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Hey, any good massages I can do to my man...for example on his back? Any ideas are appreciated!

2007-04-11 20:23:21 · 7 answers · asked by lonelioness 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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ok what u do is buy massage oil, ok get a cup with hot water (not boiling) &put the oil within its container within the cup.

dont burn now, when u can hold the container in ur hands, pour it on his back, massage it in slowly using the palm of ur hand, remember men likes harder/deeper massages unlike women, so ask him what pressure he likes.

ok, fist ur hand &use ur knuckes, do this a bit lighter, run that over his back, ovoid his spine.

then place ur arm on him meaning, elbow and hand flat on his back (dont elbow him lol), and gently roatate ur wrist from side to side slowly whiles massaging his back.

then, put ur plams flat on his back, straight arms, &move them in circular motions just bellow his shoulder blades (ur plam shouldnt lift up)

then place ur wrists together on his spine, &push ur wrists apart down to his sides, u can repeat this from the top of his spine all the way down.

and runing just ur fingertips (still deep pressure) from the bottom of his spine up to his shoulders..

....and now im tired-LOL..hope that helps

2007-04-11 20:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1 0

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2016-07-18 21:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

One great way is to give your bf a sensual massage!

Sensual massage techniques are quite similar to those that are used commonly in any type of massage. Some of the sensual massage techniques used are effleurage (gliding), tapotement (tapping and percussion), petrissage (compression), friction and stretching. You can choose to apply these strokes at various times during the sensual massage, depending upon what is needed. Your rhythm should be comfortable and smooth, and your strokes will flow over the body beneath you.

Effleurage
This massage technique is the circular stroke over the surface, stimulating the flow of blood and oxygen while promoting the flow of lymph throughout the body. When using effleurage, mold your hands to the shape of the receiver’s body as you glide over the surface, and then press down with deeper and firmer strokes. Your movements follow the shape of the body you are working on, exploring the hills and valleys, the broad plains and shallow crevices, as well as the long and short shapes in the body. With your partner lying on his back, place your hands on your partner’s head. Rest your fingers along the side of your partner’s skull, with your thumbs resting on his forehead. Let your hands rest, breathe softly, and advise your partner to relax to enjoy the massage.

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2007-04-13 22:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

He is a man (and I'm presuming he is straight) so the honest truth is... he wants a massage in places other than his back. To put it frankly, the last place any guy wants a hot chicks hands to be going are his face and back, but I can give you three guesses on where he really wants your hands to go... I'm not trying to be gross, just trying to reflect what there is a 95% chance of going through his mind.

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2016-04-24 03:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by alise 3 · 0 0

WASH his feet and massage them.

2007-04-11 20:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

All over, from the bottom of his feet, to...
until you get tired. :-D

2007-04-11 20:38:16 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 1 0

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