we have been together for 6 months, we love eachother very much, we are both consenting adults 29 and 25, he has a daughter who is 5, who i have met and spent a lot of time with. also i have two kids who he has met and spent time together, the kids have also met eachother and get along well. my kids are 6 and 7. We have been spending everyday togther for the last 3 weeks, so i was thinking is there really any reason to be paying for two houses. neither of our kids live with us we see them on the weekends.
2007-04-04 10:28:33 · 10 answers · asked by harmony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My kids live with there dad because i work shift work and sometimes my shifts are 12 -16 hrs, i see my kids all the time, and get along well with there dad. I am a nurse at the hospital. His daughter lives with her mom in another city.
2007-04-04 10:45:31 · update #1
time to get married if you love each other very much
the merging of two households without the legal protection of marriage is just not desirable for either party in a relationship.
you can do it - but - who gets the property? if the relationship ends suddenly - one of you decides it's no longer a relationship - without a big hassle over property
what is it that makes you think it's easier without marriage?
You think that you're so much in love that you want to live together now -
so you better understand how you would separate if it came to it.
2007-04-04 10:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by birdwatcher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first question is why do neither of u have your children ? second is why did your previous relationships not work out with the ones you both had children with .... it is simple when u are dating and try to combine families but when you start living with each other and have bills and child rearing issues and ect kick in it starts a whole new ball game I think u should either depends on you answer to the first 2 questions start asking important questins on what if this or what if that and how will this change things cause it will .... just don't think 6 months is long enough to know yet ..........
2007-04-04 10:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by deleted user 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a big step and not to be taken lightly. I'm 51 and I've been in your situation. I honestly think you should wait until you've been together a year. You will both be surprised at how much more you can learn about each other in the next 6 months.
2007-04-04 10:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by crs_patient 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It truly relies upon on the courting. i know that i moved in with a boyfriend after 7 months of relationship, and it replaced right into a extensive mistake. I regretted it from the 1st evening we spent in our new homestead. That being suggested, he replaced into basically a terrible guy, and that i did no longer truly start to ensure it until eventually we lived jointly. i ought to have dated him for 2 years in the previous shifting in with him, and it nonetheless might have been a mistake. you could no longer positioned time strains on relationships.
2016-11-26 02:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel ultimately its the right move to make so early in the relationship, than go ahead. but honestly, its too soon to make such a drastic move, realize, being with a person out of a house and in a house is veeery different.
2007-04-04 10:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soon as you get married would be the right time to start living together and set a good example for the children~~~~~Jill
2007-04-04 11:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who live together before marriage have a higher divorce rate than those who don't.
Your kids live with their father? If I was your boyfriend, that would be a red flag.
2007-04-04 10:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no right or wrong time to move in together, if you feel you're ready then go for it. If you have any doubts or anything, don't do it because obviously you aren't ready yet.. Good luck!
2007-04-04 11:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and get married.
2007-04-04 10:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what your age is and if you are ready.
2007-04-04 10:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋