JUST FOR FUN, because I love hearing everyone else stories!!
I think the rudest thing I saw at a wedding was where the head table got all different types of food and drinks.... sitting up high in front of everyone.. And everyone else-, the guest, just got chicken and beer. I know you have a budget but how can you eat a steak and drink champange in front of all your guest?? LOL
2007-04-11 04:31:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I went to a wedding and the Best Man's toast was more appropriate for a bachelor party toast-- made fun of the bride for her past of sleeping with some of the other guests, presented the couple with a mason jar for the groom's balls to be kept in now that they are married, and made a few other comments that were totally inappropriate. It made everyone completely uncomfortable and the bride was so angry, but didn't know how to stop it.
2007-04-11 04:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ilovecheese 2 · 12⤊ 0⤋
We were invited to a wedding where the guests where invited to go directly to the reception hall after the ceremony. The hall was about five minutes away, and we call got there and sat...and sat....and sat. There were a couple of vats of potatoe salad and some veggie trays out, but no drinks offered or anything. The official word was that the bride and groom had gone to 'pick up the chicken.' After an hour and a half, people started offering to go out for food and before long everyone had take out fast food eating at their tables. Finally after two hours and fifteen minutes the couple have the nerve to show up all flushed and disheveled with a couple of big bags of gas station chicken.
2007-04-11 06:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by MaxitudesMamma 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Gosh...who can top all of those stories!
Mine is lame, but here it goes anyway.
In a very very high-end wedding in Manhattan, they hired this phography director that was in charge of the photgraphy and the video. The guy was so rude and had a very short temper. He thought he was Steven Spielberg!! He screamed and yelled and barked orders to the guests comanding them to "smile" , "get ot of the way", and to get into certain positions. He was not polite at all and we are all told when to smile and where to stand. It really took away from the moment on the ceremony and there was no spontainety at all.
Even getting out of the church was STAGED! He even made the bride and groom get out of the church a second time because the prima-donna photography director didn't like it. So there goes the bride AGAIN and the wedding party our of the church and guests re-staging her first walk out of the church and their smiles...horrible and RUDE.
Good luck
2007-04-11 05:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I've seen people getting drunk and fighting more times than I care to remember, I am not against alcohol, I just think that as adults people need to be more responsible and stop when they have had enough, it's appalling seeing a couple brawling at a wedding. I also hate this new trend where people think it's a good idea to ask for cash, to me that's just rude. I know no one wants 4 toasters, but if you have everything you need then ask for inexpensive items that you can't have too many of, like towels and bedding.
2007-04-11 06:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Nah I wouldn't take it personally. Her loss, and I wouldn't bring it up, but respect her boundaries and just be polite if she approaches you. She may not consider being a third cousin as family, like you do. Also, blocking someone on Facebook isn't being rude, it's just someone wanting their privacy and the more you push the more they'll pull away. Be the better person, is the mature and likable way to handle it.
2016-05-17 09:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At my wedding two things occurred. First, people brought guests who were not invited. One couple brought their child, who had not been invited. A few people brought friends/dates and my MIL even invited a few people without telling me. Luckily we had room but all the extra people ending up costing several hundred dollars more. Second, one of these extra people threw a hissy fit because she couldn't sit where she wanted. She was the girlfriend of one of the groomsmen and was mad that she couldn't sit at the head table with him. I hadn't invited her to begin with because I don't like her, they haven't date long, she knew no one else there, and I knew she wouldn't be able to spend time with him. Her showing up and throwing a fit was just great. Luckily my MOH was wonderful the whole day and dealt with all the little things that came up.
2007-04-11 06:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by rosekm 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well for me it wasn't at the wedding but I got an invitation to a bachelorette party and told that it would be $60 per person for the limo and that they were sorry they couldn't invite me to the wedding. I just thought that was so rude that they wanted me to go out drive 3 hours to meet them then spend around $100 to celebrate something I wasn’t even going to be able to witness.
2007-04-11 04:49:55 · answer #7 · answered by fallenangelf99 3 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Rudest thing I saw at a wedding was a friend of mine who's mother refused to have her "ethnic" friends on her side of the reception hall -- so we were sat with the grooms family.
2007-04-11 06:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Scarlett 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I threw out our maid of honor AND the best man at our reception. Both were drunk as a skunk! The best man decided to start dropping drinks down from the top level on to the people below. Then he was calling to the bus boy-"Yeah Juan, pick it up" (Our reception was at The Cheesecake Factory) The restaurant threatened to call the police if we didn't get him to leave. I was so upset, I threw him out! Then my maid of honor who had been cut off by the bartender, only she didn't know that, made her fiancee go home early so she could hit on my husbands friends who came from Connecticut to celebrate. When she heard that the Best man had been thrown out, she came into the bathroom where I was with one of my bridesmaids and friends and she made a huge scene. She was asking me what the F*@k was wrong with me for throwing out the best man and she physically attacked me. We fought! It was insane!!!! What's sad was she didn't know the situation behind the best man leaving so she ended up feeling stupid when she found out the next day. I made my brother throw her out. I was upset that night but now we all laugh about it. We are all still friends and hey.. .who can say they threw out their maid of honor and the best man? lol
2007-04-11 06:11:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jenn117 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
i have been at one that the ex girlfriend of the groom showed up. and stood up when the priest asked 'does anyone feel these to should not wed today' and then she started yelling at the groom for cheating on her with the soon to be bride. she didn't get much more out of her mouth untill two guys drug her white trash butt out of the church. it was a little weird from that point on.
2007-04-11 08:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋