Im inlove with a married man and hes inlove with me as well we have met on net and our relationship grew over the past year he is indian and im american, he lives 7 hours from me, The question is its his wifes birthday this weekend and he told me he wanted to come be with me the weekend, as its her birthday on saterday id think he would want and need to be with her but he said he will come be with me. My question is is this love that he has for me, wanting to be with me and not with his own wife on her birthday?
2007-04-04 12:32:50 · 18 answers · asked by Alone s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't like to be rude, but hon, he is with her for a reason. If he wanted out of the marriage anymore men and women walk out everyday, whether they have children or not. He is playing you along so he can have his cake and eat it too. A year is long enough for him to made that move.
2007-04-04 12:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart this is not love, its more like lust. You are new and exciting to him and like other people have said once it gets old he will get tired of you and replace you. The thing about it is she is still the wife so if he loved you so much then why is he not trying to make you his wife. Don't believe everything this man tells you, its probably not even his wife's b-day but he is telling you that to make you feel special. And why are you with someone else's husband -oh don't tell me he told you that he is only there for the kids- or did he give you that line about he was trying to break it off easy and he couldn't just up and leave.....yes been there done that- This man is only using you......the guy I messed with wasn't married but still they lived together.......Now what if you found the man of your dreams and some SLUT was able to take him from you-how would you feel....leave that married man alone and get your own man. If the wife ever found out about you-you had better watch out You should be ashamed of yourself and is your self esteem that low? Find your own man...remember...you can never have him on specials days like christmas, thanksgiving all the major holidays he will be with his wife....you know, the one he told you he didn't get along with. Remove your dunce hat....What goes around comes around....just be ready when it does....karma is a mother-----.
2007-04-04 19:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by Pegi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so.... i dont think its love... i can understand an indian mans point of view. most indian women are always nagging and want to have complete control over everything. i dont know how far you have gone in your relationship with him. if you've had sex many times then i dont think its love... not that people in love cant have sex but most likely she probably doesnt give him any. and many indian men try to avoid women even on the specialist occasions cuz they can definitely make a special occasion into a pain in the ***. its true. but why are you with a married man anyways? i mean think if this was your husband and some woman came into his life and you didnt know about it... how would you feel? it would be a very painful thing... its just wrong. i mean the very second you found out he was married you should have ended your relationship then and there. now if you knew him before he was married and you were in love and then he got married and you united again it would be a little bit of a different story.
2007-04-04 19:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by karen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to break it to you lady, he does not have love for you, to leave his wife with children to see you on her bd is bs he will do the same thing to you when he finds a new girl on the net.
Most men that find love on the net just like the happiness of keeping it a secret and the pursuit to persuade a persons feelings.
Men, speaking from a man, they have a warped way of not seeing love and just like to try something new, dont get to attached cause odds are it wont last or he will do the same to you in time.
2007-04-04 19:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you not met him face to face yet? If not this is a serious red flag. What man would be with another women on his wife's birthday? I would decline the invitation, end the relationship and find a single man.
2007-04-04 21:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by I Like Grapes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont know if it is love but he has the best of both worlds. You his mistress at his beck an call and his wife at home. If you want to be the other woman in his life call it what you want.
2007-04-04 19:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not love...it's that he's tired of her and you are something new and exciting. the newness will wear off and he'll move on to another affair.. sorry, but he doesn't sound like someone that deserves your respect, and you shouldn't be sleeping with a married man. how would you feel if you were married and your husband was sleeping with someone else?
2007-04-04 19:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its love he feels for you right now,just like it was love he felt for his wife however many years ago they married think about your future .I wish you all the best in life & may god bless
2007-04-04 19:50:05 · answer #8 · answered by f.binphilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a trifling dumb-*** hoe! No, it's not love. If he loved you then he wouldn't still be married...duh! Haven't you heard of sister-hood? Find your own man, you home wrecker!
2007-04-04 19:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its called having his cake and eating it ...its also called selfish BUT just consider this if he "loves" you like he "loves" her how lucky you might be one day to have him all to yourself OR will you??sounds to me like you are somebody he has nicely tucked away out of sight and out of mind until it suits him surely you can get your own man??sorry if this sounds harsh but how can you be in love with someone you dont know you only see the side of him he wants you to see you dont live with him
2007-04-04 19:46:32 · answer #10 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋