met this guy last december..he works at the gym I frequent..and he seemed really nice..and he told me when I initally met him. that if I ever wanted to go to a movie or hang out to call him, but we ended up not really following through with that..so we exercised together..and he just could not stop smiling,plus he asked me to work out with him again..so i felt there was some interest but when I called him to go out to go get starbucks he told me he was busy and he would let me know..but he never did..so finally a month passes and I see him at the gym for the first time in two months..and he;s grinning..and I asked him why is he always smiling, he said well I do that when I see people I know..so we conversated for a little while, and he explains to me that he's been stressed out with alot of things..and he aplogizes..and he says"I think we should go get that starbucks you were talking about" and he told me leave saturday open but to remind HIM on thursday...
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But the thing that gets me is Why did he ask me to remind HIM? HE says because he may forget..but I truly don't think so..Do you think he 's playing some type of game..or am I being to paranoid.. plus he reminded me that he can't figure out why I always call him on a friday or a saturday and not on any other day..so if he can remember that..how come he can't remember a date he's set up..?
2007-04-04 10:02:57 · 10 answers · asked by Virgo1980 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he probably just likes the attention but isnt really interested. if you want to find out if he is, flip the script. dont set up the starbucks thing, just convienently forget. then the next time you see him, say something similar to what he said. put the ball in his court and see how he responds. most likely he wont but that will at least save you the effort.
2007-04-04 10:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by asg_is_chillin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something else maybe going on. When you like someone you will not forget a date. He seems to be telling you about him, without REALLY telling you anything if that makes sense. The fact that he smiles at people he knows is obvious, so I think he's either immature, or he maybe playing you. Whatever it is, I think the best thing to do is get coffee with him like you planned if he doesn't show you have your answer, if he does show you can use that time to better get to know him.
Good luck!
2007-04-04 17:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lenka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. I know when there is a lot going on I forget to call people and have stood people up. The next day when I remembered I felt so bad.
Remind him. Once. If it happens cool. If not move on, he has too much going on to be dating.
2007-04-04 17:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by I love watching cars turn left 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you already asked this same question a different title
i think some of the answers should have already sent you in the right direction. If you are unsure what to do then just don't bother talking to him anymore and find yourself another guy.
Truly you are being inmature grow up and get on with your life.
2007-04-04 17:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has another prospect lined up, and she is stringing him along, so he keeps you alive as his plan B.
As for the reminding him thing, he may just be a guy who plans his weekends on Thursday and he may actually forget what he has lined up unless he is reminded by you.
Just a hunch.
2007-04-04 17:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by Wolfgang92 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he needs a blackberry so he can keep track of his schedule. I wouldn't call him Thursday and wait for him to call you Saturday for Starbux. It seems to me he likes being pursued and is trying to make you do that. Next time he tells you to "remind him" tell him, "I'm worth remembering so I shouldn't have to remind you."
2007-04-04 17:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just sounds extremely selfish. Tell him that if the possibility of hanging out with you isn't motivation enough for him to REMEMBER he has plans with you, then forget it!
There are plenty of guys out there - if he doesn't want you bad enough, someone else will.
2007-04-04 17:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have you asked him whether he is seeing someone or have a girlfriend? He may be keeping you as a "reserve" for days that he isnt "busy"
2007-04-04 17:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by The Guru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like a game to me and if you don't want to play then drop him like a bad habit. lol
2007-04-04 17:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by Babe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
2007-04-04 17:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋