what's your oppinon?

Question

my fiance always saying im to slow but still he wants to be with me i ask him why he says because he told me would stay with me

as far being a virgin i gave him sex he still is complaining

he always thinks he can use sex to apologize to me

im 27........

Answer 1

You deserve better. What does he mean by too slow? Regardless, if that's the only reason he is still with you then it's time to get out before you get married.

Answer 2

Well I think I am understanding ur question correct, I am not sure, but if he is wanting u to do something u don't wanna then u shouldnt have to..if he threatens to leave u because u wont go all the way then he can move on in my opinion..you seem very nice and need to be happy and not worry about what u are doing wrong or what he wants u to do in order for him to stay with u..keep ur chin up and let me know if this advice helped at all..

Answer 3

I wouldn't accept that answer - he says he stays with you because he said he would? That's the only reason? Tell him you don't need favors like that from him - loyalty is one thing but there have to be strong emotional feelings to justify him staying. Since you call him your fiance, I assume he intends to marry you. There should be a good reason for marriage. And is he insulting you when he says you are slow?

Answer 4

If the things he says to you are hurtful - do NOT commit to a long-term relationship with him. If he loves you, he will be supportive and kind. Honesty is one thing - cruelty and sarcasm are another. Just trust your gut. Is he a good person? Do you love him? Will he always respect you? If not, lose him and find someone who loves you for the person you are. I wish you the very best of luck.

Answer 5

I think you would be happier if you found someone who loved you for you, not "in spite" of some flaw they've "discovered".

I'm sure your fiance isn't perfect; no one is.

I think you should move on to a truer love. Don't settle for anything less than wonderful. There is someone waiting for you who will love you with all his heart, without conditions.

Good luck, and I hope this helps! :)

Answer 6

I have been married now three times and I have found that if the honesty and trust is there the marriage will last but when that leaves the marriage starts to fall apart.

Hope this help you.

Answer 7

cause he really likes you. i really like my girlfriend and i always look at her positive traits. he sounds like one of the good people in the world. he's not letting some little problem get between you and him. just stay like you are and don't get married too soon (know what living with him is really like). if it's been more than 2 years, then that's kinda long. Hope this helps.

Answer 8

Hmm...I would ask then what it is he wants from the relationship. If you do things with/for him and try to improve things and he's still not happy; it sounds like some personal issues with him; you know? There's no reason really why you should do things to make him happy if he's not.

Answer 9

CAC has it down.

Why would you want to stay with him knowing how he feels.

His opinion of you won't get any better.

Just an observasion, maybe he is trying to make you feel bad about yourself cause he is afraid of loosing you and he has his own security issues.

one way or the other, if I were you the next time he says he is staying cause he told you he would.

tell him not to do you any favors and tell him to get lost.

Answer 10

Well, i don't really get the question because you didn't type it out well but if hes calling you names or being abusive in anyway even verbally maybe seek relationship counseling