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I feel bad because I don't have a woman in my life . How can I learn to be happy without a girlfriend ? How can I learn to be more independent ?

2007-04-04 10:25:19 · 9 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

Have sex with lots of random people.
That'll make you feel good about being single.

2007-04-04 10:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by spychic19 4 · 0 0

The way society is set up, it makes you feel like there is something wrong with being single. If people stayed single longer, maybe there wouldn't be so many unsuccessful relationships, marriages, and etc. You have to be able to put up with your own company. Go out by yourself. go have dinner. Get to know you and the person you are. Learn to be happy with you first. That is the first step to and the most important to finding out who you are and what you expect before actually getting into a relationship. Besides, you can meet a lot of people that way.

2007-04-04 10:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by hypnotiq8 3 · 1 0

I think that today we view being single as a disease that will infect you forever. Wrong.... first enjoy being single and getting to know you and others around you. Concentrate on your well being, but don't seclude yourself from relationships. If a possibility of a relationship comes your way... take it, see if you like it, if not move on. This is the beauty of life, it's called experimentation.

Just have fun, and everything will happen how it's supposed to happen.

Good luck

2007-04-04 10:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lenka 3 · 0 0

I've been single for years by choice. It is ok. My friends describe me as 'fiercely independent'. You learn to be this way by doing most things alone. I am not lonely. I am content. I find that fixing up my home and yard, brings me enjoyment. Better to be healthy alone, than sick with someone else. My grandbaby, rules....she is my joy. We giggle, chase butterflies, have tea parties, and shoot grapes at Elmo's mouth.....haaaaaa......what am I missin?

2007-04-04 10:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by cgirl97 4 · 0 0

Keep busy, work, exercise,social life, extra job if need to.

2007-04-04 10:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by larry B 4 · 0 0

Funny thing is, once you accomplish this goal, you will be MUCH more attractive.
Ah, Life!

2007-04-04 10:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 1 0

why do you need someone to validate who you are ?
when you are no longer this needy , then you will have woman crawling all over you ..........

2007-04-04 10:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Starry said it.

2007-04-04 10:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by brandonedbishop 3 · 0 0

asking the same question my friend...

2007-04-04 10:28:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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