my Break up w/girlfriend?

Question

Hi. I am a lesbian and my girlfriend and I just broke up. We were only together for a little over one month and lived two hours away. I am tryng to figure something out. She broke up with me last week and said that she didn't she didn't feel the same for me but two days before that she was crazy about me. She also had said that she was dealing with an issue she was dealing with for a while now and wanted to be single again and straighten out her issue/life. She said there was a possibility that we could get together once she settle "her ****". Idk what that means, but I don't believe it. The day before she broek up with me, she had gone to Pridefest with some friends. She wanted me to go so bad but I couldn't due to the fact I couldnt' get off from work. We still talk now a little and are still friends. Either she found someone else or I think she's got bipolar or somethin. I know at times she said she felt liek she was someone else..so maybe she's got a metal issue?? help! lol

Answer 1

Or maybe seeing a lot of other lesbians made her rethink things and feel you weren't the one for her. Especially ones who could be persuaded to go. And maybe the "long distance" nature of the relationship was an issue for her.

It's probably a mix of quite a number of the above.

I fear there is no simple answer -- certainly none you can be sure of. Chalk it up to experience and move on.