Family & Relationships - 4 April 2007

2007-04-04 13:35:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When a man invites you over to his place for a second date to cook for you; does that mean he just wants sex or does he really like you?

2007-04-04 13:31:04 · 18 answers · asked by PEPSI 2 in Singles & Dating

Im already not happy with my relationship. It makes me think life sucks. i love my boyfriend i really do. but i found myself attracted to this other guy who told me what i wanted to hear.

My boyfriend found out and got pissed. He thinks it would be best for us to move out seperately but still date. we have been together for 4 years now. I have tried to do this before to save our relationship but he smothered me into staying.

now we are in the process of moving out. he is startin to get cold feet, but me i am not sure what i want to do. my life right now doesnt thrill me in anyway, but i dont want to lose my home with him.

I have no idea what to do. When he cheated i immediately got back with him...i dont know why , but its because i didnt want to lose him. that was almost 2 years ago.

I do want to meet new girls and make good friends but i cant do that with him. he is too controlling.

WHAT SHOULD I DO??

2007-04-04 13:30:29 · 1 answers · asked by Mandi R 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This woman lies so frigin much, I swear you could ask her what she had for dinner and she would lie for the sake of lying. She lies about me and the FIL has the nerve to call me and yell at me when she is lying...stuff that doesnt even make sense! This is the 3rd time in like 2 years and Ive had it! Its like she sets me up for stuff or something, asks me flat out to take care of something and then lies and says I butted in. I need to carry a tape recorder on me or something so he beleives me, but then again I just dont care anymore what they think. I lost all respect for them. Anyhow my husband hates them and we decided to cut them out, anyone had to do it and if so is it wrong? I just dont want something bad to happen to them and feel bad later, but man I would rather feel bad a little bit later than all the time now! Ya know?

2007-04-04 13:28:53 · 7 answers · asked by onehotmama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to name my daughter Jalaska.

2007-04-04 13:27:51 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Me♥ 1 in Family

My wife, daughter and I, live in a wonderful neighborhood in a home we had built 9 years ago. Our combined income is around $ 80,000. The house has been paid off, we have around $ 1500 in credit card debt. I drive a paid off 11 year old car. My wife drives a 3 year old car at a $ 400 a month payment. My wife and I neither smoke or drink. Other than saving for retirement ,college, taxes and vacation, we have no debt.

Here is the dispute.

Each week I save $ 10.00 in my "cookie jar" to purchase baseball gloves which I like to collect. The gloves I collect are expensive because they are the kind you would see worn by players in the major leagues. The prices range from $ 130-$ 250. When I have enough saved I will buy one, not before.

She claims it is silly to spend that kind of money on a baseball glove. I say I have the right to spend $ 10.00 a week plus birthday and xmas cash any legal way I wish without question.

2007-04-04 13:27:03 · 25 answers · asked by jasper 2 in Family

2007-04-04 13:26:36 · 20 answers · asked by deonjahriley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and u love everything about him he makes you laugh and he sooo fine but he is also sweet and careing and he took care of me when we were going out but he said he didnt want 2 go back out because of what my ex-best friend told him some things that was not true and he believed her over me when he came to ask me the truth and i told him he said that he couldnt do this because he cant trusy me, he haerd that i was heating on him and i was telling people lies about him and i didnt, i loved him and i still do, i want to go back out with him but he dont but he still loves me, how can that happen? i need all the help i can get so what should i do?

2007-04-04 13:26:32 · 4 answers · asked by crazycherry14 1 in Friends

This is a girl I work with. That's basically the only time I see her and talk to her (when we happen to have a similar shift) and I think she's amazing.... Problem is she has a boyfriend. In most situations I would just let this girl slide and move on because the last thing I want to do is get in between a relationship. The thing is, she always fights with him and I know its him and not her who's causing problems. She deserves much better, but won't break it off him (why I don't know :S ). I instant msg her once in a while, but I don't want to come on too strong or fall into the friend zone. Any answers will be appreciated.

2007-04-04 13:23:40 · 10 answers · asked by fusion 1 in Singles & Dating

He did the same thing after 1 mo saying i was not the one (b/c we had sex 2 soon he says) and that he didnt c us working b/c he could never love me then asks me back and he does it again. This time its b/c he says he will never love me b/c he should by now and that he will never love me or feel an emotional bond 2 me. he says he wanted me 2 know this now b4 we ever got married or had children?!? We get along great, talk on the phone 3 hrs/day, complete eachothers sentences, he calls me his twin. It hurts b/c i feel so hurt as 2 why he could never feel bonded 2 me ever, i am everything most guys want, smart, funny, intelligent, and beautiful. This hurts me so much b/c he did everything 2 make me think we had a future 2gether, he acted like he was so happy 2 b w/ me not once did he ever pull away. Its hard b/c i feel misled and used and confused & he isnt a player or anything he has this very reserved demeanor.Could he b gay or scared b/c hes falling 4 me? Is this making any sense?

2007-04-04 13:22:30 · 1 answers · asked by kt 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with this guy since my sophomore year and we are going to college in the fall. His dad is moving and his parents are divorced . He hates it here cuz it is a small town and he thinks if he doesn't leave he will never get a good job b/c there aren't many around here. I am very close to my whole family and it will be hard for me to leave and out of state tuition is too high. He is going to be 10 HOURS AWAY! We have always been so close and we did everything for the first time together. But it will be like that for FOUR YEARS and we have seen each other just about every day that we've been together. We have never thought we would break up because we get along so well and we love each other so much. He is afraid it won't work b/c we won't get to see each other and he tried to break up with me yesterday but he cried his eyes out because he said I was the best thing that ever happened to him and then we stayed together. Can you PLEASE give me some tips on how to make it work?

2007-04-04 13:19:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-04 13:18:27 · 12 answers · asked by Liz 1 in Family

2007-04-04 13:11:51 · 6 answers · asked by qtpie 1 in Singles & Dating

basicly last year was my birthday and evryone of my close friends had plans....and the week before they had briefly mentioned to do something...i dotn much care about bday parties and such...but that night i wasnt even acknoldged nor did i get a 'happy birthday' or 'yo lerts do something' i got mad...now freidns b-day is comming up//im not going out of spite..what would you do?

2007-04-04 13:09:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i really wanna know if my girl friend name morena loves me?

2007-04-04 13:04:44 · 3 answers · asked by jhon j 1 in Weddings

ok so my husband is in the army and over seas...any good ideas on what to buy him. before ive already bought him a wallet, a watch, he cant wear civilian clothes over there, i always send him goodies (cookies, candy, etc.)???? help

2007-04-04 13:01:31 · 18 answers · asked by Me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have four daughters who are usually very sweet and easy to get along with. The problem is, they can only get along with one at a time. like, when one talks to me on email, the others won't join us. they decline, yet, if i talk to each one separate, they will talk for hours. one, as of now, acts like she is angry with me, and i don't know why. Do any of you have any ideas as to why they act this way?

like, when one of them is running around with one of the other sisters, then she won't have anything to do with me as far as calling or anything. when I email her, she won't answer it. otherwise, we all get along good; separate by twos

2007-04-04 12:59:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-04 12:59:31 · 9 answers · asked by CAVEWOMAN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-04 12:58:41 · 3 answers · asked by justlilohme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Without pictures of course -

2007-04-04 12:57:44 · 13 answers · asked by Rae 3 in Weddings

i went to get my kids back he wouldn't give them back to me, He is a jerk. I had a lawyer tell me all i needed was my divorce papers get them certified and that would be my court order. Well she was WRONG!!! We had did a temporary custody paper deal, 6 months to a year. But there was no temporary custody paper, because he never went to file them. He knew what he was doing. Now i am screwed. but i have a jerk for an ex husband. HE JUST DON"T WANT TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT! He has this girlfriend that sticks her nose in our business. For all you people that say go get them, It's not that easy if you have a real jerk for an ex husband. My kids want to come home he want let them!!! I didnt want to take them out of school, thats why i left them there for a year. All my life growing up i moved from school to school.I am not doing that to my kids!! My ex has all ways tried to run my life. I say everything to him. But it doesn't work for him. O and by the way I live in Florida.

2007-04-04 12:56:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you like an asian guy if he's smart, funny, honest, likes to keep his words?

2007-04-04 12:49:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 years old nearly 16. About 2 weeks ago, me and my friends went out to a disco. I travelled on a 32 seat bus packed full of people. I got onto the bus and sat down beside some of my mates. I'm sensible and would never do anything stupid. I'm told Im attractive but i do have ALOT of respect for myself. I have never even kissed anyone! boys started getting onto the bus with alcohol. I had drink, but soon enough i had drunk ALOT. Soon enough I was drunk and I ended up sitting beside this guy called Ryan*. We r the same age but this was the first time i had ever met him. We got talking and soon enough Ryan had his arm around me and i was lying with my head on his shoulder and my arms aronud him. He kept trying to kiss me but i wouldn't let him coz ive never kissed anyone before and i was 2 scared to do it! Ive been told by my mate that he was rubbing my legs and everything. Do u think this boy was trying to take advantage of me when i was drunk? I regret not kissing him!!!

2007-04-04 12:47:34 · 4 answers · asked by Sinead xox 1 in Singles & Dating

There are ways with body language to tell if someone is not honest with you or lying. Any suggestions?

2007-04-04 12:46:08 · 35 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

I used to like this one girl, alot, about 2 months ago. But I realized, or so I thought, that nothing was ever going to happen between us. So I even told her, that my feelings had subsided, and that I was going to move on. And I did. I dont have the same passion I once had for her, but she always holds a special place in my heart. She got a boyfriend just about a month ago, and he really is a great guy. Even I like him, he is older however, 21, and in college. She is a Junior in High School, I a Senior. She is the most genuine girl Ive ever met, and she is so beautiful. I always find myself wanting to kiss her or sweep her off of her feet. Or even hold her for ever so long. But I know I cant, I have morals. But I still find myself longing for her sometimes, whenever we hang out, I always wonder why we arnt going out, we would be the best match. we talk to eachother about everything and anything. I still find myself wanting her, but her boyfriend is such a good guy. what should I do...

2007-04-04 12:45:46 · 2 answers · asked by Lone Wolf 1 in Singles & Dating

In another question I talked about that, and someone said that is wrong...why???

2007-04-04 12:45:39 · 25 answers · asked by Gail Michelle 2 in Singles & Dating

I registered with an international asian dating site. I wanted to know what are the most common mistakes to avoid when starting online dating. How to make my profile perfectly attractive in order to have 100% success the asian women?

2007-04-04 12:44:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So i was talking to this guy for about a week, he made me feel comfortable around him even though we barely knew each other. I came into his life while he was talking to another girl, he also told me he felt as if he was getting to know me better than her. So as the week passed he dropped her for me because she was really shy and never said anything to him. He told me that he wasn't going to give up on me because i wasn't her, and that i knew how to work things out. But then the next day he went to her and said that he still had feelings for her. But he had told me he doesn't have feelings for her anymore. Now i tripped out on him, and i'm ignoring him because i don't know what to say. He made me feel so low, but it's okay. I guess. So is it wrong to be ignoring him now ?

2007-04-04 12:40:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-04 12:40:25 · 2 answers · asked by uthinkso 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting married and we are having the ceremony in Las Vegas. We are having a reception back home two weeks later. We want to bring Vegas back to the people that won't be able to make it to the wedding. Any decorating ideas? We are already renting casino tables. Also the colors of the wedding are hot pink and black. I'm not big on flowers. Maybe make flowers out of playing cards...anyone know how? Our cake is going to be 3 playing cards (Queen of hearts>me, King of hearts>my fiance and a Ace of hearts>my daughter....our table cloths are black...I want the reception to feel fun but not super cheap and tacky...any ideas?

2007-04-04 12:35:03 · 20 answers · asked by yesenav 1 in Weddings