I'm serious
2007-04-04 13:44:16 · 16 answers · asked by BananaPancakes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Bullies are usually hurt on the inside.
I would really just be nice and kill them with kindness!!
Do NOT, I repeat do NOT, let them know that they are bothering you. If they know they are, they will continue to bully you.
Good luck!!!
2007-04-04 13:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by Penny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without wanting to sound violent at all, I 'll tell you what I did. I was bullied at high school off and on by these 5 kids from age 14 to 17.
Finally at just over 16 I decided to do something about it
I took boxing lessons and Karate lessons for 9 months. I also put on about a 2 stone in lean muscle and lost the pudgy fat.
These guys were obviously blind or stupid because during that 9 months they bullied me a few times more. Finally when I felt the time was right and I was able to get the most dominant one, the one who was the "leader" by himself one day, I gave him a "shot at the title". He lost. While appliying some pressure to a very painful area of his anatomy I explained a few home truths to him as regards to what I'd do to his sorry ****,if he or his friends tried it on with me again. They didn't.
Now that was about 30 years ago and things have changed nowadays. Weapons are carried at school more often now.
Schools also have a more enlightened approach to bullying compared to when I was 16-17. So maybe my approach isn't the right one for you. I didn't have a father in my life then. If I had I probably would have started by talking to him.
2007-04-04 21:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by pejon60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't have bullies. Just to not have a bully is to not to mess with them. Because I get stressed with people saying mean stuff to me.
Anyways, well, be nice to him, and if he starts being mean to you, and you don't have anything nice to say to him, than don't talk at all, and walk away. Just keep on being nice to him, and he'll/she'll get confused, and leaves you alone.
I hoped I helped
Good Luck!
2007-04-04 20:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by TempoBronze124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With your fists. Seriously, there's only one way to get rid of a bully and that's to stand up to them. It's what they are looking for.
2007-04-04 20:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u cant, but it is possible, if you listen to what the bully says, then you can get a long. and later on, u can be friends. thats how to get a long with bullies, but i dont think that will happen.
2007-04-04 20:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to stand your ground and then they can't bully you and they either leave you alone or become your friend.
2007-04-04 20:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a bully yourself.
But me, personally, would never actually WANT to be friends with someone that is mean to me.
But I guess in your case, become one of them.
2007-04-04 20:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mɑrisɑ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being 'badder' always work for me.
A confidence eat-SHlT attitiude shuts them down.
Acting shy and shrinking away draws attention to your vulnerabilty.
2007-04-04 20:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by Succubus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT TAKE THEIR S%!T. DONT BE A BULLY BUT DONT BE A VICTIM... AND LIFT WEIGHTS TRUST ME ITLL PAY OFF IN MORE THAN 1 WAY!
2007-04-04 20:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by MR.GET IT GOOD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best defense is offense - approach them, talk to them, ask them about their families, siblings, things they like to eat, etc.
2007-04-04 20:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by galfromcal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋