k well i dated her from 5/5/2005 to 8/20/06 and i know for a fact she's the one cuz ive tryed to move on ive dated but every time i do i go and think and want to be with her so the relationship with the current girl doesnt last for more than 2-3 weeks i know she is the one i want and well she thinks she loves him no but he is dirt he does drugs cheats onher on the side tho she doesnt realize it and wont believe me and then she plays these games with me from time to time and im sick of it its driving me up the wall and messing with my head
and if i could jus prove to her some thing anything that she means more than words could say to me and this other dude she is dating is trash and if she could see me and just see how much i still love her after weve be broken up for almost 8 months now she constantly runs threw my head i swear i think i hear her voice still and god knows i screwed up in the relationship but if i could i would take back every bad thing that happened & do things diff.
2007-04-11 04:23:59 · 11 answers · asked by clifton l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on, your penis is obviously too small.
2007-04-11 04:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The reason your new relationships don't last is because you're obscessed with your old girl friend and you're not giving anything to the new relationship, so it cannot survive.
No matter if he is dirt and treats her like dirt (he surely does) and cheats, until SHE realizes it and leaves him, she will stay in that abusive relationship.
since she plays games with you at times, she is part of the problem, not just the other guy. She choses not to face or deal with HER problems, so she is not capable of having a good or serious relationship.
You CANNOT FIX HER! You need to accept that she's unhealthy emotionally and you cannot cure her and she chooses to NOT deal with her illness.
You cannot take back what was bad in your relationship with her. It's done. It cannot be undone. The relationship is dead. You need counseling to learn what YOU need in a relationship for it to be a healthy relationship for YOU.
She's NOT the "ONE". For each of us there are many possible partners out there. When we are healthy enough to have a good relationship, we will find one of those people.
2007-04-11 13:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by Nedra E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn dude grow a pair and become a man. Move on from this tramp and don't look back. She thinks you are a wimp and you seem to be proving her right. No wonder she dumped you for a real guy. She continues to screw with your head and you let her. What does that say about you?
Spineless and emotional is no way for a man to go through life.
2007-04-11 11:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her go she is not worth it. I was in a relationship for 5 years and when we broke up my ex wanted to be back with me sooo bad that it drove me crazy. He would call me all the time and when he would try to mess things up with me and my new boyfriend it made me hate him, but when he stopped trying so hard I then wanted thought I wanted more. So leave her alone and if it is meant to be she will come back to you. Also if you keep this up she will cut off all contact with you.
2007-04-11 11:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by meg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't do anything- get over it. If she doesn't want to be with you, there's NOTHING you can do about it. And if she is getting in bad relationships, you better stay clear because you don't want to be the temporary "rebound" guys she goes to everytime she *&!'s up in another relationship. If you are concerned, tell her honestly how you feel and what you think she should do, that's all you can do if your a true friend.
Peace.
2007-04-11 11:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try getting proof on her current guy, but don't be force it. if she doesn't have interests in you she wont come back to you even if you have the proof. thats the hard part about these kind of things. do you know if she still does? but the least you could do is to help her out. i really don't know what else to tell you. good luck with that.
2007-04-11 11:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey she may feel the same way, she may have moved on to forget about her feelings about you.. she may be thinking about you too silly boy.
Just becuase she is dating someone doesn't mean she is inlove with him. Right you don't love everyone you date
Call and talk to her what do you have to lose. you have already lost her, but it may work out that you could get her back. Good Luck
2007-04-11 11:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by Grace's Mommy.. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get used to missing her and lying to yourself that it might still work out..."some day". Been 6 1/2 months and that's where I am still sitting!
2007-04-11 11:27:54 · answer #8 · answered by Cricket 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Youll get over her it could take even a year. Seeing her every now and then certainly won't help. Avoid her. man, before you go nuts.
2007-04-11 11:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by dimeuhday 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be her best friend. She needs to love you as a friend.. so that when this other guy does her wrong and she finds out... who she gunna turn to? you. and thats when you'll be there for her. she'll realise your the only guy for her.. and seriously if this guy does everything you say he does than you sure as hell need to tell her friends to tell her he's doing all this ****.
2007-04-11 11:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by lexy d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to move on because you can't make someone want you that does not want you......someone told me "if you can't be with the one you love then love the one you are with"
2007-04-11 11:28:03 · answer #11 · answered by sexsired 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋