I need help on my problems...if you care?

Question

Im having lots of problems right now im into a lot first of all my self-esteme is really low.I dont like the way i am. A lot of people are mean to me.Sometimes i say "Why did i had to be from this family?!?!why cant i be from a family thats famous or something like that.Some people tease me that im chubby and im trying to loose it to just so people could stop calling me that.I dont like the way i am.I have lots of issues.I also dont like the way i am, because i dont feel i should be that way.I say,"Why cant i be like that actor.Or that person."Also i say to myself"Why did god made me so ugly,,,and god DONT like ugly!!!"I see all the people that they are beutiful and nice,but not me.I feel that im the only one on this planet earth also have the one with the only problem.Give me some advise on what to do.Please help me a lest tell me what to do.PLEASE HELP ME.

IM 13 YEARS OLD.

I've been crying for days now.I know boys are not supposed to cry but, thats the way i feel.

Thanks for all the support all you guys have really helped me i waish i could pick all of you for my best answer but i only have to choose one.I will give all of you lik on the rating like 1000.Thank you for helping me and other people keep on helping me and thank you please take care.Im not just saying this but all you people that helped and giving me asvise.God BLESS you!
Something good will happend to you guys each and one of you that helped me.

Answer 1

like your skin and dont let no one put you down tell them to stop being mean and be the nice one dont get lost and become one of them you wont be with them forever when you get old enough you can get your own place and be around all the people you want this will pass and hopefully you will become a very nice person dont let this bring you down and remember GOD is always with you ask for his help and guidance

Answer 2

First of all and not to be harsh but get off the buzz that you wernt born into a famous family or that you are not famous yourself. Did you know that personality says alot for who you are? I doubt that you are ugly and I guarantee that you are a nice person. Stop being so hard on yourself as no body is going to say oh poor you. Try and be positive in everything you do. Put a smile on you face and put yourself out there. Do you hold your head up and smile and say hello to people who pass by in the street? Try this tommorow, and take note of how many smiles you receive back. Maybe even try grabbing some new clothes and grab a new hair doo. Sometimes this can be just what you need to make yourself feel better. Stop looking down at the ground when you are walking and start holding your head up high.

Answer 3

Rod Stewart isn't exactly easy on the eyes,but he goes out with some of the most beautiful women on the planet.And why if the Hollywood stars are so popular and beautiful do they always find themselves always in divorce court again and again and again?It seems none of those good looking actors actresses and singers can hang onto a man or a woman for any length of time.Do you think all that glamour is real and that's really who those people are?
It doesn't matter what you look like and it doesn't matter how much you weigh and money cannot buy happiness and fame comes with a hefty price.
Does the pot look to the potter and ask "Why did you make me?"No it does not,so why ask God why he made you?He made you because he loves you and thinks your perfect just the way you are.People always pretend their something that their not but when you look a little beneath the surface you'll discover that there's not much difference between you and them.Some of the most beautiful people to look at wonder why they are so ugly and some of the most richest people on earth wonder why their so miserable.We can't base our self worth on what others have and we don't have or on how they look compared to how we look.Just be thankful you are who you are and God loved you enough to create you.You can lose weight alot more effeciently if you do it for you instead of trying to lose for someone else.And if someone is mean to you just realize that person is just trying to cover up for their own insecurities by pointing out yours.Don't be mean back just tell them you don't appreciate that and to knock it off.And we're never as ugly and fat as we think we are.It's just a trick our mind plays on us to make us think that we are because other people make us feel that way.If you want wisdom and understanding my advice to you is to read Proverbs in the King James version bible.Solomon wrote Proverbs and he was given much wisdom by God as a gift because when God asked Solomon what he wanted that he would give him anything instead of asking for wealth or fame he asked for wisdom and understanding.So God gave him more wisdom and understanding than anybody has ever had.That my friend is how you can be truely happy.Stop looking in the wrong direction for happiness and instead look forward to the way true happiness can be achieved which is through knowledge and wisdom.
Proverbs 15:1 A soft answer turneth away wrath:but grievous words stir up anger.The tongue of the wise useth knowledge aright:but the mouth of fools poureth out foolishness.
Proverbs 8:11 For wisdom is better than rubies;and all the things that may be desired are not to be compared to it.Proverbs 9:6 Forsake the foolish,and live;and go in the way of understanding.
So you see you have an over abundance of knowledge to learn from in Proverbs.You can literally learn everything you will ever need to know in that one book of the bible.Knowledge is power and strength and that's where true happiness begins.
I hope you find hapiness and someday your heart will sing.

Answer 4

At your age, people aren't experiened enough with life to know that beauty is not what we look like on the outside. Don't worry about what other people say. This is the MOST important of my advice. Don't worry about others!! And, don't let any negative thoughts get into your head. Say to yourself positive things each day, and you will see yourself gain confidence. Being a teen is very hard because you want to "FIT IN" and have everyone like you. Don't give up and you'll come out the winner. I know you can overcome this because you are smart, regarless of what people might say. You're doing the right thing by finding friends else where. Try to spend your time with people who make you feel good - don't waste time with those that bring you "down". Enjoy life! It's too short no to!

Answer 5

U seem a nice guy to me, why u think of urself so sadly?
Why do u need a famous family? why do u need to be more and more handsome? do u think all famous people are happy? they have the huge problems u've never hear about, or... beautiful...?
Remember - U WILL BE BEAUTIFUL IF U THINK U R BEAUTIFUL AND WHEN U'LL BE SURE OF URSELF!
Girls run after beautiful boys when they are teens, but after that they are hunting for smart guys, remember that as well.
I don't think u r an ugly guy as there is no such a thing in the world. The word "ugly" have been created by selfish humans, but not by God. God never created someone ugly. Even the ugliest person, we think, has got too much beauty inside we notice it when we try to know him/her.
Myself - I notice smart guys, but never run after beautiful once as they are empty inside, mostly. But I also like when guys are very sure of themselves, even if they seem too ugly.
Think wisely and try to attract girls not with a time limited beauty, but with unlimited clever brain. It's hotter :)
Good luck to u :)

Answer 6

Honey, I like you.

No one chooses their family, but you can choose your friends. Never try to fit in with people that don't want you.
Do whatever you do for yourself in order to be a real person with a real conscience and a personality. Take your time for that, there is no rush. And you're so not alone. Millions of people feel like you. Take care of your body and mind, you can find all the information on healthy foods and all other topics on the web you could be interested in. Once you really into something, you'll automatically find others that share the same passion and those that call you whatever will seize to exist for you. So concentrate on what you like and expand your horizon and you'll find a whole world out there that just waits to meet you.

Answer 7

you need to get some help dude.... just get over the fact that your life is sh ity right now.... it might get better... you never know... don't be so down on yourself... try using self-"deficating" humor... tell a joke crapping on yourself before someone else has a chance to say something mean. Who cares if you are ugly or fat or whatever is bothering you.... trust me there are other people who are going to be a helluva lot more ugly and fat and gross (and whatever category you want to use) than you are.

Go for a walk, pick up a bad habit or something.... life isn't that long that you have time to worry about the trivial stuff....

Answer 8

God Created, and loves all his children.
Famous people still have problems, some
for all to see. One shaved her head bald.
Poor thing.
Many people feel the way that you do.
You are not alone.
Make a list of things you can change.
Then try to.
When you turn 18 you can always move.

Answer 9

u are perfect just the way u are. god made u as perfect as can be dont be afraid to think that u are. if u dont think u should be in the family u are in then ur wrong. u probely hav the best family there is. if the people at skool tease u cause ur chubby dont worry ignore them there idiots they probely hav heaps of problems wrong with them
hope this helps

Answer 10

FIRST OF ALL GOD don't make no junk or ugly people.BEAUTY is not on the out side its on the inside.---------------AND further more you were born happy. YOU just need to sit down and love u 4 u. STOP LOOKING at people. START looking at GOD he loves you.ANOTHER thing i order you to stop this pity party your having over there. DONT look at people who hate you look at people that like you or kind to u. GET YOUR EYES OFF THE LOOSERS AND LOOK AT THE WINNERS. SURROUND your self with winners in your life.POSITIVE PEOPLE. DONT WORRIE BE HAPPY.----I AM praying 4 you OK?