If you know for some reason in your gut that you do not see yourself with the same person for your life why even marry them. I know that it is better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all. But really why marry someone if you do not see yourself growing old together?
One other thing why marry if you know you cannot be faithful to your spouse?
2007-04-11 20:01:49 · 11 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you can't be faithful then your a scumbag....
if you can't see yourself being married to them when your old... don't.....
There are times when you are not sure.... (once a day for me)
2007-04-11 20:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by pro_steering_wheel_holder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I talked about this with my friend who wasn't sure whether she wanted to leave her bf or not for another guy. I told her that if she wasn't planning on staying with him for teh rest of the life, why not cut it short now? And not lose all that time with that guy when u could get sum1 better...
But the problem with this logic is it means that we may not give anything a chance. Maybe the possibility that u may end up with ur wife forever no matter how slight is worth the attempt in the first place
2007-04-11 20:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by BiLLY _ BBBB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question has answered itself, you know marriedge is like someone putting you in a strong room and lock the door and the keys will be lost forever. meaning you will never come out of that room unless one or yourself break the wall ( divorce) or surffocate and die. biblical point of view there must be love and a woman should be submmisive to you husband. know that there is no a perfect person. but still be able to bear your partners weakness or else do not marry that person. prevention is better than cure. that is why people learn each other first before they marry.it is to prevent all those inconvinience in future.
2007-04-11 20:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by beauttyljoel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some people just can't think very well.
being together for a long time isnt a good reason to get married either.
2007-04-11 23:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by monofinity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I doubt many people marry thinking they'll get divorced.
2007-04-11 20:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never will be, so stay single.
The reason people marry is to be together, love each other, and do together.
2007-04-11 20:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by javarick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why go to work if you know you'll get fired?
Marriage is a commitment, you fail it, you get divorced.
2007-04-11 20:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by MU.SK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did it for my daughter! He knew it and I knew it. As for the faithful thing... you need to ask him. I was always faithful
2007-04-11 20:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I plan to never marry and it appears you should't either
2007-04-11 20:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by Abstinence_Education 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha... good question. i think these are for you right?
Well, simple to answer all your Qs;
DONT GET MARRIED IF YOU ARE NOT PREPARE!
2007-04-11 20:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋