men like me in the begining but then they lose interest. they think im mature but later on i become childish . i know very well its not good . can any one help me for or guide me what shall i do
2007-04-04 20:22:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry too much. My boyfriend is running 31 y.o. when I found him. He said to me that when he's about to give up, I came into his life out of the blue. Maybe it will happen to you too. Time will tell for you. Just be yourself & don't just sit there, you better do something & find your girl. ehehehe...
2007-04-04 20:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it may have been easier for me because I had kids. You learn to accept and get over stuff as you grow older and have kids around you. I had my first daughter at 19 and my son at 24. Divorced my abusive, controlling husband and met the man of my DREAMS. He isn't perfect, he is younger and still a child (he was 21 and I 27 when met and is now seven years later.) If it IS the right person and it IS the right time....you learn to overlook the small stuff. You just haven't found the right person or they you. You are still VERY YOUNG....believe me!!! When you meet the person, it will be completely different and your so called "childish" ways will be "cute" to them, or you won't even have them because you will be caught up in a mature and trusting relationship. I overlooked my young hubby's flaws since I knew how my kids were. He eventually grew up and into an adult. Good Luck! You are normal, and fine. Just haven't met the right person to help you grow!
2007-04-04 20:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by bubblingbroo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man wants to marry a child like woman. No man wants to have to take care of a woman. A man wants an independent woman who can stand on her own two feet and take care of herself. This is the only way a man will ever respect you. I suggest reading the following books:
Shes the One
Why Men Love Bitches
Why Men Marry Bitches
He's Just Not That Into You
Terrific Investment, fast easy and fun reading, you will be thankful and much wiser in your upcoming relationships!
2007-04-04 20:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by Skinny Blonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi! i grow to be sixteen when I have been given pregnant with my eldest, 17 when I had him. i grow to be 19 when I had my youngest! My suggestion to you is to be a hundred and ten% valuable on your guy or woman innovations in the previous you tell anybody, which is composed of your dad and mom. I had a termination while i grow to be 15, it grow to be the right element to do on the time, that youngster wouldnt have had a million/2 the element and love that my boys have now. government "advice" is all properly and strong, yet do u incredibly need to basically get through and on your baby to no longer have each and every thing??? you in addition to could could desire to remember that when the novely of having a clean toddler wears off with kinfolk and likewise your boyfriend you would be the only left suffering to get through, the government does not supply "advice" emotionally or provide you a wreck while theres no person there that might actually assist you, or while youve spent up and the undesirable toddler is out of nappies or grown out of garments. it incredibly is my opinion that in case you your self won't be able to supply a roof, a stable relationship and placed nutrition on the table then you definately are in no place to shelter and be soley in charge for a baby. on the different hand i understand the way frustrating it incredibly is to choose for, heartbreaking even, i can work out the two facets. Having a toddler at your age is frustrating! consistently remember it is your physique and your selection!
2016-12-08 18:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to guide yourself.. Make a list about the pros and cons from your past relationships.. See what has went wrong compare them. If you dont see a problm then dont change but if the same problm always occur then just get a reality check
2007-04-04 20:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by kerrine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have some major underlying issues to deal with first before looking for "someone special."
And what about being alone causes you to be "in a big trouble?" Sometimes being single has more advanatages.
2007-04-04 20:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by ThisIsIt! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am much older, do not focus on a man 2 make u feel worthy, family, job, friends,liking urself by urself,wearing pradas not payless like urself & luv the life u r not cing , re-focus a amn will not distinguish who u r & what u can b. i am 46, i own my own house business, dont work 4 4 mths i travel & have seen 1/2 the world my luv is me & my dog-TAZ
2007-04-04 20:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by ttkmb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is not for everybody.
just look at the divorce rate
if you have gone this long without a mate then why do you need that piece of paper now? companionship? get a dog..they are more loyal..
2007-04-04 20:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Be you!!! The special person in your life will love for your character and your personnality. The rest of them are not special for you snd they are not special for you!!! You are going to find the One!!!!!
2007-04-04 20:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by Melio K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. It gets worse. Wait until you are 32.
2007-04-04 20:25:18 · answer #10 · answered by Desperate Loser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋