Family & Relationships - 4 April 2007

Last week I walked into the bathroom and found my room mate smelling my used underwear in one hand and holding his hardness in the other? He is normally really really nice to me and does all the housework for me. But now I worry that he is smelling my underwear again whenever I am out. What can I do? My girlfriend thinks it funny and enjoys teasing him about it, I feel a little sorry for him. He is cute in a sad puppy kind of way.

2007-04-04 15:48:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iam 17 years old me n my boyfriend have been togehter for about 1 year and 6 months. But at times i regret having sex w/ him because i believe it was to soon. We were going out for about 3 months and at that third month we did it. My question is was it too soon?

2007-04-04 15:46:19 · 46 answers · asked by coolchick254 1 in Singles & Dating

i read from newspaper article stating, statistically higher educated individuals have less or no children, why?

2007-04-04 15:45:40 · 13 answers · asked by df a 1 in Family

We had been together 4 months...2 of those living together bc he and his old roomate were fighting...everysince he moved in there were problems...i saw condoms in his see-through travel bag after he came back from a trip, he didnt use them, but still it made me suspicious...he didnt like when i went out and i would get drunk...i never did anything stupid...he criticized me a lot, my clothes and posture, can you believe that?? Other than that he was super sweet and romantic, sucessful, paid his half of the bills...after all the fighting...he ended up asking a girl out on myspace...they never met...i came back from a week at my moms and he wasnt even home...he looked barely happy to see me...he finally said he didnt have feelings anymore...he ended it w/o really saying it was over...i thought he was cheating on me and got really mad...he was already supposed to be moving anyway...but i called him and told him to get out that day...i later apologized...he told me he wasnt cheating

2007-04-04 15:45:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've gotten used to it bald, but don't really like how it looks... what do you guys prefer?

2007-04-04 15:44:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend ave been dateing going on a year in 2 weeks.... tonight me and him were talking (on the phone) and he was playing around with me and told me to stop playing with myself, him being goffy anyways he brought up his ex gfs and places were he has done it with them. I know we have our past and all but i got this weird feeling inside of me when he told me of all the places. (i have never kissed a guy till him and done "IT" till him)..... we have not done much and what not.... but what should i do???

2007-04-04 15:38:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl and i know she likes me, we can talk on msn and she tells me she loves me, but two days ago i went to this club and my sister told this fat girl that i said she was fat and now that fat girl got all her friends to beat me up and 8 natives 6 white and 4 emos were around me and the girl i like help me out cuz they were her friends too (even the fat girl) and after she stop it some how they still give me evil looks and the girl i like didn't like what i did, and now on msn her name is do i love him or what????

i talk to her on msn she said she loves me but now i'm too shy to call her and i'm only in this city until after easter.

2007-04-04 15:28:08 · 1 answers · asked by ice_2122 2 in Singles & Dating

To break it down to you I am not a lesbian.My friend is and she needs some advice.She never told her parents or no one except me.She is only nine.So please help her.

2007-04-04 15:26:37 · 26 answers · asked by lovie 1 in Friends

i have like this BIG crush on my best 'guy' friend!!! i don't know what to do... i love him so much... but he likes some other girl. i don't know what to do... anybody know what i should do?

2007-04-04 15:25:23 · 16 answers · asked by Miss Cucumber Melon 1 in Singles & Dating

wow, its nice to see you still remember you have a daughter... thought you forgot considering thr fact you left about 3 weeks ago and havent called or really emailed at all. whatever.

I went to stay with her because her Dad moved due to job reasons, but then came back. I live in another state. She is right to be upset with me. I feel like I don't deserve to be a mother. Her grandmother was taking care of her. I could not sacrifice my life for her.

I am to blame, but don't know what to do. Her Dad has sole physical and legal custody of her. She is 14 years old. She is having trouble in school now also.

I don't really know how to respond. I am a terrible person.

2007-04-04 15:22:50 · 12 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

2007-04-04 15:21:39 · 16 answers · asked by gasexylady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-04 15:16:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the deal, over the past 11 years, I have rec'd at least 15 emails from women asking me if my husband and i are still married because he told them he was divorced or not married at all. Then I find out he has either slept with them or been intimate with them in some other way. Each time I confront him, I get the same answer.."She's delusional or she's out to get me or I don't even know who that is". I have found several personal ads and each time he tells me, "someone is setting me up or the computer is doing that by itself". I am not a stupid woman and he knows this. Yet he continues to degrade my intelligence with his stupid reasoning. I have proof that he's cheated on me, but he gets mad and turns it around on me. He tries to make me feel guilty because I found something out. He yells at me for snooping and not trusting him. He denies all affairs but one. I don't believe his lies, never had. I think he does though. Is there a surefire way to tell and call him on his lies?

2007-04-04 15:11:36 · 22 answers · asked by shannonfewell2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 21, he's 25. We've been together 5 months and when it started i had just come out of a serious 2 year relationship. I had lost all hope in men, and then i met my bf. He was sweet, kind, considerate, hadn't been with any girls sexually, and genuinely cared about me. I know I'm his first love and that's why i feel so guilty that i don't feel completely the same.

I do care about him a lot. We live together, go to the same college, work together. He's always there and I can't imagine him not being there. I feel like i love him, but i don't feel that same passion for him that i had for my ex or that i know he feels for me.

I feel like he could do better than me. Like he deserves a girl who loves him blindly like he loves me. But at the same time, I want to hold onto him for myself because he means so much to me and because we're having a baby.

Do i tell him all this, or give it time and hope that i continue to love him more each day?

2007-04-04 15:10:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband says that I have created bitterness in him, my child and him. He moved due to job reasons and lives in another state. He left our 14 year old daughter and his mother was taking care of her.

I went to stay with them for a few weeks, but then came back.

I have created bitter feelings in my child, him and his mother. Will I ever be able to alleviate these feelings? Or, should I even try? I feel like an idiot and stupid for going and then leaving.

2007-04-04 15:07:53 · 6 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

Im 15 and the one thing i really want more than anything is a mom who cares and will always be their...When i was younger my mom use to date all these different men...And they were drug dealers,I've been touched by one raped by one...And My own mom took her boyfriends side...She picks her friends over me...Im scared of her one friend she is liveing with this friend..And her friend has been on drugs since they age of 12 but she is off them anyway her friend is rude and she punched me where she shouldent of my mom seen it and laughed...also my moms friend was in jail for stealing cars and she almost killed a guy...I want to report her friend but would anything be done?Because i know my mom would take her friends side...And also the holiday(easter is coming up..If her friend can't go to our family party my mom wont go to see me : (...I tried to take my life over my mom she always makes me cry...What do i do to get this all to stop,Everytime i tell her how i feel she tells me to grow up.

2007-04-04 15:06:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so yeah he made me delete my myspace (my bf) cause of insecurity but he wont let me delete his... he seems hella controltive is there a future?

2007-04-04 15:05:47 · 20 answers · asked by i ♥ Food 3 in Singles & Dating

When the time came to ask someone to help me plan the wedding and make sure everything runs smothly for the big day, one of my friends (an interior designer) from work was the logical choice. I helped her with some stuff for her wedding last year too. She wanted to help, she had even asked me before I decided who I wanted to ask. Well, last week she stabbed me in the back. I told her some stuff thinking that I could trust her, she turned around and used it to almost get me fired from my job. I don't want to make a big deal out of it for my job's sake and the fact that I have to work with her everyday. But I also don't want anything more that a work relationship. I've already stopped talking to her about anything not pertaining to work. My question is: How do I let her know that I no longer want her assistance with out making a big fuss over it and having her cause a sceen at work? Also, am I wrong for not wanting her help after what she did to me?

2007-04-04 15:03:36 · 6 answers · asked by warriorchic84 2 in Weddings

Theres this guy named Garrett and I hate him half to death because he practically ruins my life!! He ruins the day for everyone else too. He makes fun of me and everything else that could possibly ruin my day. He makes my bff's life miserable so that she wants to kill herself (dont blame her its all his fault, he calls her a s.l.u.t.).

How can I make him quit?
Wut can I do to make him leave me and my bff alone?

Oh yeah and hes in our class and very hard to avoid.

2007-04-04 15:02:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my sisters just told me she is getting married! I was able to talk to her for a long time about what married life is like.

Anyway, if you were asked to come to a pre-marriage counseling session an engaged couple is attending to speak to them, what would you say to the couple? The good and the bad, what to expect.

I told my sister that I was going to do this for her and then email her the responses. (Minus your names, I will just have her tell me which she likes best and I will award the points to that person!)

Thanks in advance!

2007-04-04 15:01:13 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs. K 3 in Marriage & Divorce

room mate smelling my used underwear. He said he wasn't but I showed him the recording I had on my phone of him doing it. When my girlfriends came around I told them and asked for some advice, he wasn't pleased, he was all red. Why does he like to do it so much, this is not the first time either? Do other men do this too? Why?

2007-04-04 15:00:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my teachers is like that. How can i deal with him?

2007-04-04 14:59:57 · 7 answers · asked by Ewaj 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-04 14:59:54 · 18 answers · asked by slip 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 28 years old female working full time, i enjoy travelling and riding dirtbike with my boyfriend, i love my job, seldom do housework, will my lifestyle change if i have a baby? if so will it be dramatic?

2007-04-04 14:57:38 · 8 answers · asked by df a 1 in Family

umm i've been wanting to go up to this guy and talk to him. he keeps looking at me whenever we're sitting at church. However, he leaves right when church gets out.. I never have the moment where i could talk to him.. you know? what should i do? where should i look for him?

2007-04-04 14:49:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Kimba always acts like he likes me.calls me comes to see me, talks good about me, but when its time to really make something is acts as if its a joke

2007-04-04 14:46:21 · 1 answers · asked by algo_mas_por_tu68 2 in Singles & Dating

My son & I live 4 hours away from my cheating husband. It has been almost 2 weeks since my husband has even tried to contact my son. He sent me a text tonight saying that our son can call him anytime. So I had our son call him & I told him that after they said bye he could hang up...so he did. After they got off the phone my husband sent me a text saying thanks for letting him call me. I didn't respond. I just don't want to have contact w/him unless I have to. Is that wrong? Also, like I said...it's been two weeks since he spoke to him & he talked to him for 7 minutes! He took a whole 7 minutes out of his day to talk to him. And is it weird that he can't call my son...he has to have him call him? I guess he's afraid I might answer even though he doesn't have to worry about that. I don't want to stop him from talking to him....I just wanted some opinions.

2007-04-04 14:44:45 · 11 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When we are with other people at work having a group conversation he always looking at me. He let me read a pome about kissing a girl and the touch of her breast. He waits for me outside after work trying to play it off. When his friends are around outside of work he walk right beside me.
When we have a group project at work and we are split up he tell the other man "you can have the Lady" I catch him looking at me. He gives me heads up when he see's other men looking at me.He will say "look hes cheecking you out" Im not ready to ask him out at all . Unless I know him for a year are so down the road.

2007-04-04 14:44:29 · 1 answers · asked by jakie227 2 in Singles & Dating

He asked me out on paper, and had Elyssa give it to me. Elyssa is my best friend, and she said that I can never go out with him. He is in 5th while I am in 7th. I know there is an age difference, but I really like him, and I want to go out with him, but I already said no. I dont know why, probly because of all the pressure, and all the people asking me if I liked him, but i like him, and I do want to go out with him. I just dont htink I can anymore. I dont know what to do. Can anyone help? Please and Thanku.

2007-04-04 14:37:58 · 5 answers · asked by Star 3 in Singles & Dating

why do i only seem to be happy when im with my boyfriend? how come i have a hard time having fun with my friends when im just constantly thinking about my boyfriend? im in high school and ive been with him for two years and i know i need a equal balance between my friends and my boyfriend. its just im spending so much less time with my friends and i feel so distance and not able to connect with any of them. is this weird? im just worried because if something did happen with my boyfriend and we broke up i wont really have anyone ......
im busy with sports constantly and i always try to save a day to hang out with my boyfriend so that pretty much takes up my weekend.
maybe when summer comes things will be different.

2007-04-04 14:36:02 · 24 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Singles & Dating