I love him and have always been there for him but he doesn't love me at all. I know alot of other guys like me but I have no intrest in them because I love him. Why doesn't he love me?
2007-04-11 20:02:03 · 24 answers · asked by sadgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably knows that you are vague and cannot take a hint. Move on!
2007-04-11 21:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by Loren C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you, but being in love when someone doesn't love you back sucks, period. Find something (not someone) else to focus on for a while. I feel for you, I've was dumped on my *** three years ago and it still hurts sometimes. No matter what you do just keep your chin up and move on. If it was meant to be it would be. Just be glad you know where you stand and you can start putting one little foot in front of the other (so cliche' I know) but so true true true true. Just get busy doing something else. The right thing is out there somewhere, just keep your eyes open sweetie!
2007-04-20 02:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by s01psb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your young or old, the advice is still the same. Move on. If you do not think you are being given the same respect and admiration that you give to him, you are only hurting yourself in the long run. Pull back the reigns and start retreating. Eventually, if you do not notice a response from your withdrawal in your relationship then you will have concluded what you were already afraid of.
2007-04-19 23:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by yourguessisasgoodasyours 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better question would be - "WHY do I love HIM?" I have no clue why someone does or doesn't love.... you need to sit down and write out the reasons you think you "love" a guy who does not feel that way with you. Then write what a guy would do to show he did love you - then write what respect is and ways people show theirs towards each other. My bet is, at the end of all that, you will see what you feel is not at all love.
2007-04-12 03:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you why he doesn't love you because only he would know why. But I can tell you that if this guy isn't intersted in you then you should move on. Try giving one of those other guys who like you a chance. Who knows! You might just be happy you did.
2007-04-20 01:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok the answer of why can only be answered by you and no one else. I mean are you guys still together did you guys have a fight or anything. im not trying to be mean or pushy but if you give me a little more info on the subject i can probably probably give you a reasonable explanation of why he maybe acting the way he is.
2007-04-12 03:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by nate l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, the person we love does not always love us. It is just a fact of life. Try to avoid being around this person. You are needlessly torturing yourself. In time, you will be able to move on. I can totally relate. I have been there.
Best wuishes for happiness in your future, it is his lost!!
2007-04-12 03:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't make someone love you.love is funny like that .one many they love you the next they don't.i think it's more of a attraction that make people think they love each other soon as there use to you there looking in another direction .when some one really loves you they wont be so quick to stop.
2007-04-19 23:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because hes an idiot who doesnt see your devotion. and youre obsessed and need to get over it. it doesnt matter how much or how long u love him- u cannot cannot cannot make someone love u if they dont. u deserve the real thing girl and he aint it. move on. my mama always says the best way to get over one guy is to under the next one. u should try it. :-)
2007-04-20 01:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by juststephgodawgs01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just not that into you
stop wastin your time and move on
you'll look back on this and think why was i so dumb to let all these good guys pass me by for this a hole
you like him alot
you dont love him
theres a difference it takes two to love
2007-04-12 03:06:30 · answer #10 · answered by Eliana Lombay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him and get on with your life, with say, how about one of the other guys that you mentioned. There is no way that you could possibly make someone love you. Move on with yourself!
2007-04-20 01:17:49 · answer #11 · answered by robert e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋