My "friend" knew I was trying to get back with this girl and he asked her out behind my back and she said yes. How can I get back at him?
2007-04-11 21:21:07 · 20 answers · asked by loner8671 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best revenge is a life well lived.
2007-04-11 21:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am so sorry to hear about this scenario. I have been through similar.
The only thing I can think of is challenging him to a regulated boxing match. Serious. Make sure you go through the legal procedures to make it legal.
If he does not accept the challenge, well, I don't know.........
Like I said, I have been through a similar situation, but rejoice that you are not me. Why? Because I have never, ever had a girlfriend in my life. So, if a similar thing has happened to me, what it means is that I was hoping for my first chance, ever, and I'm 25.
I challenged my (former) "friend" to a boxing match, while a girl was present, and he said, "Pshhhh... I would kick your ***!" just because the girl was there. I had never heard him talk like this to me.
...Then he declined the challenge. BTW, he outweighs me by about 60 lbs., but I was going to box him anyway. My anger would've sent him to oblivion, as it were, but he declined.
2007-04-12 04:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back to him in the cleanest way.I mean let him knew that he have done something very bad to you and you're very hurt!
for ex; you have to know where is there place that they have often hanging out.You have to follow them,and just pretend that you accidentally saw them together,shake his hand say hi to the girl and how's there date.say some words and if they ask who are you with?Just point or grab someone prettier than her to be your partner!
Let see what happen.
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-04-12 04:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by snicavera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Encourage them to marry one another...that would be great fun!And just so you realize this...he was never a friend, friends don't do that **** to each other. As for you ex, be happy that it ended now, cause your future with her would of hurt you and cost you much more than you've lost at this point which is next to nothing.
2007-04-12 04:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Few people look within themselves before doing, saying or thinking(whether this is right or wrong). We also forget righteousness sometimes and act unjustly(I do). Cant we forgive others then ?
It is a sad fact that if we want to be loved endlessly we need to love endlessly(St.Francis of Assissi).
Let us be firm in our self acceptance and belief in our own self worth that will not change even if our loved ones do something that is not in our best interest. This will give you a dignified aura and they may come around.
Good luck.
2007-04-12 04:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by sud 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't .. 2 wrongs don't make a right .. just consider him not your friend any more and think about it this way .. If that girl would go out with a jerk like him then you don't want her anyway ..
find another friend and another girl ...
2007-04-12 04:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by myopinionforwhatitsworth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not your friend. He is a jerk, and she will soon find out. If he can't be a good friend, then he will probably be a terrible boyfriend too!! She will break his heart, and get him back for you. Just sit back and wait!!
2007-04-12 04:26:10 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hack into his email and send her disgusting messages that are just creepy (get creative)
try and hack into his messenger and do the same to everyone on the guys list
also send emails saying :
Ive been keeping my homosexuality from you for a while, but I'm ready to tell you because i trust you, and i want you to know i have strong feelings for you....i think I'm falling in love with you
LOVE (the backstabbers name) send that to every male on his list. :D
2007-04-12 04:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by WOMAN! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's life. forgive him and move on. wish them luck
I seldom believe in a second attempt for a relationship, most of the time there was something to it, when it didn't work out in the first place...
2007-04-12 05:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by Lucas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick a ******** 12 gauge down his throat
same thing happened to me buddy and I beat the hell out of the guy in front of her
I didnt get her back because she thought i was crazy but atlesat i got revenge on the backstabbing bastard
2007-04-12 04:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋