My Husband thinks it is Ok to wake me up in the middle of the night to conversate about whatever. He also thinks that it is Ok to wake me up before sunrise to see the sunrise, talk, take a walk, or get a breath of fresh air. Whenever He wants.
What do you think.
2007-04-11 03:42:38 · 31 answers · asked by So Different 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
how lovely of him....romantic and sweet.....
Anyone ever notice how you get a thumbs down from the questioner if they haven't gotten the answer they were looking for?????
Okay.....dump him!
2007-04-11 03:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is very romantic to see a sunrise, together, with someone you love, but it obviously isn't so romantic for you, so instead of hurting his feelings by being upset when you talk to him, wait for a time when you know its the right time and just let him know that you think it is so sweet and romantic, that he likes to watch the sun rise and talk to you in the middle of the night, you would rather sleep, because you don't feel so great the next day, since it interferes with your sleep, but have another option for him to show how romantic side, or even maybe plan on watching the sun come up together on one of your days off and then catch an hour nap with him later? Good luck!
2007-04-11 03:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Belinda D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHA! I find this hilarious because it is a common discussion between my BFF and I. She is on your side, saying "Don't F-ing wake me up!". And at this point, after 10 years of marriage, I'm coming around to her side of it. That said, she also says that if he can have sex with her without waking her up, then that's fine!! Of course you have the right to say no and he shouldn't be an immature little brat because he doesn't get what he wants. What he should do is put a little effort in during the day time if he wants some or learn to use his hand in the middle of the night.
2016-05-17 09:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are probably tired - but it is really nice to have someone who would wake you up to talk or see a sunrise. Not too many men are like that. My ex and I would just lay in bed all nite talking and I miss that. But it sounds like you are angry when you say whenever he wants. So something else is going on maybe??
2007-04-11 05:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by Babycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its totally romantic, however, I understand how this could be annoying if it was something that happened alot. I would discuss it with him and set some guidelines about this. eg. sunrises only on weekends - discussing "whatever" only if it pertains to you. If it was about his work or something not involving you - I would request that discussion wait until your awake hours. But I do think the sunrise, walk, talk, fresh air etc. is romantic.
2007-04-11 04:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the best sex I ever had with my wife was when she woke me up in the middle of the night!!!!!!!She died 17 years ago, I live alone and boy do I miss her and some of the conversations we had walking on the beach watching the sunrise. If you have never done it, try it. You have a special man who loves you.
2007-04-11 03:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you tried telling him you would rather sleep your full 8 hours? He may be simply trying to share what he thinks is a good thing. If you have already told him this, then he's simply being selfish and inconsiderate. (I know, I _had_ a husband like that.) You may be better off sleeping in another room that you can lock, but then he'd probably wake you up by banging on your door.
2007-04-11 03:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by moonshadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appartenly- he feels more intimate at night and wants to share special times with you. That's a good thing! Maybe grab a cat nap in the middle of the day to re-energize yourself. Cherish those late night talks...if something were to happen to either one of you- you would be very grateful for those memories.
2007-04-11 03:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by Rebecca A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't even allow my wife to say good morning to me until I've had 14 minutes to wake up, brush my teeth, take a leak and have a slightly chilled diet coke.
This waking up stuff would have to end the marriage if it was I suffering this torture.
2007-04-11 03:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by Kermit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey,
I think its sweet, annoying, but sweet! You should go, you might find you'll enjoy it! Who else is gonna wake you up, just to know what you think, or who else is goinna wake you up just to spend time holding your hand and looking into your eyes and taking a walk...think of it this way...life is not promised to us and we should all appreciate the time we have together anything can change in the blink of an eye!
2007-04-11 03:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is romantic of him to do that
my boyfriend has woken me u a few times in the middle of the night just to talk and I dont mind at all because he is sharing things with me and is comfortable enough to do so.
2007-04-11 03:49:36 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋