I'm 15 years old nearly 16. About 2 weeks ago, me and my friends went out to a disco. I travelled on a 32 seat bus packed full of people. I got onto the bus and sat down beside some of my mates. I'm sensible and would never do anything stupid. I'm told Im attractive but i do have ALOT of respect for myself. I have never even kissed anyone! boys started getting onto the bus with alcohol. I had drink, but soon enough i had drunk ALOT. Soon enough I was drunk and I ended up sitting beside this guy called Ryan*. We r the same age but this was the first time i had ever met him. We got talking and soon enough Ryan had his arm around me and i was lying with my head on his shoulder and my arms aronud him. He kept trying to kiss me but i wouldn't let him coz ive never kissed anyone before and i was 2 scared to do it! Ive been told by my mate that he was rubbing my legs and everything. Do u think this boy was trying to take advantage of me when i was drunk? I regret not kissing him!!!
2007-04-04 12:47:34 · 4 answers · asked by Sinead xox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No regrets about kissing BUT you have just learned a very costly lesson. Definitely the guy was trying to take advantage of you, so now you know what drinking does to you and what effects it has on you-no more drinking just have fun growing up.
2007-04-04 13:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by not kissing him. You were drunk and it sounds to me like he was rying to take advantage of you. Rubbing your legs doesn't sound good to me! He may have been after more than just a snog! You've learned a leseon through this though about alcohol! You really should be careful about alcohol, just think of what MIGHT have happened?? Because by the sounds of it, you weren't in the right state of mind! I suggest staying sober next time! :-)
2007-04-05 09:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was trying to see if he could inspire you to want what he wanted.
It sounds as if you dodged a bullet -- close enough to serious trouble to get your attention, but nothing actually bad enough to mess you up. Let this be your wake-up call about alcohol.
Everybody should be drunk once or twice in their life to get familiar with that aspect of the human experience. Otherwise, it's a really bad idea. You've had your experience. Now stay sober for a good long time.
2007-04-05 02:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't.. maybe he was trying to but sense you didn't do anything he didn't take advantage of you.
2007-04-04 19:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by Je vous aime. ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋