Family & Relationships - 4 April 2007

I never really had much of a father growing up so I'm not sure what a man is really suppose to be. I know what a good man is though, i just got out of a serious relationship of about 2 1/2 years and he was a good guy but he has hit me and cheated on me a few times. We tried to work through it and people kept telling me you just have to forgive people because EVERY ONE makes mistakes but i need to hear different, please are there any guys out there that can tell me the truth about abuse and cheating on your g/f's that wouldnt do the same to you.

2007-04-04 12:34:37 · 16 answers · asked by meh? 3 in Singles & Dating

I seem to find that i can talk to any boy besides my bf Branden like crap like I treat them wrong and hurt there feelins but when Im talkin with Branden I seem to listen and do whatever he says.
These are his rules:

1.im not allowed to talk to no other boys since he says talkin leads to kissin then kissin leads to sex [im still a virgin i dunno why he gave me this rule]

2.i can only call him once or twice a week

3.im not suppose to ask him too many questions

4.i cant raise my voice when talkin to him

5.im not suppose to answer other calls while on the phone with him

6.dont do anythin or else anythin i do he'll find out and then curse at me and make me cry or beat the **** outta me

7.dont ever hang up on him or say anything rude or thats the end of our relationship

We've been together for 10 months and he makes me cry alot but I follow every rule since I did him wrong in the past cause his cousin grabbed me and kissed me right infront of him.What should I do ??

2007-04-04 12:33:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im inlove with a married man and hes inlove with me as well we have met on net and our relationship grew over the past year he is indian and im american, he lives 7 hours from me, The question is its his wifes birthday this weekend and he told me he wanted to come be with me the weekend, as its her birthday on saterday id think he would want and need to be with her but he said he will come be with me. My question is is this love that he has for me, wanting to be with me and not with his own wife on her birthday?

2007-04-04 12:32:50 · 18 answers · asked by Alone s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't really see why I need one. I can live alone without going crazy and I live alone all the time. I don't need company. I don't like showing my emotions, so I could never show someone I loved them. I could never accept loving someone because I view love as a bunch of gooshy crap that whimps like. That is how I have always felt and I don't think I can change. Plus, I think I am too ugly for any girl to be attracted to me, so instead of turining my attention to romance, I will go into religion, so I am not allowed to get any girl. I am ugly, so I have no clue why so many girls have actually called me cute before. They must feel bad for me. So I just get pissed when people call me attractive and I want to punch them in the face because they are probably laughing behind my back. I could not even imagine a girl saying she loved me. I would probably have a stoke I would be so pissed. I don't love anyone and I don't want anyone to love me.

2007-04-04 12:30:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-04 12:30:47 · 5 answers · asked by N 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi. I am a lesbian and my girlfriend and I just broke up. We were only together for a little over one month and lived two hours away. I am tryng to figure something out. She broke up with me last week and said that she didn't she didn't feel the same for me but two days before that she was crazy about me. She also had said that she was dealing with an issue she was dealing with for a while now and wanted to be single again and straighten out her issue/life. She said there was a possibility that we could get together once she settle "her ****". Idk what that means, but I don't believe it. The day before she broek up with me, she had gone to Pridefest with some friends. She wanted me to go so bad but I couldn't due to the fact I couldnt' get off from work. We still talk now a little and are still friends. Either she found someone else or I think she's got bipolar or somethin. I know at times she said she felt liek she was someone else..so maybe she's got a metal issue?? help! lol

2007-04-04 12:30:10 · 1 answers · asked by girl 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I broke up almost 6 months ago. I left him with the idea of getting back together if he could JUST acknowledge that he needs to treat me better and not like a subordinate. When I left, i did not go to our friends or family to tell them how horrible he was during our marriage or what he finally did to make me leave. I thought maybe we could work it out and nobody would ever know.

Unfortunately, the FIRST thing he did was go to all our friends and family and tell everyone I left him and he's so hurt and I'm keeping our child from him, etc., etc., etc. Since I left, i have found out numerous things about secrets he's kept during our marriage. He continues to drag my name through the mud. Should I go ahead and expose what I've learned to everyone and stop keeping why I left a secret? Or do I not be vindictive and just stay quiet, knowing the truth will come out on its' own? I have stayed quiet for my childrens' sake.

2007-04-04 12:28:35 · 11 answers · asked by Shannon H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

http://news.yahoo.com/s/dear_margo/20070329/en_dm/margo_howard20070329;_ylt=As7OdxSwRsxYgG8Z_sG9ZCemG78C


Please read the second article...funny things happen to woman once they start earning a little money...they think the world revolves around them, and the world is waiting at the other end of that cell-phone(for THEM)...

And some woman wonder why men leave them when that head swells up SO much...ego...self-love...self-absorbtion...yet a electric blanket is a poor subsitute for the real deal...maybe one can buy love and happiness? With ALL that money...

2007-04-04 12:24:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Let me start by saying that I was 24 the first time I got married to what I would say if the best man God could have created for me. He was loving,kind,gentle and a great family man and father. He died July 1994 needless to say I was crushed, so I focused my life around raising my children and going to church. I finally got up the nerve to date again and it wasn't horrible because no one could compare to the wonderful husband I had so I basically gave up. Well my best friend introduced me to the equivilent of my husband -just a great person and loving man....we got married 12-2-06 and I love him more than life itself....the problem is he is in the MILITARY and is going off to Iraq in 7/07 at least for 12 months.....I am trying not to think about it but it is driving me crazy. I don't know what to do, so I treat each day like its the last. I really love this man and I am praying that God protects him and send him back to me, I don't think I could survive another death.
Help!!

2007-04-04 12:24:19 · 29 answers · asked by Pegi 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin is getting a divorce from her husband. she had the papers served to him but she says that she has to wait until the divorce is final before she can make him move out.
I never heard of this before, is this really true?
They argue alot and he's being really disrespectful to her (leavin the house a mess, eating up all the food ect.)
i was wondering was there any way that she can get papers to get him kicked out the house?
This was her house before they married.

2007-04-04 12:24:03 · 6 answers · asked by Diamond Princess 313rd 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so this is a long story. My husband and I swapped spouses like 3 times it was the same couple and no one had any hard feelings we were all fine about it. But now I consitentially think about this man. We talk on the computer all the time and even webcam each other and my hubby and his wife don't know I feel like I am cheating. Some one please help no rude remarks PLEASE:)

2007-04-04 12:20:41 · 20 answers · asked by kindanswersplease 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I hate my inlaws but have been trying for a year to get along with them my pity and disgust against his mom is affecting the way that I feel about my husband WHat do I do now!!!??? Help Please

2007-04-04 12:18:32 · 10 answers · asked by Nautia75 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend alway want to know what i am doing or where i am going or who am i with y is that?

2007-04-04 12:17:13 · 3 answers · asked by bonnie 2 in Singles & Dating

My hubby and I are debating which route to go. What are your opinions and experiences with either one???

I am 7 months pregnant with our 2nd child, we have a 2 1/2 year old boy and a girl on the way. My hubby doesn't want any more kiddos, and I am not sure either way... Of course being a female and having the mother instinct I would love to have 10 kids... But realistically, we can give 2 children a wonderful life where as 3-4 would be a little difficult financially... So really we don't need any more kids, but I am afraid that I will want another in a few years... But with a tubal, the decision to have another will aready be decided... same as with a vasectomy.. We are 23 and 24 years old, so I am wondering what your opinions are about it. I am scheduled to have a c-section, so it would be the best time to do it if I were going to... But which one is a better choice?? Why?? and do they hurt?? either one of them?? I just need outside help, as I kow this is a huge decision...

2007-04-04 12:13:50 · 8 answers · asked by Mommy of 2 5 in Family

2007-04-04 12:12:55 · 79 answers · asked by Ms.Mo 1 in Singles & Dating

ummmm i have a 17th month old and expecting another baby in september and im boyfriend is never home plays video games all the time and refuses to help me with the one child we have. he only helps financially and it seems like all he wants me for is the three letter word. he is not romantic and doesnt really pay much attention to me. i had to quit school because fia wouldnt pay for my daycare because he lost his job and refused to watch our daughter. most days he walks right past her like she is a lawn gnome and nothing more what should i do should i get rid of him and move on or try to work things out

2007-04-04 12:09:22 · 25 answers · asked by ashley b 1 in Family

i hve my doubts, its been 3 years and were still engged. we are total opposites to put it mildly and i see problems in the future with when our personalities clash.when will i know its time to marry him? and how did you put aside your doubts and marry your mhusband?

2007-04-04 12:06:57 · 15 answers · asked by Barbie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-04 12:04:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is the difference between hot, cute, and pretty?
I get described as cute or pretty ?I am 5ft6 110 pound runner.
I wish i was hott though so guys would like me more.What can i do to be considered hot?

2007-04-04 11:55:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think she had an affair. Iam not sure. however she walked out over a weekend leaving me with the kids. I changed the locks. She came back all seamed fine for to weeks, then she told me she loves me but is not in love with me. We talked and she the moved in with her girlfreind to get come couselling but she has done that yet 2 weeks later. Do i move on all give her another go ???

2007-04-04 11:54:30 · 23 answers · asked by oscarjohnemail 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my parents wont be home there at dinner.
i heard my bro talking to his friend saying that they wanted to wreck my party.
should my friends and i get ready?
and if we catch them what should we do to them?



21 minutes ago
i was thinking of dressing him and his friend up.
there only 10 and were 14.
5 of us 2 of them.

2007-04-04 11:50:35 · 15 answers · asked by sam b 1 in Friends

2007-04-04 11:50:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-04 11:41:24 · 3 answers · asked by nessa227 1 in Family

do guys think about the girls they like, or just think are cute, even close to as much as girls think about guys?
not necessarily if they are bf or gf either.

2007-04-04 11:39:08 · 15 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

Guys, what do you think about that? Girls, what do you think about that and do you do it?

I wear boxers 'cause they feel comfortable to me. I'm a female and I just LUV boxers and thats all I wear.

2007-04-04 11:36:55 · 9 answers · asked by Chicago 4 in Singles & Dating

im felling kinda sad latly does anyone have anything cheerful to say?

2007-04-04 11:34:40 · 3 answers · asked by Bball girl 1 in Singles & Dating

alright so like a month ago my friend, me, her boyfriend and his friend went to the movies. well me and his friend made out and i thought i liked him so we all hung out the next night and i realized that i don't really like him. well we kinda talked after that and i wasn't gonna be mean and not answer his calls but i guess he kinda got the message. so we stopped talking, and i heard that a girl at his school was talking about me saying i was a hore but i've never even met her so i guess that she likes him and he was talking about me or something like that...and that was a week ago. and so i was just messing around on myspace and i checked out his page and he has me on his top 8 friends.....and he has like 7 pages of friends. should i send him a message or something cause i kinda feel sorry for him. but do ya'll think he still likes me?

2007-04-04 11:31:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married 9 years and have 2 kids. Things were great the first 5 years but after we bought a house my wife had to live under a tighter budget. She spent thousands and thousands on credit cards that I didn't know about. By the time I found out we had to declare bankruptcy.At the same time she had her loser mother move in with us because she was homeless and welched off of everyone else in the family. That really changed my wife. She began to turn into her mother. Sleeping all day, not doing any house work while I worked 10-12 hour days. I feel like she has become a totally different person and it's getting worse not better. I feel like no matter how bad it gets the children would be better off with both parents. We rarely fight in front of them, we are not screamers/dish breakers. I can't believe they would be happier with Mom living somewhere else.

2007-04-04 11:31:22 · 18 answers · asked by jackbarrack 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I left my husband a week ago. Our marriage is nothing but lies. I don't trust him or believe a word that comes out of his mouth. His anger is becomming very violent. He wants me to come home. He says he loves me and will change. I beleive he has been involved with other women. He is never really there for me. Can he change or should I go on with my life? Can I trust him again?

2007-04-04 11:25:52 · 27 answers · asked by runssome 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The names in this post are made up..lol..My good friend "jane" is upset because her boyfriend "bob" has made friends with a girl he works with "ann"Ann has a boyfriend too. Bob drives ann home every time after they finish work, but not without stopping for coffee first. They get off work at 1 am, and sometimes bob doesn't get home until between 3 and 5 am. bob says that his girlfriend jane shouldn't care, because she should be sleeping. Bob talks about ann a lot. Ann is pretty and jane feels jealous. Sometimes when bob gets home after dropping ann off, they get on msn chat and talk through all hours of the night. My friend jane has a tendancy to have low self esteem and get jealous. Bob tells her that him and ann have so much to talk about and he can't have those kinds of conversations with her. He likes to be intelectually stimulated by ann,in other words. Is he cheating?

2007-04-04 11:22:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating