Family & Relationships - 4 April 2007

should i even think about taking care of his dog ? i feel sorry for the dog but not him, but i have 2 boys by him , what should i do ?

2007-04-04 10:34:13 · 29 answers · asked by dawn p 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Soo bad that everything just came crashing crumbling down. As if reality just snuck up behind you and hit you.

2007-04-04 10:32:49 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-04 10:32:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The age old dilemma (no dilemma at all, if you ask me). I still see my friends, not nearly as much, but we have jobs and most of us serious relationships now anyways. But w/ summer coming up, there will still be softball and the occassional weekend debauchery we all grew accustomed to. Anyways, one of my good friends is being a real *** lately. It centers around me spending way more time w/ my gf now who I am knowingly and happily getting pretty involved with. I know it's just sour grapes, but anyone go through this with one of their best friends? He's rather spiteful and curt lately and I had patience for it, but it's running thin. I am going to get him out one night, we're going to have lots of drinks and we're going to put this to rest. Any tips?

2007-04-04 10:29:30 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for 6 months, we love eachother very much, we are both consenting adults 29 and 25, he has a daughter who is 5, who i have met and spent a lot of time with. also i have two kids who he has met and spent time together, the kids have also met eachother and get along well. my kids are 6 and 7. We have been spending everyday togther for the last 3 weeks, so i was thinking is there really any reason to be paying for two houses. neither of our kids live with us we see them on the weekends.

2007-04-04 10:28:33 · 10 answers · asked by harmony 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife of 9 years tells me that she does not love me, and she has gotten involved with her friends husband and now they too are separating and divorcing. She kissed him and talks to him every day. Even while we were on vacation in mexico. What I am concerned about is that that prior to us meeting she was married and cheated on her husband to get out of an abusive marriage, ours is not in any way abusive. I have given her the world and three lovely daughters. I realize that it is over, but she will not move out nor will she stop talking to/seeing the guy while under our roof. She will make no attemts to restore any faith in herself in my eyes, everyday she disrespects me more, I cannot leave as I am fearfull of the legal ramifications. She has no viable plan for the future nor does she want any more help from me. I do not doubt her ablitites as a mother but her actions speak to unstability and I am fearful that my daughters welfare will be sacrificed at some point. Help!

2007-04-04 10:28:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i split up with my first love recently,because he had acted badly,and i couldn't forgive it,although most girls probably would.We had been together nearly a year,and hadn't had sex,although we were really in love and eventually would have.i mean,we're 15.once when i cried,he promised he would always be there for me even if we split.He always showed how much he loved me,and i and everyone believes that.But,when we split up,he had sex with a girl i hate a week later and is seeing her.And he's going out getting drunk all the time!=s at first i was ok,but now i feel completely heartbroken.sometimes i just want him back,but i know it wouldn't be right.whenever i do see him,he awkwardly attempts to talk to me and bring up memories,even though he's with 'her'.What's wrong with me?!I need help.and What's wrong with him?!

2007-04-04 10:26:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel bad because I don't have a woman in my life . How can I learn to be happy without a girlfriend ? How can I learn to be more independent ?

2007-04-04 10:25:19 · 9 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm part Mexican so I have dark brown hair and tan skin all year long. Sometimes when I'm in a group or something talking to my friends and I hear people whispering "Their's that Mexican girl," I find this kinda painful and rude. I'm just the same as other 11 year old girls. I like to sing, dance, and cheer. Even the teachers are like this! One of my teacher only picks the white kids (no offense) and never the other races. Why are people like this??? I try not to let it get to me but it gets painful and hard at some points. My friends say i'm just as normal as the other kids. They even thinks it's kinda cool to have a Mexican friend so I tell them about Mexico and the things I know about it. Why are people like this? We are all the same no matter what we look like on the outside.

2007-04-04 10:24:22 · 17 answers · asked by Call Me Crazy 2 in Friends

Their is this gurl that i hate and she is always on my boyfriend..When we go to a club and see her she starys her dacin all over him and crap.He wont let me say nothin to her i need help.

2007-04-04 10:23:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my fiance always saying im to slow but still he wants to be with me i ask him why he says because he told me would stay with me

2007-04-04 10:23:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok there's this girl i like and she's pretty quiet around me i think shes da shy type and i really like does anyone know ways i could tell if she likes me???

2007-04-04 10:22:43 · 11 answers · asked by VANS 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel bad because I don't have a woman in my life . How can I learn to be happy without a girlfriend ? How can I learn to be proud to be unattached ?

2007-04-04 10:22:40 · 4 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend has been together with his wife for 15 years and the entire time his wife has been overweight. He has asked her to try and lose weight for the last 14 years and she says YES I WILL TRY but Never sticks to it and HE SUPPORTS HER IN ALL WAYS .He tells her lets go for a walk babe And he even got both him and his wife fitness memberships but she never sticks to it. What can he do He mentally going crazy. He wants a baby and so does his wife but if she doesnt lose weight that is not possible.

2007-04-04 10:22:25 · 11 answers · asked by Scott B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Let me preface this by saying that I love my wife with all my heart. She is a good woman and I am NOT leaving her. I love her too much to let something like sex tear us apart. Sex means a lot to me (I'm a man) but not enough to leave my wife over. Now...I'm 29 and my wife is 30. I have the sex drive of a typical male (all the time) and she has absolutely none. The funny thing is it was like this from the start. She just doesn't seem to want to have sex, ever. If we never had sex, she's be perfectly fine. I feel like the only reason she has sex with me for two reasons: 1) because she HAS to 2) to make sure I'm still attracted to her. It's like a chore for her because when we're finished, she gets right up and goes straight into the bathroom and cleans up. Another thing is that I am ALWAYS the aggressor. My wife absolutely positively NEVER initiates the sex. I've tried everything...romance...forepla... the whole nine. She enjoys it but getting her to do it is like pulling teeth.

2007-04-04 10:22:03 · 14 answers · asked by Allen W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've recently attended a wedding rehearsal and the whole female portion of the bridal party was in BLACK! I thought it might be a ocne in a lifetime thing but as we were leaving the the next wedding setting up to rehearse was in black too! Is it a tradition somewhere that you wear black to the rehearsal?

2007-04-04 10:21:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm tired of playing mind games w/ guys...when they're going to call, when they want to get together. Is this true w/ all guys?

2007-04-04 10:21:31 · 25 answers · asked by random 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just broke up with me and had another girlfriend in an hour, but I really like him ALOT!!! What do I do?? Help PLEASE!

2007-04-04 10:19:45 · 20 answers · asked by Crystal B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-04 10:19:38 · 1 answers · asked by Nicole D 1 in Singles & Dating

was messing around almost 2 yrs ago and then she stoped hanging around me cause i got back with my ex well here lately i broke up with ex 4 months ago she has been around me alot calling me all the time , wanting to go fishing and to the movies ect ect and acts jelous asking personal questions also is there clues ? .....

2007-04-04 10:18:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't even know where to begin. I think it would be fantastic to have my new husband adopt and no longer have to deal with an ex that can't even keep a job and insurance. He hasn't seen his son since Christmas and before that it was about 8 months. He was also abusive to me and is now abusive to his new wife and step kids. I know I should get a lawyer to draw up the papers but then what? Anyone else dealt with this before?

2007-04-04 10:17:19 · 6 answers · asked by Kat S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend doesn't like the fact the I do not like her hanging out with male friends. I never tell her that she can't, but i do express my opinion on the subject every time it comes up and ASK her not to. She says there is no sexual tension between her and the guy and I believe it on her side. She has had another male friend that she has said the same thing about but he has make jokes about giving her oral sex. That is all the more reason for me to feel uncomfortable about it. Most guys will not become friends with a girl the wouldn't have sex with at least if they were drunk. I've heard that from most guys and I know it not true of all but most it is. What should happen with all this, I'm not going to tell her not to but I will ask her not to and when I do that and say how it makes me feel, she think that i am just manipulating her into not doing it. Given I do not want her to, I never tell her she can't. I think I should be able to express they way I feel in a given situation.do u

2007-04-04 10:12:51 · 1 answers · asked by n0tsan3 3 in Singles & Dating

I am wanting a divorce and i have a daughter with him. I want to know if there are any free forms or formats that i can go by so that when i file it will go through. No fault for Nebraska.

2007-04-04 10:12:43 · 4 answers · asked by smileychic_2002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it possible that a married man who cheats on his wife is also happliy married?

2007-04-04 10:10:33 · 23 answers · asked by I<3PAULRUDD 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why are so many guys obsessed with girs asses

2007-04-04 10:10:31 · 5 answers · asked by rbd_fan878 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in the process of choosing the color of my bridesmaids dresses. My mom would really like me to have a black and white wedding. Over time, I have thought about it, and I'm thinking that it would be really nice. I was just wondering what everyones opinions were on a black and white wedding. What were your colors?

2007-04-04 10:03:20 · 34 answers · asked by Linzie0901 4 in Weddings

met this guy last december..he works at the gym I frequent..and he seemed really nice..and he told me when I initally met him. that if I ever wanted to go to a movie or hang out to call him, but we ended up not really following through with that..so we exercised together..and he just could not stop smiling,plus he asked me to work out with him again..so i felt there was some interest but when I called him to go out to go get starbucks he told me he was busy and he would let me know..but he never did..so finally a month passes and I see him at the gym for the first time in two months..and he;s grinning..and I asked him why is he always smiling, he said well I do that when I see people I know..so we conversated for a little while, and he explains to me that he's been stressed out with alot of things..and he aplogizes..and he says"I think we should go get that starbucks you were talking about" and he told me leave saturday open but to remind HIM on thursday...

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But the thing that gets me is Why did he ask me to remind HIM? HE says because he may forget..but I truly don't think so..Do you think he 's playing some type of game..or am I being to paranoid.. plus he reminded me that he can't figure out why I always call him on a friday or a saturday and not on any other day..so if he can remember that..how come he can't remember a date he's set up..?

2007-04-04 10:02:57 · 10 answers · asked by Virgo1980 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

a line to pick up a girl

2007-04-04 10:02:18 · 40 answers · asked by SHELLTOE BISCUITS 3 in Singles & Dating

met this guy last december..he works at the gym I frequent..and he seemed really nice..and he told me when I initally met him. that if I ever wanted to go to a movie or hang out to call him, but we ended up not really following through with that..so we exercised together..and he just could not stop smiling,plus he asked me to work out with him again..so i felt there was some interest but when I called him to go out to go get starbucks he told me he was busy and he would let me know..but he never did..so finally a month passes and I see him at the gym for the first time in two months..and he;s grinning..and I asked him why is he always smiling, he said well I do that when I see people I know..so we conversated for a little while, and he explains to me that he's been stressed out with alot of things..and he aplogizes..and he says"I think we should go get that starbucks you were talking about" and he told me leave saturday open but to remind HIM on thursday...

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16 minutes ago
But the thing that gets me is Why did he ask me to remind HIM? HE says because he may forget..but I truly don't think so..Do you think he 's playing some type of game..or am I being to paranoid.. plus he reminded me that he can't figure out why I always call him on a friday or a saturday and not on any other day..so if he can remember that..how come he can't remember a date he's set up..?

2007-04-04 10:01:48 · 5 answers · asked by Virgo1980 1 in Singles & Dating

I am doing my own flowers for my wedding and would like buy or rent the flower stands for the centerpieces.

2007-04-04 09:59:25 · 11 answers · asked by ngeneri 1 in Weddings