so yeah he made me delete my myspace (my bf) cause of insecurity but he wont let me delete his... he seems hella controltive is there a future?
2007-04-04 15:05:47 · 20 answers · asked by i ♥ Food 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have his pw
he as mine
he deleted everything
i only read messages and put my name on his page
2007-04-04 15:11:18 · update #1
oh no bucko... equal here
what he requires of you he must be willing to do himself
no double standards
his gets deleted too or just create a new one
2007-04-04 15:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by ann s 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What An Asshole, Controlative @ Boyfriend Status, I Wonder How It's Going To Be When You Guy's Get Married, Might As Well Start Learning How To Carry A Chain On Your Leg Now, So You'll Be Used To It Later!!
2007-04-04 15:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by mizktic_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the strength to never let anyone coerce you into anything. If you are going to lead a happy life, you must find this inner power.
Find a good boyfriend who is not controlling. This is not the right one. Forget about having him delete his MySpace because you do not want to make the same mistake he did. This is really a blessing in disguise, because you can get away from the control freak before it gets ugly.
2007-04-04 15:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by siddoly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to familiar to me. I suggest that you discuss how you feel with him. Explain to him that it's not fair for him to do that and you can't do it. He is controlling. I bet he is cheating on you too. Sorry to say that but I've been there done that! Its so much harder for you to "recognize" what he really is doing. You know how it is right? when you are in the situation you can't see it as clearly but once you get out of it you see things that you might of never have seen being in it. I'm sorry for you cause i know how you feel. I can feel how much you love this man from what you've said. It seems like you really want it to work but, you are not happy, for you to be truly happy you will have to be with a man that will accept you for you, all of you. Even your faults and flaunts lol. Same with the guy you choose to be with. If he pretends to be something he isn't then, He later a few months later acts a different way from how he perceived himself to be to you. Then that would be like false advertisement. My point is He has to be with someone that can accept him for him. You know why? Because you can't change him sweetheart. OK. Don't even waste your time to try. Either accept him for him or leave him alone. Which will you choose? Its as simple as that.
2007-04-04 15:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one makes you do anything. You decide to honor their request.
I think that if your boyfriends doesn't know what a great site myspaces is for you to talk to all your friends then he is not worth your time.
Is he going to tell you how to dress, walk, eat, sit etc. Controling behavior is not acceptable. Relationships are a partnership. It requires trust and respect. It doesn't sound like you have either of his.
2007-04-04 15:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET RID OF HIM!!
He is far too controlling, especially if he wont do the same with his myspace. Its his way of checking up on you, and you dont need someone who is gonig to hold you back like that.
I would set up a new myspace, and send him a message basically telling him where to go.
Lose him and get on with your life!
2007-04-04 15:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by Ashlee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i deleted my myspace because i dump my boyfriend, but i wouldnt because my boyfriend told me too. him making you delete yours is ridiculous. and he still has his? seems like he is more than insecure but controlling. get a myspace in secret and not tell him. two can play that game.
2007-04-04 15:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by Nelly J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't make you do anything...you chose to delete it. Unless he held a gun to your head or threatened you with physical violence, you simply caved to his demand but it was YOUR choice.
HIS choice is to not remove his...do you really want to be with someone who is going to try to bully or control you, yet does as he desires? That kind of behavior only tends to get worse.
Stand up for yourself...and take responsibility for your actions and decisions.
2007-04-04 15:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea there will be a future but if he still got his tell him he needs to delete his too or your making a new one.....this is the same thing that happened with my brother and his girl so if he don't delete his make yours and exchange passwords or something..well okay SO HE GOTS YOUR password AND YOU GOT HIS password....WELL TELL HIM TO STOP IF THIS AIN'T GOING TO WORK THEN TRY SHARING....
2007-04-04 15:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by krazi3_303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut the guy lose.He sounds like a control freak.
2007-04-04 15:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by Mary R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋