We had been together 4 months...2 of those living together bc he and his old roomate were fighting...everysince he moved in there were problems...i saw condoms in his see-through travel bag after he came back from a trip, he didnt use them, but still it made me suspicious...he didnt like when i went out and i would get drunk...i never did anything stupid...he criticized me a lot, my clothes and posture, can you believe that?? Other than that he was super sweet and romantic, sucessful, paid his half of the bills...after all the fighting...he ended up asking a girl out on myspace...they never met...i came back from a week at my moms and he wasnt even home...he looked barely happy to see me...he finally said he didnt have feelings anymore...he ended it w/o really saying it was over...i thought he was cheating on me and got really mad...he was already supposed to be moving anyway...but i called him and told him to get out that day...i later apologized...he told me he wasnt cheating
2007-04-04 15:45:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and had wanted to try to fix our relationship...he ended up coming home anyway...he had drank a beer a could tell...he was shaking...we both cried...he almost called the police when i tried to stop him from leaving...he called last nite...i didnt pick up bc i was busy...i didnt want my other friends to hear our problems...i called him back twice, he never answered or called back...why do you suppose he called?
2007-04-04 15:46:27 · update #1
He has quite a few characteristics of a possesive/abusive male. Be VERY careful if you decide to take this male back into your life. Calling you after getting kicked out could serve multiple purposes such as guilting you into taking him back.
2007-04-04 15:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by Shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Angel, I'm gong to start my answer by asking you to read your own question again. You two just have no business together. You are oil and water. You know how sardines can taste really good on a cracker? And You know that chocolate chip cookie dough ice cream is wonderful? But you would not put sardines on choc chip cookie dough ice cream now would you? That is what is going on here. It is definitely over and you two are just ripping each other up. Stop it - get away from this guy find someone else. I have a theory that we are different people when we are combined with different people. I have always been sensible and loving and responsible but I was dating a guy l5-l8 years ago and I just got stupid when I was with him- I was jealous and I spent way too much money on him and I was a gnat's *** away from being a stalker. So I know. You are just a bad combination. What does it matter who he called? You need him out from under your skin and out of your mind.. Trust me the loss of this guy will be the best thing that could have happened to you. Not get out there and find someone else. Good Luck -k-
2007-04-04 22:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by kbama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At times you know someone isn't really right for you, or maybe they are.
But you feel like you've had enough. However, at the same time, you cannot give up what you had. There is still a part of you that is clinging on to the good memories, the goood aspects of the relationship. I think thats what overcame him.
Sometimes when you make the decision to leave someone, you end up thinking twice, doubting whether or not you did the right thing. It's hard separating yourself from someone you've gotten attached to. Even though his romantic feelings may be gone, or at least so he thought, he probably still loves you and/or misses your company.
2007-04-04 22:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by chocolate_sateen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to see if you were going to back down and take him back, it sounds like you need a better person in your life. Find someone that will make you happy, He he ended then be done go and find someone else
2007-04-04 22:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by path2631 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had just gained enough courage to call you and tell you that he loves you, and that hes sorry, but you not answering the phone made him more nervous, and maybe even more sad...
Trust me on this one, I have had this experience, it sucks...
If you both have cell phones, you should text him, tell him that it is ok...
2007-04-04 22:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jacob C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but it's because you are a doormat. This is way too much drama for any person to put up with, why are you?
He is using you for easy sex.
2007-04-04 22:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he wanted to talk, but he probably didn't answer the other two times because he realized he wanted to think before talking about it with you.
2007-04-04 22:48:19 · answer #7 · answered by Jaded 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't matter why he called, i think you're better off without him and should just move on
2007-04-04 22:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by roansaga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He forgot the rest of his condom stash.
2007-04-04 22:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he left something there....
2007-04-04 22:57:28 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋