well i think i love my boyfriend, but im not sure if i love him for him or what people think and say about him, and i really dont wanna keep going out with him if i dont really love him. any help?
2007-04-04 14:15:18 · 24 answers · asked by musicislife808 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think i love my boyfriend, but im not sure if i love him for him or what people think and say about him, and i really dont wanna keep going out with him if i dont really love him. any help?
p.s. hes already told me he loves me
2007-04-04 14:24:59 · update #1
You said you think you love your boyfriend so whats the problem? If you broke up would you miss him? Do you look forward to seeing him? Do you have passion for him? If yes then I don't see why you would break up with him. If not then you know what to do.
2007-04-04 14:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lori O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love someone you will know for sure. You should make a list of things that "you" love about your boyfriend. Read over it and determine if this is someone you would want to be committed to... It's important to know that a relationship only includes two people... not everyone else. Allowing other people to influence your relationship only leads to disaster.
Good Luck
ALA :)
2007-04-04 21:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by oOoLaLa-ALA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can keep going out even if you do not love him. You CANT marry him though if you are uncertan about the love. Teh uncertanty is natural when you DO NOT love him. You have a keen liking for him but not yet love him. Its not wrong to not love him yet but just dont get engaged. And do not tell him you love him u ntil you are head over heels for him
2007-04-04 21:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't know if you love him and you are having doubts about it then chances are you probably don't love him .. what does it matter what people say anyways as long as you are happy you shouldn't care what other people think and if you really don't want to keep going out with him then don't
2007-04-04 21:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to what people think,if you not attracted to him or just dont wanna be with him dont be.The fact that your asking for advise about a relationship on yahoo answers means that you should just let him go.
2007-04-04 21:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you love him. Is it because of what people talk about or the time you spend with him that make you love him. Let's say he plays football. Your friends talk about how good he is. If you like him because he's good at football then you love what everyone talks about. But if he cooks for you and does special you and him things. If that's what you like about him then you love him for him.
2007-04-04 21:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by krouzee09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to cool your jets and wait and see how you feel as time goes on -- there's no "do i love him" test for this.
if you care so much about what other people say you are concerned with the wrong factors for sure. it matters what YOU think, not what someone else thinks -- no one else will NEVER ever know what goes on in your head and in your relationship.
if you can't be patient you need to learn. sorry so harsh, but 100% true.
2007-04-04 21:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by Steve C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probobly dont love him if you actually care what people think or say about him..you know how he is and thats all that matters,, if you loved him you wouldnt care what other people thought
2007-04-04 21:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Fallen Pixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is supposed to be fun. If its not fun move on. You don't have to love someone to be dating, just keep it casual and love might follow later. If you pressure yourself to know your feelings too soon you might tire of the relationship because its not fun.
2007-04-04 21:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by mumof4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant think you love someone its only you do or you dont. if you think you do and you are doubting the fact then you dont. i think its time you let it go before it gets too far in and you and him both get hurt even more. good luck and take care
2007-04-04 21:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋