2007-04-04 11:12:17 · 21 answers · asked by Ms.Mo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. There is no good in trying to keep a relationship alive when the other person obviously has no interest in doing so. That doesn't make things better for you in the long-run, it just makes things a pain in the butt for both of you. It'll take time to get over it, but you'll respect yourself a lot more for recognizing that it's over and trying to find someone more deserving.
2007-04-04 11:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Dan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While he's getting on with life, you may be stuck in limbo ... you have to move ahead otherwise you continue the rejection which you don't deserve to do.
You can still love the guy but letting it consume you to the cost of everything else isn't healthy.
My daughter has just begun this walk through the early days of her breakup with someone she fully expected to live her remaining life with...I've told her the same thing...grieve, work through the loss as much as you can in a reasonable amount of time and then begin your life again...sometimes doing this shows the other person that you are fine without them...and sometimes that makes the rejector...feel like the rejectee. :)
Move ahead darlin, you deserve to, there's more of life to see than just the same yard you've been in, go see it and experience newer and better things, prove to him that you are just fine without him. Someday he may look back and wonder why he ever let you go...stay where you are and he will continue to think he was your everything and you won't be whole without him...his ego boost. Deflate the ego...get out and enjoy life.
2007-04-04 11:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes by all means let your x go. Get away from him. Don't call, check on him, ask about him. The less you see him the better off you will be. In time you will get over him. A one way relationship will not work. It take way to much energy from you, and while your chasing him you may miss out on Mr. Right.
2007-04-04 11:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by regina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to be with you then there isn't anything that you are going to be able to do that will change his mind. Ever heard the saying if you love someone let them go? If he comes back into your life then great, if not, you will meet someone else. There are plenty of guys out there. I think it's time to move on. Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear, but it's time to stop obsessing over this guy.
2007-04-04 11:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsar99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i understand you still been in love with your ex but sometimes you have to let go. its gonna be hard trust me but if he has made it crystal clear to you that there is no room for your love, u have to swallow the pain and move on. just try to focus on other hobbies of yours and dont try to rush into another relationship. your best friends might be a source of distraction.
2007-04-04 11:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by quiethead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely know the answer to this question! If he wants nothing to do with you move on honey! There is much better men out there. If this guy does not want you he is not worth your time. Of course its gonna be hard but your gonna have to let go. Good luck!
2007-04-04 11:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by Momof2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not "just"
Cry as much as you want, throw some pillows, then try to let your love go.
Getting back into circulation will help some, but not at first.
Above all, don't blame yourself. It's not your fault. He just didn't appreciate you. Good luck
2007-04-04 11:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by thomasawd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him be. It will take awhile for you to let go or find another interest. Just try to stop thinking about him as much as possible. Remind yourself of the reason of the break up without putting fault on you or him.
2007-04-04 11:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by cashew 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has made it clear, just let go now. Why hold on and just make things harder for yourself.. Trust me I was in your shoes and I just kept sticking around doing all sorts of thing but it just makes you a fool and for him to laugh at. Now I regret it so much, so just try and move on =)
2007-04-04 11:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by Kay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, yes.
If he's made it "very clear", then what part of "no" don't you understand?
True love is given without preconditions that it be returned.
If you "Love" him you will let him go.
You will get over it, but the longer you hold on to it, the longer it will take.
Good luck.
A~
2007-04-04 11:17:49 · answer #10 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋