Family & Relationships - 4 April 2007

Okay, so if you get out of a serious relationship of 4 years 2 kids, and then jump into a relationship w/in 3 months of breaking up and meet a girl at a bar to date, does she still mean something? Do you take the relationship seriously or do you know in your mind that it's just action for you?

2007-04-04 14:35:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is trying to get out of paying child support. His family condones his behavior of a 22 year old man. I asked the father of the baby for some financial help with my copays and he hasn't given me penny and thinks prenatal meds are a waste. I was told I never could get pregnant due to my personal health issues.

2007-04-04 14:33:36 · 4 answers · asked by . 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband's job requires him to be away from me for months at a time. I love him and we have a great marriage--except that I sleep with another man when he's gone. It's not love, it's not a relationship (although this other man and I have a friendship outside of the bedroom), it's just a sexual release that I can't give myself. I don't feel guilty about my behavior, but it does bother me that I can't tell my husband. His ex had an intimate--both physical AND emotional--relationship with his best friend, and he's never forgiven them. I fear that if I didn't have this arrangement with my friend, I'd ruin my marriage by giving in and sleeping with someone who I would develop feelings for. I talked to a friend about this and we had a huge fight. Now she thinks I'm a horrible person. So I ask you: Am I a horrible wife, rationalizing my pleasure or does this make sense to anyone else?

2007-04-04 14:27:37 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

alright so like a month ago my friend, me, her boyfriend and his friend went to the movies. well me and his friend made out and i thought i liked him so we all hung out the next night and i realized that i don't really like him. well we kinda talked after that and i wasn't gonna be mean and not answer his calls but i guess he kinda got the message. so we stopped talking, and i heard that a girl at his school was talking about me saying i was a hore but i've never even met her so i guess that she likes him and he was talking about me or something like that...and that was a week ago. and so i was just messing around on myspace and i checked out his page and he has me on his top 8 friends.....and he has like 7 pages of friends. should i send him a message or something cause i kinda feel sorry for him. but do ya'll think he still likes me?

2007-04-04 14:26:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-04 14:24:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to do something different to turn on my bf. Can you please give me some new ideas. I am open to almost anything. Kinky is good!

2007-04-04 14:20:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently read an article on About.com about a man talking about his girlfriend of 5 years who has cheated on him....He used the term adultery. In my mind adulty is when one spouse is unfaithful to another spouse not between two people who are dating. Would you consider a cheating girlfriend/boyfriend to be adultrious?

2007-04-04 14:19:32 · 25 answers · asked by I Like Grapes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a tendency to flirt with anything that moves... pretty much. and i have been flirting, accidentally w/ my teacher. He is kind of young, he is like 9 yrs older than me... I dont know if he realizes i'm flirting or not.. i smile a lot when we talk and stuff... i just feel really awkard around him now that i've realized what i've been doing. I've been trying to not make too much eye contact since the other day when he kind of grabbed my shoulder, and then patted it a few times as he was sort of giving me his sympathy for all the work i had to do for school. I dont know if it was just my paranoia or whatever, but it seemed like strange... in a not necessary sort of way...like he didn't mean to touch my shoulder, it just happened involunatarally...i'm not sure if he is just friendly (i know he is friendly w/ his students but i'm not sure if there is something more in this situation... he talks to them like a friend would) with his students or something else.

2007-04-04 14:18:02 · 9 answers · asked by WTF? 2 in Singles & Dating

I married when i was 18 to a guy who is older than me with 17 y we've been married for 9 y we have 2 children i was very happy in our first 5 y but we have some problems and we get Divorce for almost 2 yers that was in 2004 in that time i met that guy who was older than me with 6 years he loves me so much and i lived the most wanderful 2 years in my life we getting engaged and was preparing our house to get married but i felt that i'll hurt my children sepcialy that they was with their father and they needed me so i decide to returen back to my Husband for the sake of my kids. so i left my love and returen back to my husband but the problem now is that i miss him so much and i cant stop thinking about him nights and days i am trying to make myself busy with my kids and my work (iam a model) and in the other hand my husband is very good with me he bring me anything i want, and he support me but i feel tht he give me lots of care but not love he treat me as if i am his Daughter. help me

2007-04-04 14:17:47 · 21 answers · asked by jivago lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or are you just glad to get rid of that person?

2007-04-04 14:15:47 · 26 answers · asked by colin050659 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this guy named Garrett and I hate him half to death because he practically ruins my life!! He ruins the day for everyone else too. He makes fun of me and everything else that could possibly ruin my day. He makes my bff's life miserable so that she wants to kill herself (dont blame her its all his fault, he calls her a s.l.u.t.).

How can I make him quit?
Wut can I do to make him leave me and my bff alone?

Oh yeah and hes in our class and very hard to avoid.

2007-04-04 14:15:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i think i love my boyfriend, but im not sure if i love him for him or what people think and say about him, and i really dont wanna keep going out with him if i dont really love him. any help?

2007-04-04 14:15:18 · 24 answers · asked by musicislife808 2 in Singles & Dating

Or go out and find yourself another partner my ex-wife still married to her did this on me and now she wants me to try again.
HELP ME PLEASE?

2007-04-04 14:14:01 · 32 answers · asked by colin050659 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's daughter lives in Utah with her mother. According to the legal paperwork they signed he is allowed to have her during the summer for four weeks. Upon asking for her we were told no. If this developes into a larger issue how would we go about taking action? We live in another state. Do we need an attorney in Utah?

2007-04-04 14:13:19 · 3 answers · asked by aimee4frogs 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I need a song for our entrance into the reception hall (and the bridal party) and I need one for the garter removal, and bouquet toss. Thanks for your ideas.

2007-04-04 14:11:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i just received my dress yesterday. after looking over it I found burn holes and ripped material. The satin was sewn on inside out. the entire dress was ruined. now since i'm getting my money back from the seller, I have to start all over agian for a wedding dress.

2007-04-04 14:08:14 · 11 answers · asked by Soon2beMrs.B 1 in Weddings

we broke up about a month ago but we still are really close and hang out and his birthday is friday i want to get him something nice. any ideas?

2007-04-04 14:03:04 · 6 answers · asked by nicole h 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently started a relationship with a nice guy, and he lost his job a few weeks ago. I think because he is a man he thinks he must take care of me, so at the moment he has to save all he's got, so as to continue going to college and pay his tuition for September. Some persons think if he is not working he will become a burden on me? Is that true, What should i do, cause i want this relationship to work. Does losing his job makes him feel less of a man?

2007-04-04 14:02:28 · 2 answers · asked by CHRISTINA L 1 in Singles & Dating

I have recently decided to get back with my ex husband (Brad). We have been working really hard on our relationship. I even suspect he may be planning to ask me to re-marry him.
The thing is his mother is totally against the idea. She has tried so many things to keep us apart.
She tried to have me sign away my parental rights to our son in the event I should leave again.
She has tried to have me declared un-fit and a nut case.
She has threatened to take our son away from us.
She has offered me money to stay away from Brad and our son.
I have not agreed to any of this. How do I get this woman off my back?

2007-04-04 14:02:25 · 13 answers · asked by Amy C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-04 14:01:55 · 12 answers · asked by laprincess1889 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I know you can't change people but its like I'm in love with this chick like totally. She's so nice and kind, never met a girl like her. But yeah shes straight. And do you guys think theres anyway I could get this chick?? I'm really confused. And she is for gay rights and stuff. but she doesn't know I'm gay/bi-ish..

2007-04-04 14:00:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why

How old are you

2007-04-04 13:56:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive seen my mother in a couple of times?
once right before she died and twice after i was very close to her and miss her dearly whats going on this is so crazy
when isay once before she died she came to me in what i thought was real because i could swear she was next to my bed looking at my baby and wishing me a happy birthday but she was at the hospital in intensive care.when i told my husband i seen her he went to see herand she died 2days later has anyone else had this happen?

2007-04-04 13:50:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Mother and daugther get into argument. Daugther throws things at the wall. Mother punches her in the face, gives her a bloody nose and beats her down. Mother holds her down on the floor while she makkes a spectator go and get water to pour down her daugther's face so there'll be no evidence of blood.. She also rips off the daugther's shirt since there's blood on t. Mother gags daugther, and muffles her screams while holding her down on the ground.
Mother calls child's father.
Father comes and picks up teenager.
Father laughs at the situation and makes the teen stay at his house.
Is this considered emotional abuse towards the teen?

2007-04-04 13:48:49 · 15 answers · asked by DarlingdarlingSterling 2 in Family

well i mean in a intamint way

2007-04-04 13:48:40 · 11 answers · asked by little man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have really never did anything like that before. Even though its not going all the way. Should I at least think about it? He says I dont have to really commit myself until we are married.

2007-04-04 13:44:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm serious

2007-04-04 13:44:16 · 16 answers · asked by BananaPancakes 2 in Friends

i jus lost a boy who i really loved and he loved me back........but he broke up with me. we only went out 4 about a week, and it took so long 4 us even to go out cuz we wanted 2 be sure about it. we didnt wanna lose eachother afterwards or make the wong decision. but its weird cuz he sed dat he luved me, but den he does this 2 me. anyway......he broke up with me bcuz he sed that he doesnt wanna hurt me bcuz he's gonna garuntee it ( meaning that he makes alot of mistakes in realtionships and that he may screw up) but i wasnt really worried about that bcuz i thought " doenst everybody?". i thought about it hard, but not as hard as he did. & now he broke up with me & i feel so empty w/o him. idk wat 2 do. idk if i should try & win him back bcuz my feelings arent goin away & i love him soooooo much, or jus go bac to the way things were b4, wen he called me his lil sister and he was my big brother. u kno, b4 we were more than friends, & went out. i want him but he's afraid of hurting me.

2007-04-04 13:38:41 · 16 answers · asked by Jana 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm babysitting my siblings all day and my mom wanted me to make spaghetti for dinner. I ordered pizza. Now shes really mad at me! What should I do?

2007-04-04 13:36:36 · 24 answers · asked by NillaWafer 1 in Family

I’m white and have never atually dated a Latin women before but I notice that almost all men of every race agree that Latin women are hot! Why is that? Its like the only thing men can agree about. Everyone seems to have at least one Latin women they find attractive, whether its Jessica Alba, Shakira, Gisele Bunchenn, Adriana Lima, Ect. It also seems like they are also more feminine, like they take more pride in being a women. They are like the complete opposite of those manly butch feminist you see so often in America.

2007-04-04 13:36:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships