Family & Relationships - 11 April 2007

Need advice from all you married people out there!!

I have been married for 3 years and for some reason lately my husband is driving me crazy. Everything he says and does....I can't stand. No, I don't want to get divorced and no I don't want anyone else.......but I can't hardly stand to be around him right now. Not even sure why! It's things like he hasn't worked in 2 weeks, never helps me out with the kids, his 18 year old slacker of a kid just moved in with us....and he does nothing to discipline this wreck of a child, complains because the house isn't clean enough constantly, talks about the most boring **** on the planet, embarrasses me at family get togethers, etc.

So the question is: Has anyone else felt like this towards their significant other? Will it pass? Thanks!

2007-04-11 03:32:00 · 8 answers · asked by love2dance 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If you met a guy, and have been dating for a year, do you think it's ok for him to be on the dating site you met on? He doesn't know that I know he's still on there. I don't think he has gone out with anyone else...but should I tell him that I know and ask him why he is still on there?

2007-04-11 03:31:13 · 12 answers · asked by Bunnikins 2 in Singles & Dating

We are looking into adopting an older child. My son's twin was overdosed in the hospital 4 years ago, (when he was 6 1/2) and we .... know that we know.... we are going to adopt. We took the adoption training classes last August. Does anyone know any child between the ages of 6-10 that needs adopted. We are a Christian family and look forward to meeting the child we have been praying for. Our son wants to know when the new boy is coming. We have dealt with special needs, so we are pretty open to children and pray they will "put-up" with us too. :o) Thanks in advance. Email me at Amore4Christ@yahoo.com

2007-04-11 03:30:08 · 6 answers · asked by amore4christ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-11 03:30:00 · 15 answers · asked by amit4daksh 1 in Singles & Dating

Or guideline, or common range, etc?

2007-04-11 03:29:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So I met this girl about four months ago and we have been hanging out a lot since. I did ask her on a date a couple of weeks after I met her, but she wanted to be friends. Recently she came over to hang out, it was just me, my friend, and her. We had a few drinks, and went out for some food. When we were there she kept saying she was not looking for a boyfriend right now and she needed some dudes to hang out with, but I was her favorite, and kept putting her head on my shoulder. The next night we hung out with more of my friends and by the end of the night we ended up on my roof, where she laid on me, and we talked until she fell asleep. After awhile I woke her up and we went back inside and fell asleep in my bed. After that she really started to hang out with me, even went to a movie together the next weekend, though it was with one of her friends and one of my buddies who has been hanging out with her friend. I am lost does she like me more than a friend? What does she want? HELP!

2007-04-11 03:29:30 · 17 answers · asked by CJS GuitarMan 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 03:29:25 · 22 answers · asked by nate v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im pregnant 7 wks , and i fancy my bloke so much, weve done most things but how can i show him he means the world to me ,

2007-04-11 03:25:19 · 17 answers · asked by daisy30 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boy have been togather for 4 months and i really do think that i am "inlove" with him...is this possible?

2007-04-11 03:24:55 · 19 answers · asked by Princess Kay ! 2 in Singles & Dating

i know its crazy ... but still what say LOL

2007-04-11 03:24:21 · 4 answers · asked by barley 2 in Singles & Dating

Lately being a single mom (seperated from husband not divorced) I have been getting hit on by men way older than me and I was wondering. Are there guys between the ages of 22 - 29 interested in dating a 22 year old single mom? If so what attracts you to them. Any stories or encounters welcomed.

2007-04-11 03:24:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 03:22:51 · 5 answers · asked by tinabadina 3 in Family

2007-04-11 03:22:31 · 9 answers · asked by Jennifer N 1 in Family

agree or disagree?

2007-04-11 03:20:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well... how do you cope with the diffrent attributes of your mil and yourself in bringing up ur kids. you want a time table.. she says no feed them whenever ,
you give them fruits in day but she wont listen etc etc ...just how do u cope?

2007-04-11 03:19:41 · 6 answers · asked by barley 2 in Family

my ex of only a month asked me to marry him at christmas, we had a bit of a rocky past about him leaving me then coming back but i have a six year old son to him so i thought i would give him a chance so i said yes, 4 weeks ago he came in said that it was not gonna work and moved out.
he has seen my son every week and things on that side are fine, now he has met this new girl friend and after two weeks she is giving up her flat to move in to his house, i feel this is very quick and even though they were friends 15 years ago, i dont want my son being with her and getting attached to her if they are not gonna work. but every one is saying that if they have mved in together then its the real thing

2007-04-11 03:17:44 · 23 answers · asked by clairexxxx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been together 4 a year and a half, and have a 3 month old daughter. they are my world. i love him, but he's very critical of me and we fight bad sometimes. he wants nothing more than to get married, but i am worried about his motives. right now as an unwed mother i have full custodial rights, and if something were to happen, i take her with me. if we get married, things get nasty in matters of custody. she is my only child and i love her more than life it's self. i couldn't live without her. then again, i love him and want to make him happy and let him know i want to spend the rest of my life with him...

2007-04-11 03:16:37 · 10 answers · asked by cassie w 2 in Family

And sisters don't help. I have 2 sisters. but ehy are all married and all. My parents soon, will retire and i live with them. So after they stop working i'm to take care of everything but how in the world can i do it alone.. with a simple 12 an hour job? Have houses that we have still not fininished paying... trucks that my father bought that still not payed. . a bunch of stuff. He built a house in mexico( well he didn't but he paid^__^ ), and a bunch of other things.

And then he has apartments he bought, in a city near by here in CA. And there's a bunch of payments to do for that.

I don't get it, how will i do all this by myself? Then besides that i have my own college loan to pay. .

2007-04-11 03:14:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been married for 2 years. I got engaged 3 years ago, and when my husband and I were looking for rings, I told him i did not want a big ring. I only did so because i felt really bad that he didn't have much money and knew he had been working overtime for 3 months to get me one. I was also not too sure what carats ment at the time. I told him i liked the 3 stone rings (because he was complaining how much the solitaires were). So i told him i liked them too (which i did at the time). Anyways, I do not like my engagment ring anymore. I did get a diamond wedding band, and my husband bought me another one for our 1st year anniversary. I would like to change my ring to a solitaire. I had mentioned it to the jewler and he told me that he could keep the band and i wouldn't be much work. Question is how do i ask my husband/tell him i want to change my engagment ring. We have the money now, we didn't before. Please help!!!!

2007-04-11 03:12:03 · 22 answers · asked by Nurse Amy 2 in Weddings

i am in rel now almost 1 yr and i want to move on and i want to scape from my partner bc i feel he loves me...but i scared if nobodys accept me bc of my past he is my first romance and all...he older than me our deff is 3 times to him...i thought its better to love the guy who is older than you but i feel were not compatible

2007-04-11 03:11:45 · 7 answers · asked by sweetypink 1 in Singles & Dating

We are in our middle 50's. I am out of town. Husband goes to strip club and looks at women as young as eighteen fully nude with other older men he works with. Stays out all night till 6:oo in the morning and goes back to work full day one hour latter? He witheld information and caught it on credit card. Lapdance included by most of married co-workers.He claims he stood at the bar and " I touched no one and no one touched me"? We have a good relationship and tells me our sex life is great? We disscussed strip clubs 3 months prior to him going, and I told him it would hurt my feelings. He said the guys put him in their car to take him back to his vehical........instead they took him to a very nasty club in a bad area. Prostitution and massage parlor avenue! Many of these older men cheat on their wives....... and encourage heavy drinking when together. He has told me about them in the past. Then deliberately goes out on the town with them knowing how they are. It has caused us problems.

2007-04-11 03:10:29 · 9 answers · asked by Lindsey 4 in Singles & Dating

My 37yr old husband of 10 years underwent 6 months of intensive weekly chemotherapy to treat his cancer.It was a really stressful time for me.Because he had to spend so much time in hospital I would often get really lonely as we have no children and I started an affair with one of his friends.I know it sounds terrible but it's very hard for a woman my age (32) to go from having a great sex life to no sex life at all.I honestly feel terribly about the 4 month long affair and am considering telling him now that we found out he is in remission last week.My husband is a truly wonderful man and a great husband and I hate the thought of hurting him but I feel like he deserves to know.Would you tell him?

2007-04-11 03:07:01 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a woman was forcefully married to a guy, and had sex would that be classed as rape? Anyone with experiences are welcome to shed their views on the matter.

2007-04-11 03:05:49 · 13 answers · asked by Honey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What was it, the moment that you fell in love, that made it happen? Something she said? She did? A reaction? A look?
Where were you?

2007-04-11 02:59:37 · 3 answers · asked by Bunnikins 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-11 02:57:58 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone I know highly suspects that his wife is cheating. He does not want to do anything illegal. He knows anything connected to a telephone would be ,so he would like to know if it is legal to put a recorder in his house.

2007-04-11 02:55:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am average woman pretty, smart, witty, funny, friendly, caring, thoughtful, giving, compassionate, and down to earth. I am an adult who is getting rid to go to college but I have never been in a relationship. I wanted to know why I was still single. Its not that I don't attract guys because I have pently of guy friends. My best friend is a guy but my other friends (girls) are always trying to convince me to go out with him. I won't because my heart isn't into, but he says he will always love me. I often find myself in my own mind daydreaming about the perfect guy but I am tried of daydreaming, and I want a companion. I am not desperate because I refuse to settle for anything. I must say I am kinda picky but I am not cocky. I often turn guys down and become friends with them. I think I am nervous about dating because I often find myself attract the white men and I am black (problem?) My family is cool but there is still that southern mentality. Should I make the first move or wait.

2007-04-11 02:50:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this new friend Dan, that I met in college. He's very nice, caring, and he's got a bit of a wild/crazy side to him too. We are not dating, never even considered it, we are just friends. I live off of campus and he lives on campus and when we party, sometimes I spend the night w/ him so that I don't have to drive home. Nothing happens when I spend the night. We even sleep in entirely different beds. I have this other friend who I also met in college and have known longer. I'm not dating him either, but, for some reason, he is very much bothered by the fact that I spend the night w/ Dan. He claims that he doesn't care, but he always makes sarcastic comments like "tell dan i said hi" or "ask dan if he will let you come over", etc. I tell him that nothing @ all goes on between us, that he is just concerned about me and doesn't want me to drive home. To this statement, my second friend replies "yeah ok whatever" what does he think is going on and why does he act the way he does??

2007-04-11 02:49:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 02:46:46 · 14 answers · asked by Tambria C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am really struggling trying to find a balance with breastfeeding a 6 month old, playing with a 3 year old, a full time job from 7:00am to 4:00pm and still have the energy for my husband in the evening . I am so tired and can’t even find time for myself these days. Does anyone have some inspiring advice that could help me?

2007-04-11 02:46:43 · 13 answers · asked by Autum 1 in Family