Im 15 and the one thing i really want more than anything is a mom who cares and will always be their...When i was younger my mom use to date all these different men...And they were drug dealers,I've been touched by one raped by one...And My own mom took her boyfriends side...She picks her friends over me...Im scared of her one friend she is liveing with this friend..And her friend has been on drugs since they age of 12 but she is off them anyway her friend is rude and she punched me where she shouldent of my mom seen it and laughed...also my moms friend was in jail for stealing cars and she almost killed a guy...I want to report her friend but would anything be done?Because i know my mom would take her friends side...And also the holiday(easter is coming up..If her friend can't go to our family party my mom wont go to see me : (...I tried to take my life over my mom she always makes me cry...What do i do to get this all to stop,Everytime i tell her how i feel she tells me to grow up.
2007-04-04 15:06:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your mom is a B**** And you need to know that. You need to get some of your friends over and say something like your friend is and A** then if she hits you then your friends will be wittnesses. If she has done this in the past then screw her and run away. Run to the one that you love and trust the most and then just stay away. Don't call her your mom. Mom's don't let their child get hit by their friends. If her friend hits you again kick her A** and don't stop. If she threatens you don't hesitiate to cuss her out. Just let your evil side come out and she'll act like a real mom.
2007-04-04 16:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by SuP3RmAn67 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call social worker and CPS (children protect service) or call Childhelp® USA National Child Abuse Hotline
1-800-4-A-CHILD®
(1-800-422-4453)
TDD: 1-800-2-A-CHILD.
She is your mother but she is not a good mother...I'm sorry you got through hard times. I can tell you that's is abuse. She is not protecting you from anyone who is harmful. She can't bring people who are drug dealer. She could get an arrest if FBI find out that she is formal friend of drug dealer. You will end up alone when she caught and stay in t he jail. No you can not stay with her until get older. be careful with your life, she can't be in your life yet. please protect yourself!!!
Report her friend who touch you and rape you and call social worker in CPS about your mother. You will go to safe place!
2007-04-04 15:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by foxxmay2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom wont go to see you, that means she has no respect for you. You should be proud of yourself for being such a strong girl. You have to learn to let people who do not care for you go. I know its hard because its your mom. If you want respect you have to first respect yourself enough to know when your getting played. You should find some close family to stay with and dont talk to your mom again until she gets her act together. Just because she gave birth to you doesnt mean she's your mother, a real mother is someone who has mad love for you and treats you like the world. I know you must have someone special in your life besides your mom who makes you feel special.
2007-04-04 15:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my God, you're living in chaos. I really feel sorry for you. You've been touched and raped, that's not right and your mom should've took your side.
I'm a little bit confused in your story but I can understand what you're trying to say.
Do you have any cousins or aunts or uncles? .. I think the best thing for you to do is to live with your relatives (if you have any) for you to be safe at least. I was thinking for you to tell your cousins this so you'd feel less depressed. If you live with your aunt/uncle at their house, you'll be free from your mom.
If you're still in contact with your dad, live with him and ask him that you want a new mom.
you see the point of you living with your relatives will free you from your mom.
Wish you best of luck sweetie .. I hope you'll find some peaceful life.
2007-04-04 15:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by haseen_gudiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try telling you mom that she needs to be an adult and act like one. you should tell her that she should be a mother. if that doesn't work the best thing for you to do is probably to contact child services or something because that kind of behavior is just not acceptable in a parent. but don't take your life its not worth it. you should find people who appreciate you and uplift you. they are the best people to be around. but don't give up just because of one person. i know that its hard to do this kind of thing to someone you look up to and depend on for support but what she is doing is despicable. so if all else fails contact child services and get away from her.
2007-04-04 15:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by Brutus Maxius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like one hell of a terrible situation you have there kiddo.
Pretty much the only thing i can say is to keep up your spirits and stay strong, once your on your own and away from her you'll be stronger then you ever thought you could be.
Best of luck.
2007-04-04 15:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, go to a child abuse hotline immediatly or call the cops.
your mom is being a dick and you need better and deserve better.
you can either be put in a foster home near your area, be sent to another family member, or put in a home of a family friend, teacher, etc.
your moms a bad person and you need to call RIGHT NOW!
they'll take your side and put your mom and her friends in rehab.
2007-04-04 15:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by Just Ryan! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg that terrible
u must call a help line or tell this to the police
dont keep a secret please
something can be done if u tell someone dont keep it to urself
tell them everything
it will get better
good luck
im rootin for you
2007-04-04 15:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by smarta$$ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Killing you slowly? Well, kill her faster.
Seriously though, call the police. You may not like this, but if you wanted to, you could possibly get foster parents, but that's not very fun either, but I assure you, it would be a better situation than the one you're in.
2007-04-04 15:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by brandonedbishop 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 04:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋