met this guy last december..he works at the gym I frequent..and he seemed really nice..and he told me when I initally met him. that if I ever wanted to go to a movie or hang out to call him, but we ended up not really following through with that..so we exercised together..and he just could not stop smiling,plus he asked me to work out with him again..so i felt there was some interest but when I called him to go out to go get starbucks he told me he was busy and he would let me know..but he never did..so finally a month passes and I see him at the gym for the first time in two months..and he;s grinning..and I asked him why is he always smiling, he said well I do that when I see people I know..so we conversated for a little while, and he explains to me that he's been stressed out with alot of things..and he aplogizes..and he says"I think we should go get that starbucks you were talking about" and he told me leave saturday open but to remind HIM on thursday...
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But the thing that gets me is Why did he ask me to remind HIM? HE says because he may forget..but I truly don't think so..Do you think he 's playing some type of game..or am I being to paranoid.. plus he reminded me that he can't figure out why I always call him on a friday or a saturday and not on any other day..so if he can remember that..how come he can't remember a date he's set up..?
2007-04-04 10:01:48 · 5 answers · asked by Virgo1980 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He can't remember because he doesn't want to remember. He's not interested, he's stringing you along. Perhaps it makes him feel good to know that at least one person is interested in him (and you've worked out with him, so you've seen him at his not so freshest), so you think that should count in your favor, but it's not. You're wasting your time and letting your heart get broken. The guy might be gay or else screw this guy, he's not a gentleman, and gentlemen are the only men worth a damn.
2007-04-04 10:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Too much stress girl. It happens. If a relationship develops, maybe he'll tell you what's going on. You could always ask him when you go out for coffee. Depending on the guy, depends on whether or not he'll tell you.
No, I don't really think that hes playing a game, but that's just my opinion. Yes, you do seem a bit paranoid, but to be sure, ask yourself, "haev I acted like this before?".
2007-04-04 17:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion the guys was going through some problems with another girl worked things out and now is having problems again so hes seeing if he can get girls to chase him... My advice don't remind him and if by Friday he doesn't bring it up again make other plans. Sorry guuys i know im giving out insiders info
2007-04-04 17:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by irishgator87 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he is so playing games with you. Until he changes the behavior I would discontinue communication with him. Even if he changed his behavior I would not communicate with him because he sounds like he is not be completely forthcoming with you.
2007-04-04 17:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by Challenge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is tuff. maybe is just messing around about it. or he could be a player
2007-04-04 17:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah Martinez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋