everyone wonders from time to time. Use that person as ummm... "personal time" material if need be. This may help cure your curiousity. Seems silly, but it is a therapy of a sort. Kind of like having an erotic dream about that person then not having the urge anymore to fantasize about that person anymore because in a way, you know what it would be like. Of course if you crush is even more innocent then that and you simply find the person attractive and that is it, then I wouldn't even call that a crush and it is more then innocent. :)
2007-04-11 19:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by SpoiledBrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It is completely healthy and normal. Even beneficial.
Many women fantasize about men they could never have, movie stars, musicians, coworkers. Even strangers on the street. When you see a sexy man wander by, it gets your mind going. The mind is the most powerful sex organ there is.
Now, because you love your husband, you take that emotion home with you and use it (whether you realise it or not) to stoke the home fires.
So ladies - go ahead and look! Enjoy looking! There is nothing wrong with it and it may even rev up your love life with your mate.
Mmmm, Sean Connery....dreamy... :)
2007-04-11 19:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Julie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sometimes think about ex-crushes or ex- boyfriends ,but i don't do anything about it. I ran in to an ex-boyfriend of mine that i really cared for and I called it quits with him and now 4 years later i'm married with 2 kids from my marrage and i feel totally unhappy even though i know he loves me indefinately, so i don't believe it wrong it's just what your feeling!! It happens , that's life.
2007-04-11 19:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by Carebear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All troubles start with this innocent crush... and it will slowly develop into something else than innocent crush.
You may be able to stop it, but the other party is beyond your control and may persistancely move in on you.
The best, stay out of trouble...taking a poll does not mean anything.
take care.
2007-04-11 19:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by trymejames 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think is normal. Just make sure you don't act on it or point it out to your spouse because then you may end up being unhappily married.
2007-04-11 20:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by F A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. A lot of married folks are attracted to other people. As long as you don't act upon it then it's fine.
2007-04-11 19:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by Maricel S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing innocent about a crush and it could quickly lead to something more intimate and then you've got really big problems believe me so please leave it be
2007-04-11 19:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by cheri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is normal but never something to acted on!
2007-04-11 19:40:43 · answer #10 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋