Family & Relationships - 4 April 2007

I just started a new job a couple of weeks ago. An employee named Tammy started talking to me: At first I thought this was great I made a friend already. Well, to make a long story short. She started telling me about her life, that she is living with a guy named Mark. and she found out he is still talking to his ex-wife(she said alot of nasty things about this lady). The more I listened the more upset I became, when I realized that I knew Mark and his ex-wife. The more I listened to her, the more upset I became. I knew she was the one that caused the"ex" so much grief. I also knew something that she didn't....Mark was still seeing his Ex-wife. I didn't say anthing to her, I
just walked out....Now my delema, Mark's ex-wife was recently told she has a life-threating condition and I don't want to upset her. But i feel she needs to know. He has never left her alone since the split. And she thinks they are trying to work things out. She has no idea about Tammy....Tell her or Not?

2007-04-04 19:40:16 · 6 answers · asked by wildfire 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had this friend for about 7 and today i told her i couldn't take it anymore. Those weren't the words but that was basically the message. See she lives about 8 hours away. We went through alot of great things through high school and the beginning of college. She moved away and since I don't have too much money I couldn't go see her. Also, I lived w/ my parents and now w/ my grandma and its not that easy leaving without them being extremely worried I do have rules. So I haven't gone to visit her in the 2 years she's lived there. To me it seems that she betrayed me bc she became best friends with that other girl bc I haven't physically seen her new life. I know she is proud of it and so am I. She has offered to pay my ticket to go on a bus to visit her. But my pride never allowed me to take her money. I don't understand why I have to be there physically for her to feel my support and friendship. Its like everything we went through in the past doesn't matter.

2007-04-04 19:39:32 · 9 answers · asked by ima gurl 3 in Friends

My wife divorced me because after I discovered I had bisexual feelings, she could no longer feel attracted to me. I know what I want, and that is a wonderful woman who I can have a family with. I did not want a divorce. My attractions to some men are purely physical, and are not enough to make me want to be with them. A meaningful relationship with a women is much more important to me. My wife knew I would never cheat on her, yet still couldn't reconcile feeling unattracted to me because of my same-sex attractions. Am I doomed to be alone now?

2007-04-04 19:33:25 · 15 answers · asked by Joito21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i love a guy and we r in 2 different countries, we r gona get married soon. the problem is that almost 90% of the times i call him, he doesnt reply coz he is with his friends and doesnt want to talk to me in front of them coz we r still not official (this is our tradition in our country). but even after he is alone he doesnt call me back and it makes me feel hurt. we do chat alot. also sometimes he doesnt reply back to my sms msgs. i know he loves me but this thing hurts me when it happens. i told him about it and he said he wont do it again, but still he does. he has improved in this thing but not alot.

what should i do? i am sure he loves me and we r planning for our marriage. should i keep on insisting on this issue or is it gonna end when we get married?

2007-04-04 19:29:51 · 3 answers · asked by A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how can you say that to him without him leaving or becoming distant, and cheating on you?

2007-04-04 19:24:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think my b/f is shyer than i am and i'm sayin this sexually his alwayz afraid to try something new i feel like just making the move but i'm also shy & dont want to do anythin to make my b/f feel uncomfortable i want him to enjoy sex but wat tips can u guys giv me to make it more fun also i want to try something new should i talk to him about it or just make the move

2007-04-04 19:21:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive known her for a few years. We have became really good freinds. But a few times for the last few months we will stop talking to each other and one of us will ignore the other than it will be all fine again. What is she trying to do ?

2007-04-04 19:21:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I called and left a message that I was sorry and she is still ignoring me. She is 58 and to be honest I think she is acting very immature. She hurt me.

2007-04-04 19:18:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

In a family, the interests of wife & mother are generally conflicting. Due to generation gap and other reasons, there is mistrust, hatered, jealousy between a man's wife and mother. The man can not make a choice from wife and mother. How can he create the values for Care, Trust and Love in the familty so that the can live happily together? Any help & experience please.

2007-04-04 19:17:26 · 3 answers · asked by jindalsk13 1 in Family

I have a wonderful boyfriend and I'm very happy. But he annoys me a whole lot. He talks a lot about non-sense and make a lot of noise eating. I do tell him to stop sometimes which i don't think i should. I know it's petty, but it really get on my nerves. what to do?

2007-04-04 19:17:07 · 8 answers · asked by saseebo 2 in Singles & Dating

what would you change it to?

2007-04-04 19:13:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is windows live only for personal ads?

2007-04-04 19:11:47 · 21 answers · asked by kah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend, mother, cousins, friends, they all seem to have one thing in common. And thats thinking they're always right, even when you prove to them that they're wrong. WHY!!!?!?!!

2007-04-04 19:09:22 · 10 answers · asked by DaDude 2 in Singles & Dating

This is a little embarassing, but my husband is working out of town, and all i can think about is him coming home and me doing him a "Favor". I want to text him a message letting him know that im looking forward to that, but i want to say it in a sexy way that will turn him on, and maybe even surprise him a little.
I must be losing my creativity...HELP

2007-04-04 19:06:25 · 22 answers · asked by Kimberly G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-04 19:04:34 · 26 answers · asked by A Real Fan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Meaning, did you cheat emotionally with someone while you were married? For how long? How did it turn out

2007-04-04 19:03:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-04 18:55:53 · 9 answers · asked by pussycat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband is great but i dont love him i dont know if i ever did, is it right to stay with someone because they are a good person, or because your scared that you wont find someone that will love you the same? I feel like giving up.

2007-04-04 18:54:45 · 16 answers · asked by sabrina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a petite guy who likes to sit on girls' shoulders at concerts, would crossdressing help me do this??? Most girls dont like to put guys on their shoulders, but would they put a random girl on their shoulders? If I crossdress will one put me on her shoulders??? IS there a BETTER way to do this please HELP

2007-04-04 18:53:12 · 5 answers · asked by petite man 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girl have been together for 2 years and it was wonderful. But as of late she has been really distent and reserved around me. She keeps saying she loves me and cant see her self with anyone else but I am not feeling that from her anymore. Should I break up with her and if so what should I say?

2007-04-04 18:51:56 · 6 answers · asked by Blake B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-04 18:51:50 · 5 answers · asked by sexy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-04 18:50:51 · 10 answers · asked by sexy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am pregnant and we decided that it is best to get an abortion. I did some research and got a clinic and the number of the clinic. Due to the fact that i dont have my own private office and my bf does we decided that it would be best if he phoned the clinic. I gave him the numbers and everything, he first lost the number so i saved it on his phone.
Sunday when we were alone at home he asked me what i want to do, do i realy want an abortion. He said that he would love to have a baby on day but currently he thinks that abortion is the best.
But still he hasnt called the clinic, why?

2007-04-04 18:49:09 · 8 answers · asked by SAgirl 5 in Singles & Dating

I can not wait any more. Sex life with my wife is so boring. ut nothing wrong.

2007-04-04 18:45:17 · 14 answers · asked by A0909 B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you could be a fly on the wall would you listen in to what people say about you, or would you prefer not to know?

2007-04-04 18:40:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-04 18:39:43 · 6 answers · asked by Blake B 1 in Singles & Dating

cause im a realy good cook but im a okay dancer

2007-04-04 18:38:53 · 22 answers · asked by Crizle 1 in Singles & Dating

"Hey, lady, the front seat of the car, should be reserved for me because i am the mother, and you are only a wife".

2007-04-04 18:37:10 · 15 answers · asked by emma l 4 in Family

ok, so, for those of you who have seen bam's unholy union, particularly the actual wedding episode, my fiance and i have a very similar style, and LOVED their ceremony and decor. our colors are red and black and we want to have similar decorations and such. obviously we wont be able to afford the same things but if we can find good looking knock offs it would be helpful. i have found a few things i like, but i was wondering if anyone else has seen this episode and can tell me where we can find similar things? we are still adding our own touches of course, but seriously, there ceremony is exactly how i pictured mine, and the reception was georgous. particularly i am looking for a picture of their cake as thats about what we are going for, but i cant find anything like it really. any help would be apreciated.

2007-04-04 18:37:00 · 0 answers · asked by Ashley M 7 in Weddings

I think I know why, but I can't explain it! Can you?

2007-04-04 18:35:20 · 15 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Singles & Dating