Sometimes it bothers me, there are no kids involved.
Im kinda ashamed, like I'm Mrs ------ the 3rd.
Is this mad?
2007-04-11 03:33:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey - I'm Mrs. 3 too!! Not that big of deal, especially if there are no kids involved. (My husband has a son.) I occassionally tease him about it....but it doesn't really bother me. At least I know he wasn't out slutting around since he was married!
2007-04-11 03:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by love2dance 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you knew about it before you became Mrs. # 3 it didn't bother you then so why is it bothering you now?
Sometimes we marry the wrong person or think we have married the right person and something later down the road says we didn't. It happens all the time. Sometimes you find these men that yes something is wrong with them and it is already to late to back out of the marriage and that is why they always end up in a divorce. But people can change and if that person can't or won't change the reasons of what makes their spouces leave them then they'll will always be faced with that over and over again.
Don't dwell in the past the future is all you have, who cares how many times he's been married, he's married to you now and maybe you are the one that will be there till' his dieing day. Forget about it, don't let it bother you, the more you let it bother you the more problems you are going to have about the issue.
2007-04-11 03:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let’s see, either it took him a couple times to realize the boo boo’s he was making & he’s a slow learner, OR I’d take it as a sign that something is fowl in Denmark. I’ll try to keep it brief & split my answer. No, it wouldn’t bother me so much as it’s pretty common that people are getting married rather young as I suspect he did the first one of two times & I think people don’t seem to realize how serious marriage really should be considered. It is NOT only just about love, it’s also a matter of sharing a life with another person. Get it. But at the same time YES, it would bother me because he ended up divorced for a reason. I’m sure a pretty damn good one too. No one just wakes up one morning & says “hey let’s get divorced.” I would only hope that whatever transpired to result in divorce in those other two situations, was long since resolved & lessons were learned.
2007-04-11 04:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To sum it up frankly: NO, HELL NO. I'd have to ask the question. Why is there something wrong with a married woman's husband that would keep him from having sex with his wife for more than twice a month. Serious issues. I hope you get satisfaction in ALL areas of your life.
2016-03-17 23:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am engaged and my fiancé has been married twice before. He has explained the situations to me and I really am not bothered by the reasons. But, now a member of my family has learned of this and now I feel like I am being looked down upon. And I definitely feel like they look at me and my engagement as a farce and something to not be taken seriously. Now, its making me feel uncomfortable and I have given second thought to whether or not I am doing the right thing. Whats wrong with me? How do I handle this?
2015-03-22 17:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unless you are the type he seems not to like and are worried about being dumped for a possible 4th Mrs----. Best thing to do is find out what it was that attracted him to you and what you are doing right and what can be prevented from you doing wrong. Or it may be him wanting to trade in the old model every so often. You better question him before you get a rude surprise
2007-04-11 03:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter? Mine has been married twice before as well. Im just glad he moved a little further up the alphabet, his first 2 wives and 1 girlfriend were all named brenda. Why are you ashamed? He had a past he made mistakes, as long as you dont think your divorce number 3 what does it matter?
2007-04-11 03:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would probably bother me too, a bit. It kind of makes him look a bit unstable...but I do know a couple for whom this is her 4th husband and his 3rd (or the other way around), and they've been happily married for many years now!
2007-04-11 03:37:48 · answer #8 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. You already married him!
Just make sure that you keep your marriage alive so that you don't become Mrs. Ex #3.
2007-04-11 03:38:31 · answer #9 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had to solve this situation BEFORE you married him,not AFTER;now it's too late baby...(like the song)
You have to live with....until you clear the space for the next one (the number 4)
Good luck and don't worry about numbers.
2007-04-11 03:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋