Family & Relationships - 4 April 2007

i dont know what unsave love ones mean?

2007-04-04 11:21:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this boy three years younger than me! What should I do?

2007-04-04 11:20:11 · 11 answers · asked by ANGEL 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents wont be home there at dinner.
i heard my bro talking to his friend saying that they wanted to wreck my party.
should my friends and i get ready?
and if we catch them what should we do to them?

2007-04-04 11:19:51 · 7 answers · asked by sam b 1 in Friends

hes really sexy and i know we would be happy but i don't want to have to comprimise my future!!!! help me!!!

2007-04-04 11:18:30 · 29 answers · asked by xXxEnticexXx 2 in Weddings

I really don't know what to do....I want to be a pediatrician, but I don't want to spend the rest of my life in school/college. (again) should I really go for it?

2007-04-04 11:15:24 · 7 answers · asked by lialove_18 4 in Friends

My sister-n-law and I were talking about mine and my husbands financial problems and my proposed solution to them, which is that he deposits his paycheck into my account from now on and I give him a cash allowance. She commented that I needed to make sure that he gave me his check stub. She then said, "Trust me, get the check stub. I can't say anything else, because I don't want to cause any problems between me and your brother, but Mike hasn't been completely honest with you about the whole money issue. In fact, his story to you has not been what he has told your brother." Apparently, there has been some issues going on with my husband and his paychecks, like him saying it was this amount and it was really more, but he just kept the x-tra, or him claiming that his job is screwing him on hours, something he never told me anything about. If I say anything to him about his dishonesty, he will know where I get the info. Should I still confront him and see what he admits?

2007-04-04 11:15:01 · 18 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean men are from mars, women are from venus, blah blah blah... but despite all these differences, can two people(who are married to eachother..:) ) live under the same roof year after year and not hate eachother completely ? can love be such a powerful thing ? if it is, is love alone enough ?

2007-04-04 11:13:28 · 22 answers · asked by Sweety 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-04 11:12:17 · 21 answers · asked by Ms.Mo 1 in Singles & Dating

I have tried every thing but I will not Kiss her *** or treat her better then the other daughterinlaws.I get along great with both the others the age differents of the grils is not by much.I try the opening door with all the children,But no matter what I do its not enough.What do I do my son and I are very close I dont want to cause problems for them but she never has excepted me or his borthers.What to do ? Very up set need real answers right away they will be here for easter.

2007-04-04 11:10:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for a yr and 1/2 of it was great but the other 1/2 has been shakey. he has been divorced 3yrs and at first he used to tell me he loved me and we were going to live together and all this happy stuff now his x-wife calls him when she nows he has money and brings the kids around and then he dogs me. After she has spent most of his money he comes around talking about how fed up with all of the games from her and it is not what I think. He doesnt tell me he loves me anymore either. He tells me that we will always be close and have this special bond one minute and she calls again and it is back to I am bugging himshe wont take him to the doctor or do something as simple as buy him a pack of cigs but here I am the one who goes all out and he does things for me to make me think he means it but then will tell me we need a break what should I think at this point I am tired of the roller coaster.But I luv him I even got a divorce thinking we were really getting 2gether

2007-04-04 11:09:23 · 2 answers · asked by kayaboo2263 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've known my friend for about 4 and a half years. He moved to Manchester a few years ago, so the only way I can speak to him is online. His girlfriend split up with him for no apparent reason, after a 1 and a half year relationship. He's really depressed, but I don't know what I can do or say to him to make him feel any better. The only thing that will satisfy him is if him and his girlfriend got back together, but it doesn't look like it's going to happen. What can I do?

2007-04-04 11:04:47 · 10 answers · asked by pulp 4 in Friends

last year i was in 8th grade. i had 6 really close friends but only 1 was going to the same highschool as me next year. When we got to highschool, me and my friend from 8th grade still hung out alot in the beginning but as the year went on she stopped sitting with me at lunch and started ignoring me. she now hangs out with all the popular girls and is totally boy crazy! i tried calling her and sending her emails to see what was up with her but she never picked up her phone when she saw it was me and just blamed it all on me in the emails. i cant take her anymore!! what should i do about her?

2007-04-04 11:01:37 · 10 answers · asked by sugarcookies104 2 in Friends

But I don't have money for something like that. I told her that I'll have a d.j. and food at home and she can invite all of her friends, but she doesn't say anything. What should I do?

2007-04-04 10:58:59 · 11 answers · asked by EVA 2 in Family

ok so my husband is a certified mechanic for a huge car dealership, we have been for 7yrs, and have 2 kids and one on the way. He is so in love with his money, he saves it and refuses to spend it! I work as a teachers assistant and I only make like 800 a month, I keep the job because of my benefits! I have to pay my car payment of 300 month and I have to pay for my insurance and I pay for groceries, babysitter, and all medical bills go through me! I once asked him to help me pay for the kids shoes and he refused said that he didnt have the money! He makes about $1800 every 2 weeks! Our home is paid for, and he is just so selfish! We have separate accounts! I just feel we should be mutual especially when it comes to the kids expenses! He just expects me to pay for everything and yea I always end up doing it because they need stuff! is this normal? Am I overreacting? Should I leave him? Because I truly cant stand his actions they speak very ill of him!

2007-04-04 10:57:19 · 20 answers · asked by Naomi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex broke up with me. but the way he did it was the stupid part. i am 15 he is 19. he told me i was too young for him when he knew how old i was. he left me a break up messege on my cell. how screwed up is that.

2007-04-04 10:57:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know why my bf has to hide porno from me like i wont find it. ha .. we have been togerther for 5 years and i do all i can to keep him happy. why does he need porno?? i know i work but its only a 8 hour shift. im so lost ...

2007-04-04 10:55:59 · 1 answers · asked by lost in thought 1 in Singles & Dating

My kids have been away at my parents all week and I have been going over to see my bf as he usually has to come to mine as kids with me 24/7. Anyway I thought we may get to spend an extra evening together (tonight) but he txt to say he had to call at sisters after gym, I txt him to say if he had something on and didn't want me to pop round later on just to say so, he replied with txt saying wasn't sure what time he'd be home then at 9.58pm I got a txt saying just got home.

Am I right to be peeved at him, I just felt like he should of just said can't make tonight but instead skirted round it.

I didn't reply to his last txt as was peeved. We don't get to spend much time together on our own (which he has pointed out before) and I don't think I'm going to get to see him on these bank holidays either (I know he's probably working Friday).

2007-04-04 10:54:01 · 19 answers · asked by luz2loz 3 in Singles & Dating

One was that she diverted our funds into her own private account. I have joint custody and made out good financially. It has been brought to my attention just now that she may of been having an affair while we were married. All of my counselors tell me to let go of the anger and dissappointment especially for the kid's sake. I am working on it but they make it sound so easy. Is it really that easy?

2007-04-04 10:50:31 · 12 answers · asked by paco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 25 years old. My fiance is 25. we have been together since we were 12. We are getting married in 8 weeks. I love her but I dont think I am in love with her anymore. I know its probably cold feet and I know other people have felt like I do now, but I cant help but feel that there are other things out there. Its not that I am afraid of commitment, I just feel like if I get married I will never know if life could be different. I think about what it would be like if I was with someone else all the time. The worst thing about this that is bothering me is that she is a great catch. She is pretty, educated, has a good job, and I know she loves me like crazy. and I feel the same way about her but I dont feel the passion like I used too. and I now that you wont always feel the passion but everyday I feel guilty of how Im feeling. The wedding is all paid off. Everything is set in stone. and I dont know what the hell to do. To top it off I dont even know how I would break it to her. HELP!!

2007-04-04 10:49:54 · 15 answers · asked by SoCalGuy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have recently divorced. In our shared parenting agreement it states that he get visitation of our 2year old son every other Saturday/Sunday and the holidays are divided, he gets our son on odd numbered years for Easter, Christmas, etc.. Anyway, we are having Easter at my sisters this year and it's a big production with family coming in from out of town. My husband has absolutely no family in the area and in fact doesn't even celebrate Easter. My point is he won't give up his Easter visitation, even though I offered him two extra days in return so that I can take our son to Easter dinner with my family, some of which only get to see my son two or three time a year. I don't understand what is wrong with him that he can't be reasonable and just visit on Saturday instead. Help!!

2007-04-04 10:46:10 · 16 answers · asked by Don't shop, adopt! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Money cant buy happiness but then again love cant pay the bills!!

2007-04-04 10:44:20 · 92 answers · asked by Sarah..XO 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is absolutely georgous, he has a HOT body (seriously). and he has girls over 20 hitting on him, ALL the time!!
And he doesn't want me to get jealous, over one of his ex g/f's.. that wants to be w/ him, and is calling him, hanging all over him. (he said; i like her, but i like u more.. obviously cuz i'm with u.)
It's making me really mad!!
But he told me that he would never break up with me, unless i cheated.
Don't u think i have my rights to be upset? (he doesn't)

2007-04-04 10:42:36 · 8 answers · asked by Britt 3 in Marriage & Divorce

lol

2007-04-04 10:42:07 · 39 answers · asked by mrs b 1 in Family

a) Skinny
b) Average
c) Built/Muscular
d) A Little Chubby
e) Fat

2007-04-04 10:41:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lol

2007-04-04 10:41:45 · 20 answers · asked by mrs b 1 in Weddings

A hot guy I met through work two years ago and I recently got in touch again three months ago. We live in different cities. I will be seeing him in a month. our emails started off casual, catching up with each other, but in the last month, we were emailing Monday-Friday almost every day. The last two weeks, we emailed about eight times a day & got flirtatacious. I decided to email and tell him I loved being back in touch, but that I didn't feel comfortable with the frequency of contact if he were in some committed relationship, because if I were in the other person's shoes, I would not like it. He immediately emailed back and said he was shocked by my comments because he believes in having friends. He has never said to me we are friends or asked me if i was dating. He said he does not tell everything to his girlfriend but if she were to ask, or she found out, he doesn't find what we were saying as jeopardizing his relationship. If he were single I'd be after him. How to handle?

2007-04-04 10:39:20 · 7 answers · asked by defiantshamrock 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I broke up October 12. He was not (to my knowledge) cheating on me at that time. I left him because he was extremely verbally and emotionally abusive. I left with the intention of getting back with him if he could just acknowledge he doesn't treat me well. Instead, he was cheating a month after our separation. We are going on to the 6th month now and I believe there have been at least 3 women, but he's still smoozing me because I am pregnant with our 2nd child and he thinks if we're not on good terms, I won't allow him to be part of our children's lives.

1. Is it cheating - 1 month after our separation while still in negotiations to get back together?

2. How long do I try to work things out, knowing he's cheating. Pregnant or not, the guy is not trying to acknowledge fault in anything...I need him to treat me like a person! Do you think he'll actually change or is it better for my children to walk away and never look back?

Opinions?

2007-04-04 10:39:03 · 17 answers · asked by Shannon H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i was walking in town with my cousin cause we're close we go everywhere together when out of the blue she takes my hand i didnt say anything or take any action then when i seen her on the bus she said goodbye in a nicer than normal way then i seen her today n she took my arm n said am i your favorite person .can anyone translate her actions to english plz

2007-04-04 10:38:05 · 20 answers · asked by David 2 in Family

mine sulks and i still dont know why he's doing it . i know the kids are off school but that ain't their fault ..

2007-04-04 10:36:46 · 22 answers · asked by claire s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke something of his that can be.
He gets like this from time to time.
He talks like these things are my fault and comes up with excuses.
I am afraid of what will happen when he comes in, either he will be saying he wants a divorce, he'll leave and act like I'm the bad guy, or he will get even madder.
When it all blows over he will blame me and then talk like he was not the one who was mad to begin with.
I am afraid that if he leaves, I will not have a place to stay and be on the streets (he told me he won't leave me and he loves me days after going ballistic and talking divcorce when I gave him an ultimatum).
I have physical problems and am very financially dependaent and isolated and don't have anywhere to go; he has a place to go with lots of women to comfort him when he has problems with his mean bad wife who makes him abuse her (me). He also still has relatives and supportive parents (but won't go b/c that's "defeat"--I thought this was supposed to be love not a war).

2007-04-04 10:36:24 · 16 answers · asked by Desyra 2 in Marriage & Divorce