Family & Relationships - 11 April 2007

I was w/ my x for 5 yrs & we have 2 kids 2gether. We split up a few mos. ago(my choice). I startd seein this guy rt away & really startd to care about him. Now that relationship has startd to go bad & I'm really hurt about it. My x is still here wantin to get back 2gether & sayin he still luvs me(he doesn't know about the other guy) I'm heart broken over my recent split but I'm startin to think that I should go back to my x bcause honestly he does luv me & what more could I want? I got a taste of being back in the single life & the games ppl play & I know my x's luv is true. I just found out a grl has been callin my x & now I'm scared he's goin to move on if I don't make a decision. I'm not rdy to go back to him yet but I don't want to end up alone. I feel bad bcause he knows somethin botherin me & I can't tell him I'm upset about the othr guy. My x & I hung out for 2 dys, kinda back to normal but I tld him lst nite I'm not rdy yet & now I'm scared the othr guy will find out.. HELP!

2007-04-11 05:20:55 · 8 answers · asked by justbeingme_ 2 in Singles & Dating

we wanna know whats the real meaning of love.

2007-04-11 05:20:11 · 5 answers · asked by hadi 1 in Singles & Dating

i know the answer may be different for different ages, please tell me your age

2007-04-11 05:18:59 · 34 answers · asked by ME girl 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband have been married 11.5 years and I have an 8 year old son, husband is a good guy, just lazy. I love him but I am not in love with him, should I stay, or should I go? I don't want to rock my sons world. My husband and I went through a custody battle with his ex-wife, and I don't like what it did to my step-son. Don't want my son to go through all of that.

2007-04-11 05:18:55 · 32 answers · asked by kgperry70 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has a best friend who is a girl from Jr. High, tons of other friends that are of the opposite sex. Hardly, any male friends. He sneaks to talk to them after I go to sleep, never introduces me to them except one. All of his good friends use to be ex girlfriends. Doesn't want to tell me when he talks to them because it "may freak me out." I never thought I was the jeolous type, but its weird to wake up in the middle of night and he is another room whispering. Majority of his friends are out of town, so he isn't cheating. But I am really trying to trust him and not be some jeolous wife. But its getting hard. These are friends before we even started dating.

2007-04-11 05:18:38 · 9 answers · asked by Theresa L 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-11 05:09:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My marrage is a wreak, I love this woman dearly but I feel like Im in way over my head when it comes to marrage. I am tha primary provider for the home and every other aspect. I cook I clean and all after a 12 to 13 hr day. My wife is 20 and Im 21 I have taken responsibility for her and the fact that she hasnt been working but I would expect her to pull her weight. I have tried to have her talk it out with a number of perople but she isnt up fpor it. To make a long story short I am verry unhappy and with her but I am happy with someone else. What do I do?

2007-04-11 05:05:36 · 13 answers · asked by madfly2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-11 05:05:35 · 5 answers · asked by fidoedidoe b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-11 04:57:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Me and My Bf of 8 months jsut broke up, he gave me a bullshit reason, and now he is with another girl already! what do i do to stop thinking about him and how much i want him back?

2007-04-11 04:55:18 · 1 answers · asked by Beautiful Sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

So, yesterday my wife told her sister that I had to work late. her sister lives near where I work and called me up to ask if I'd like her to bring me something to eat. Of course, that sounded great to me....I was starving and it was nearly 9:00. So, my sister-in-law shows up with some good food, but also shows up wearing this hot little teddy under her long coat. When she took her coat off, I was shocked. She managed to seduce me and we had at it right there on my desk. She wanted to have a little fantasy thing where she was my secretary, etc. Well, I couldn't resist. We had sex in so many different ways and she even let me enter thru the rear exit...WOW! Should I tell my wife what happened? Were they setting me up? Part of me thinks I should not say anthing and maybe continue with my sister-in-law when we can because I don't see how I could get in trouble. No way she would tell her family, right?

2007-04-11 04:53:37 · 13 answers · asked by smallpenislongtongue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So Yesterday was my b-day and my hubby got me a card. Just a card, no flowers, no presents. He also got a cake and he and my kids sang happy bday to me after dinner. He got off from work early, but didnt call me when didnt found me at home. I get home late on tuesdays and he knows it. I wasnt expecting anything big but a little something wouldve been nice.He used to get me really nice gifts,but for st valentine i dindt get much either. A box of chocolate that he ate since im not a big chocolate eater, same thing he will do with the cake he gotfor my bday. I know he isnt broke and he spend hours online shopping for crap for his car. Should I say something? i dont wanna sound like a shollow B*** but i am a little hurt.

2007-04-11 04:51:23 · 14 answers · asked by xadralix 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 13 yr old girl that lives with her mum, dad and 4 younger sis. My family are Jehovah Witnesses, which is a religion that does not do christmas, birthday's, easter, halween and all that sort of stuff that you like doing. i get presents all around the yr but not at these certain times in the yr, my friends understand this but at times want to now more which sum times gets on my nerves.
It is not only my mum, dad and 4 younger sis that are in this religion it is also my mums mum, dad, older bros, 2 younger bros and 2 younger sis. And my dad's mum and brother. My dads brother is also an important part of my religions conregation.
My dad does not often go to the meetings that our religion has because of work but, also does not like going because my mums mum used to show him of to every 1 because he was also an important part of our religions conregation but now is not a important.
I like going to the conregation because all the people there are so nice but i feel out of place

2007-04-11 04:49:44 · 6 answers · asked by hatterhans 1 in Family

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about seven months now. In his past probably like 5 to 7 years ago he had a girlfriend that he cheated on. When we were first going out in our relationship he did explain how he did cheat on her and how he felt bad after the fact, and how he was caught. I've personally have been cheated on in the past relationship, and it seems like i'm having trust issues with him. For example, how he's always working and even on his days off hes working overtime. But he works at a call center were he claims they hardly ever have time to talk to anyone. He does call me from his job from time to time when hes working on his days off but its like, i seem to still not trust him. I feel that if he cheated on his girlfriend in the past he will cheat on me. Honestly I mean he really hasn't given me any reason not to trust him. But it seems like I just can't. So what should i believe he will cheat on me like he did to his ex? Or how can i learn to trust him

2007-04-11 04:45:19 · 22 answers · asked by starlight2007 1 in Singles & Dating

of very little contact following my parents divorce and any contact that was actually had was rather cold/hostile. She's recently asked me to be her maid-of-honor when she gets re-married. I told her I wasn't sure, that it was kind of fast for me considering all that's happened between us. She says she understands that, to a point, and that she's been my mother for 20 years and it would mean a lot to her. I just don't know which would be the wisest decision. I really don't know how much I even want to attend the wedding let alone be her m-o-h; it'd probably be better for our mending relationship if I just did it, but we really haven't done a lot yet to let it mend. I know it's been years, but it still hurts when I think about it, but for the most part I just can't feel that mad or upset about it anymore at least not anywhere near to the degree that I used to feel, so maybe I should just let it go. What do you think?

2007-04-11 04:45:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im just curious and at the same time confuse. Sometimes i wonder if i dont love him anymore or if im just with him because off all this time. I dont know if this is normal do you have to feel like the first time you fall in love andwhen your married or does that evolves in something else but still is love. I hope someone can answer my question. I still feel i love him but fwel at the same time that is differrent. I still think our relatioship needs work and i up to do it and for the first time yesterday i really felt that he was up to it too.

2007-04-11 04:43:10 · 24 answers · asked by user 3 in Marriage & Divorce

To all the guys out there who have a phobia of commitment: What is the safest way to bring it up in conversation? Been dating for about a year now, and I am nervous to have the "talk". He is very set in his ways. What should I say? I feel it's important to me if I am going to continue with this relationship.

2007-04-11 04:41:47 · 8 answers · asked by Bunnikins 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever been "too" close to a female friend of your wife? Not to say you did anything, but did you feel more than attracted to a friend of your wife? Did your wife realize it and say something?

I'm asking because a few years back I think my husband was attracted to my friend. I've never seen him be that way with anyone else, so it's not like I'm always suspicious. But this friend of mine is a better 'housewive' than me and is easy going and fun. I'm fun, but I tend to be a ***** at times (I'll admit it) and I'm clean but not like near-perfect like my friend. They always laugh just a little too much together, ya know what I mean? Well when I confronted him, of course he denied it. Should this worry me? We're happy and are best friends, so am I just tripping out or what?

2007-04-11 04:37:48 · 10 answers · asked by me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

will be celebrating 13 years of legal obligation to my wife next month. She has been hinting that she wants to get matching wedding band tattoos on our fingers.

First off, I'm not thrilled with the tattoo idea, due to the tattoo = STD connection.

Moreover though, I have a feeling that when I travel overseas on ministry opportunities it will affect my "singles ministry", if you know what I am try to say.

Would other girls, such as Buddhist Asian girls know right away what a tattoo on my wedding finger would mean?

God Bless

2007-04-11 04:37:37 · 17 answers · asked by Kermit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I always start to like people and then they tell me they dont want to ruin our friendship. Im tired of being just the cool girl friend, i want to be more than that what do i do

2007-04-11 04:36:58 · 7 answers · asked by carriestrader 1 in Singles & Dating

well theres this guy name phin n he's my friends bro and well on sat we all hung out me my friend jen n him n his sis and well @ 1st he started to touch me n ask me if i wanted to lay on his lap but then i was like no later on he started to touch my butt and hold my hand but i pushed away later at like 8pm we held hands flirted hugged each other then we kiss i had fun,. but the nxt day i ask his sis if he likes me and well he said he does but he has a girlfriend. i'm confused y would u lead me on when u have a girlfriend help i dont kno what to do and i like him alot. (even tho hes my xbf cuzin) help

2007-04-11 04:34:11 · 13 answers · asked by ☮&♥ (: 1 in Singles & Dating

I grew up with foreign frugal parents, so I don't go nuts shopping. I buy sales etc. He didn't grow up with a silver spoon, but he loves his boy toys, thinks nothing of getting things that are "important". He wants me to now save on spending when I already do the best I can, which to him and I had been "normal". Help! What do I fix? His views (if so, how?) or what? {I should have spent money before, then I'd have something to cut back on!}

2007-04-11 04:32:56 · 10 answers · asked by Valeria 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-11 04:31:52 · 35 answers · asked by nopainsnogains27 1 in Marriage & Divorce

JUST FOR FUN, because I love hearing everyone else stories!!

I think the rudest thing I saw at a wedding was where the head table got all different types of food and drinks.... sitting up high in front of everyone.. And everyone else-, the guest, just got chicken and beer. I know you have a budget but how can you eat a steak and drink champange in front of all your guest?? LOL

2007-04-11 04:31:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

might get one .. dnt noo ..

2007-04-11 04:29:16 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k well i dated her from 5/5/2005 to 8/20/06 and i know for a fact she's the one cuz ive tryed to move on ive dated but every time i do i go and think and want to be with her so the relationship with the current girl doesnt last for more than 2-3 weeks i know she is the one i want and well she thinks she loves him no but he is dirt he does drugs cheats onher on the side tho she doesnt realize it and wont believe me and then she plays these games with me from time to time and im sick of it its driving me up the wall and messing with my head
and if i could jus prove to her some thing anything that she means more than words could say to me and this other dude she is dating is trash and if she could see me and just see how much i still love her after weve be broken up for almost 8 months now she constantly runs threw my head i swear i think i hear her voice still and god knows i screwed up in the relationship but if i could i would take back every bad thing that happened & do things diff.

2007-04-11 04:23:59 · 11 answers · asked by clifton l 1 in Singles & Dating

I was with a girl for 4 years and she moved back home 1 1/2 years ago (to S. America), so it became long distance. Even though I was ready to marry her and was planning on doing it this spring, she told me 3 months ago that she met someone in her country, he proposed, she accepted, and they got married last month. I think she was obsessed with getting married and this is what she did, she didnt think I would do it and made a rash choice. Her family/friends did not agree with her choice, wanted her to marry me. I begged but she wouldnt change her mind. I love her and am in a immense depression. She has been married 6 weeks and last week she emailed my mom out of the blue and said she cries every day for me bcs she knows I am sad. She said she thinks about me and dreams about me each day. Says her husband is trying to help her "forget me." She said she wants to try with her marriage but that she cries every day bcs. she knows I am suffering. Can I write her? Call? Nothing? Girls, advice!

2007-04-11 04:23:53 · 17 answers · asked by robert7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Whatever doesn't kill him will only make him stronger is that not correct, so if he survives the alcoholic poisioning he will be better for the experience, is that not good parenting?

2007-04-11 04:23:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Would you cut off you own family if your in laws told you to?
Long story short, our families do not like each other, but my family just wants us to be happy so they're not a problem. But my in-laws from day 1 has made it their mission to tear us apart. Now, they want me to cut off my family. What do I do?
He's more willing to choose his family over me and our unborn child. I told him I'm willing to cut of mine, but I'm cutting of his too then. All I want is to be happy with him. But I'm beginning to think it's a lost cause.

2007-04-11 04:19:40 · 12 answers · asked by hsk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can not spell the word right but they say it's the place where lovers go.

2007-04-11 04:17:09 · 9 answers · asked by keyma b 1 in Weddings