2007-04-11 05:09:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When both of you have:
respect
loyalty
honesty
goals
maturity
These are important in a relationship...
2007-04-11 05:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My wife and I moved in together after we had dated for about 6 months. We were serious about our relationship by then. You don't really know a person till you live with them, so it is a good thing to do at some point before marriage. Do yourself a favor though and arrange things like you would with a roommate..responsibility wise and financial wise, that way you have an easy out if thing don't work...you know like 1 person being stuck with a lease or whatever. Also I would try to avoid the I'm a man and this is my responsibility and you're a woman this is yours....know what I mean....best of luck you two:)
2007-04-11 12:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by johnkmayer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have made this decision before - unlike some here - when we both were in favour of the idea we did it. I'm not divorced or a statistic either, I made these decisions once I was mature enough to know what I was getting into. If you are pondering doing the same - I wish you luck.
2007-04-12 03:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by WMD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would have to say that depends on every relationship. You have to make that decision for yourself. If you think that it will save money and you will both get along fine and that you may eventually marry this girl, then go for it. But then again, you may want to think about if you dont wanna eventually marry her. Then dont do it cause its just a bad ending all together.
2007-04-11 12:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right now, 70% of couples who live together BEFORE marriage end up getting divorced.
I would recommend that you stay in separate housing till you are married. Otherwise, its more than likely a recipie for disaster.
Good luck.
2007-04-11 12:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by sweetblueyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the above statements but you realize the choice is your decision. My girlfriend moved in with me the first day we met and we are still going strong. so...to tell you the truth when you guys are ready for it. ~~Good Luck~~
2007-04-11 12:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by Ripsi W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am at the point where I have seen so many couples who move into together but dont get married and bad things happen. I would wait at least until you are sure you want to propose and get married. Before that, its just that things get complex. If you think right now you would like to marry her....propose...if she wants to live together first...do it.....if she wants to get married first...do that too.
2007-04-11 12:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't move in to an apartment with your girlfriend... You move in with your wife. If you are not ready to make that commitment, then you are not ready to play house.
2007-04-11 12:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i would do it if you know that you'll be together for a long time. it's really hard to mix all of your stuff together and then to break up in a year or two and then have to seperate it all again is a nightmare!
2007-04-11 12:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right after the honeymoon, any time sooner and you are just asking for trouble. Only little children play house.
2007-04-11 12:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont
listen to tom likis, or i think thats how u spell it
i have been listening to him for awhile and everything he talks about is absolutely true.
dont do it
its on 97.1 between 3 to i think 7
he is a genius
2007-04-11 12:13:56 · answer #11 · answered by Jake C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋