There's so much on my mind lately and for the past months now i have felt the biggest weight on me i have ever felt. I cry for what seems to be sometimes way long ago but i know can be small to people but has affected me so much! School doesn't make it any better and neither do my parents. They like communication between us but i can't talk to them. I just want to be left alone. I'm just waiting until i die. I live just because for no reason at all. I don't want to talk to people. I'm not really the easiest person to talk to when i feel like this though and i know that. And just knowing that i don't know what is wrong just doesn't help. I don't know what it is. But i just act like a normal person "happy" and "worry free", when in reality that's not what is going on in me. Its just the worst weight i have ever felt on me. A feeling so sad and a feeling of lonliness. I don't know where to go, who to go to, how to make it better. I feel hopeless.
2007-04-11 20:24:38 · 6 answers · asked by ninacoqueta0817 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You may be having anxiety and depression issues. I am assuming you are a teen due to your reference to school. Please know that you can speak with your counselors at school about your problem if you have problems speaking with your parents. Some times you need some medications to help with chemical imbalances. These can work well for you, please just speak with your family physician. Eating healthy, getting plenty of sun as well as exercise also help in fighting depression. Dying comes soon enough now is your time to live. Feeling useful and needed is something everyone needs, force yourself to get up and volunteer in your community in an activity that genuinely helps someone. There are many programs directed at youth for depression and suicidal thoughts use them. As a parent myself I would want my child to let me know how they are feeling so I could find help for them. Don't discount speaking with them now dont bow out without giving them a chance.
try this website www.suicidehotlines.com, or national youth crisis hotline 800-448-4663 these are both nationwide as I do not know where you live
You have many options, use these as a starting point, speaking with some one of your religious faith as well can help.
To help yourself requires action on your part so please contact someone now. I will pray for you and wish you the best
2007-04-11 21:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by searching 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times the hormone imbalance will affect teenagers and yound adults adversely. If you really feel that depressed, talk to your parents about going to therapy. Sometimes talking to another adult that you trust can help too--even a school counselor.
Just know this-- it is probably a temporary feeling. The hormones are so irratic in young people, that it makes them think the whole world is against them sometimes. This happens especially if they are having problems at home or with their boyfriend.
If you don't want to get help just yet, try writing your feelings down in a journal. Sometimes that will release the stress of holding it all in.
The teen years are very emotional. Believe me there are many good things to look forward to. Try your best to enjoy what you can, and look ahead to the better days, when the hormones settle down. Don't be foolish enough to get involved in drugs looking for an answer. That is not a solution, it just makes the problems worse.
2007-04-12 03:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are going through a depression. Everybody goes through moments like this. But you will get throug this. You need to talk to someone. A friend, good friend, or your parents. I'm sure that they will understand and appreciate that you trust them. Find yourself a hobby so that you won't think about this all the time. You will get over it because" After the rain the sun shines". Don't worry remember that we all go throw this especially at this age!!!!Peace!
2007-04-12 03:40:52 · answer #3 · answered by luchi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry you are so sad, but what kind of meaning or happiness are you looking for in your life, what activity do you enjoy. I have felt the same way as you many times. and I have no answer for you. the only answer is yours to find. Maybe look to god....
2007-04-12 03:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by maddogcrog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi... treat yourself... start a hobby that you like. borrow a movie watch it with popcorn.
think of something that you will enjoy.
watch tv.
walk around your neighborhood.
go to a movie with a friend. enjoy
dont allow yourself to be that way...
2007-04-12 03:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by charlie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just growing up.... or going thru a depression. th ebest thing u can do is talk to someone about it.
2007-04-12 03:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋