Is this normal?

Question

i feel a little bit lonely at the mintue and left out.

since we were 4/5 there has been 5 of us in our little friendship cirlce. and now we are 16/17 so we have been together for about 12 years

however i feel left out coz they all have boyfreinds now and they all talk about it when im there - but i dont have a boyfriend and my mum wont let me have one as she wants me to concentrate on my education which i totally undersatnd and respect.

i always feel left out when they talk about this as they have all gone all the way with a lad and i havent even kissed a lad!! lol

is it normal to feellonely or am i just being paranoid and stupid?

:S

Answer 1

Yes, it is normal. And no one is EVER stupid (unless you are mentally retarded, in which case you won't be writing this). Since your friendship lasted that long they'll probably be true friends.

My friend has a boyfriend, and we've been friends for at least 10 years. All she can talk about to me is him, besides homework. I have never kissed a guy either. In fact, I've never had a date in my entire life (which isn't that short).

Just listen to them talk, and remember, you won't be missing out at all because you'll have a boyfriend when you're older.

It's normal to feel lonely, like you're different, but don't feel bad about it because it is NORMAL.

Answer 2

it's normal. but you can make yourself better by changing your view on this problem.

after all, whether you have a boyfriend has nothing to do with what you do with your friends. and trust me, it's better to have at least one clear head in the group. i mean, most people get really confused when they are in a relationship. i think you can really help your friends with their relationships, since if they do have some problems, you will be the one who can help.

also, talk to your friends about how you feel. let them understand that you feel lonely. i'm sure they will gladly be compromising too.

brighten up! :D

Answer 3

quite normal I would say... and your day will come too... you are still young and you shouldnt feel like this is a race or something. You can take your own time to get toghether with mister right... and then when it does happen, you will have all your friends whom you can ask for advice,... since they have already experienced it.... could be useful later.. so hang in there and be happy with yourself, then mister right will come along just fine... :)

Answer 4

Is that true story? How old are you?
You are very lucky because I am so free in this time.