Family & Relationships - 4 April 2007

i feel a little bit lonely at the mintue and left out.

since we were 4/5 there has been 5 of us in our little friendship cirlce. and now we are 16/17 so we have been together for about 12 years

however i feel left out coz they all have boyfreinds now and they all talk about it when im there - but i dont have a boyfriend and my mum wont let me have one as she wants me to concentrate on my education which i totally undersatnd and respect.

i always feel left out when they talk about this as they have all gone all the way with a lad and i havent even kissed a lad!! lol

is it normal to feellonely or am i just being paranoid and stupid?

:S

2007-04-04 22:05:16 · 4 answers · asked by the nice girl 23 3 in Friends

i hav issues with mine,i want them bigger. they'r messin up my life. everyone sez how confident n pretty i am but the breast issue really affects me inside. would you date a girl with small breasts?

2007-04-04 21:50:19 · 8 answers · asked by ms_tarryfic 2 in Singles & Dating

But like we have so many friend and some r real and some r not.. guy come and go but friendship stay!?? yeah whatever that is i dont remembers....what was it??? any know?

2007-04-04 21:44:36 · 2 answers · asked by Her. 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband wants to stay wit his parents forever. He has a younger sis( 20 yr old) but he said it's his responsibility to take care of his parents. I told him we can move out close to them so he can help them any way he wants. He answered" I'll never leave my parents".THey both working dad 55 and mom 46. I understand he's the only son but seriously I have no privacy. I want to be a mother and a wife but living wit his familyI feel we will never grow up. He always listen to watever his family said and want me to do the same thing. He paid off his dad's care, bought the mobile home, car insurance and take them to shopping. Ask for my help when he thinks his money is running out. I'm a stay at home mom with my 6 month daughter, I help them wit my foodstamp and sometimes help him wit my cash. I want to work again but wouldn't dare to leave her to someone else. My family is 6 hrs driving away.

2007-04-04 21:13:24 · 11 answers · asked by Lilly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok lately my husband hasnt been spending any time with me. he stays out all night every night with his friends... and just a few minutes ago i got on the computer and was looking for a files on my computer and i found porn... tons of porn hes not home yet and its 12:30am here i dont know what to do should i say something or just prretend i didnt see any of this if i should confront him what the hell am i suppose to say??? should i ask him to not look at porn??? ive heard a lot of men watch porn should i just let this go or what???

2007-04-04 20:52:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-04 20:46:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cooking,gardening,i pay all the bills,BUT we do have a low mortage or nearly own our house,and he surfs on the net,watches tv and also goes on holidays with his pals ,he also doesnt get on with my family,but yet he is a good person underneath it all,what should i do.

2007-04-04 20:42:42 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Did/ Dose it matter to in in highschool? What about after highschool? Ive known so many people that are sluty and I just don't see what is attractive about it! It's not like you want your future wife to have been sleeping around with everyone.

2007-04-04 20:41:40 · 1 answers · asked by a*m*c 1 in Singles & Dating

or talk to in almost 10 years i miss her very, very much. I cry in my heart when I think of her. I don't know how to find her. The last know address she had was San Jose, California. Then Arizona. What part of Arizona is unknown. If anyone can help me locate her. I would be Forever Greatful!!!!! Thank You and God Bless!!!!

2007-04-04 20:36:57 · 2 answers · asked by SexyCole 2 in Family

2007-04-04 20:35:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so he's my personal trainer, and he has mentioned that he is going to the club tonight. I was also going out just to another club. Now we are going to his club. Should I just walk past and wait for him to notice me? Or should I walk past and say hello? What should I do?

2007-04-04 20:32:56 · 10 answers · asked by Sarah_Silverstone 2 in Singles & Dating

men like me in the begining but then they lose interest. they think im mature but later on i become childish . i know very well its not good . can any one help me for or guide me what shall i do

2007-04-04 20:22:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't seem to stay away from him. I always feel it's my fault,or maybe I'm doing something wrong,and go crawling back to him.
I don't have really any friends to hang out with outside our relationship.
I'm eight months pregnant, and you would think I would still be with him because of the child we're about to have...But it's not really like that at all. He smokes weed[alot],drinks,and I think he's using cocaine,but I can't be too sure.
He dosen't seem to really care about the baby too much. He dosen't seem to want to save his money to buy the child things it needs for whenever she gets here.
He just got a job,after all this time of me being pregnant,because he needs a place to stay and his roomate said he has to get a job in order to stay at his pad.
What's wrong with me? Why can't I stay away from him. He's not good for me,but I keep thinking of the good times we use to have,or how he can sometimes be nice.
Whenever we fight he puts me down,saying I'm stupid.Please help someone

2007-04-04 20:22:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I really love my husband and realized lately that for sure I will never cheat.

He is very difficult to deal with at times (please no 'just go talk to him' lines), but at other times can be the most understanding (although those times sortof feel like a trap).

I get depressed very easily and have no girlfriends or family where I live. Is it so totally wrong to go out with guy friends for dinner, or just to talk? I get along so much better with guys. He's very conservative and jealous, so I can't tell him, but I know that I nothing else is going on.

I just want to feel connected to people (real people, not online).

2007-04-04 20:20:33 · 10 answers · asked by mis_anona 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I would really like to have a relationship with him and him with me. I'm 46 and he's 60 so it's not like we're kids.

2007-04-04 20:19:48 · 11 answers · asked by LJ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

either with the wrong guy, your ex, or to your husband (like before getting married)

2007-04-04 20:19:37 · 22 answers · asked by jan-na~♥~ and im luvin it 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I fight ALL the time because of one of his exes. I'm tired of it, and I want to file for divorce. Any suggestions on the steps I take to do it? And does it cost money? If so how much??

2007-04-04 20:15:30 · 10 answers · asked by Jenn J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-04 20:15:18 · 1 answers · asked by lady26 5 in Singles & Dating

our marriage was love marriage, six years back, he is going U.S. for long period from office. does't want me to come along. fight with me everyday on small things. should i go for divorce. I am worried about my doughter. don't want to do unjustice to her. she is too small to understand all these. may be he wanted to marry someone (who is earning) in U.S. to settle down. I am not working , he is earning good and fight me for money. never give me money for myself. I am very upset what should i do? I am fed up from all these

2007-04-04 20:14:59 · 11 answers · asked by nicky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...honestly, there are a few good men like me (ahem) one of my friends is dating a single mum and when I ask him the reason, he says "she is LESS likely to dump him" so he's in a more, secure position. The only thing he grumbles well these women are a tad bit POSSESSIVE especially when they don't earn that well.

2007-04-04 20:14:02 · 11 answers · asked by dictator_cool 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you know if a guy is cheating on you,especially a bf? are there ne signs that should be considered red flags? if so can someone tell me some of the signs?does losing intimacy mean that he is cheating or does it mean that the relationship sucks?ne help would be great!

2007-04-04 20:13:00 · 4 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

This couple have been talking for over a year. They have been knowing each other for 30 years. This couple have never had sex. After 30 years they both have families and good spouses. The fire is burning so deep with these two. Like the song kem sings they cannot stop loving and wanting each other.

2007-04-04 20:03:59 · 5 answers · asked by leeandaundrea1978 2 in Marriage & Divorce

the link is http://www.free*webs.com/starwars1977/myblog.htm?blogentryid=1390922
take the * out

2007-04-04 20:00:05 · 2 answers · asked by starwars_queen 1 in Singles & Dating

me my boyfriend got in a fight. i found out hes been doing drugs. he told me hes gonna do whatever he wants when he wants. im really scared he might be getting into bad drugs. what do i do?? i sit up all night and cry i dont wanna lose him im scared for his life. someone plz help me out.
=(

2007-04-04 19:53:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 15 years ago when I was living in Florida, I got a Florida no-fault divorce, since that time I have paid all the child support to my ex wife. We are for the most part civil towards each other however I would like to know what are my rights. My daughter is now 21 but because she has a learning disability she is uncapable of making a major decision. We all now live on Long Island in New York. I was under the impression that my ex wife has to get my permission for anything that effects my daughters well being such as surgeries, doctor visits. I am not positive but I thing that my ex-wife is her legal guardian. Do I still have any rights as being her blood father if this is the case. My ex wife is a good Mother and she does look out for my daughter, I just dont like the fact that I am not involved in any important decisions. I love my daughter more than anything else. Any help or suggestions on these matters will be greatly appreciated.

2007-04-04 19:49:11 · 6 answers · asked by paul s 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Most of my feeling for my husband have gone. When we were dating I love you to death then things turn bad in the end but we got married bcus I was pregnant. I hope we would start over again but our marriage made me miserable. He loves his family more than me but I wouldn't mind if we live separately. I have no privacy wit his family, his parents and younger sis still take control of him, they even tried to control me too but I showed them I didn't like it. Our sex life make me feel I'm a sex machine. He doesn't want to touch me but ask me to make you satisfy. Last time, he came to bedroom suddenly and pulled my pants down. I promised myself not to let him touch me again. I'm at my mom's wit my 6 months daughter, I told him everything, he afraid that I won;t take his daughter back but I told him, I promised to bring her back then I will but you have to promise me never touch me again" he promised. I took off once but can't stand seeing them apart (husband and daughter)
thanks

2007-04-04 19:46:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 26 & I dont think I have said anything to my mom & dad about how I feel towards them. I would be devestated if they were to die not having heard the words from my mouth.

2007-04-04 19:45:20 · 20 answers · asked by Claude 6 in Family

I was doing genealogy research on my father's side of the family and found out that my distant relative was Sir Moses Montefiore who was knighted and good friends of Queen Victoria. There is the windmill named after him as well as a medical center named after him. My cousin Simon-Sebag Montefiore is a historian who writes about Stalin and is close friends with Prince Charles and Camila. Anyone have famous relatives. Is this a cool find?

2007-04-04 19:43:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

In my case the dead beat father left me as soon as he found out I was having a baby. It was a 10 month relationship & we had talked about having children. He lied to everyone including me & has never seen his own child & never wants too. I have also worked & own my home, car ect. I have no debts. Last year however I was made redundant & I am now studying. He is now married with another child & is living a very good life. This is not about the good parents that pay for their children & love them this is about teaching the bad parents a lesson. My daugther will never know her father because he is not interested at all. I have been given full custody. And he gets away with not paying because all assets are in his wifes name. He has a child & should be made to contribute to her life, if not by love then by money.

2007-04-04 19:42:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boss ( male ) gave increment and gives no job load to my colleague ( female girl ) who is very less effect. Just that she is charming, very open can do any thing. My boss gives are ride every day, he spends good time with her in the office and outside too, After long we came to know she even had sex with him. Sex is very powerful. isn't it . Can I collect some other view

2007-04-04 19:40:42 · 13 answers · asked by larry G 2 in Singles & Dating