I am pregnant and we decided that it is best to get an abortion. I did some research and got a clinic and the number of the clinic. Due to the fact that i dont have my own private office and my bf does we decided that it would be best if he phoned the clinic. I gave him the numbers and everything, he first lost the number so i saved it on his phone.
Sunday when we were alone at home he asked me what i want to do, do i realy want an abortion. He said that he would love to have a baby on day but currently he thinks that abortion is the best.
But still he hasnt called the clinic, why?
2007-04-04 18:49:09 · 8 answers · asked by SAgirl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants to have the baby. Please think about not having an abortion. Children are the greatest gift. You will not regret having a baby you will regret having an abortion.
2007-04-04 18:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by HA HA HE HE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he wants the baby.Usally guys that dont want the baby would call and not loose the number.
How do you feel about having an abortion?
I tell you its very hard and you feel guilty and wonder why alot .I thought it was the right thing for me and still live with the guilt.Now I'm a mom my babies werent planned and the dad and I discussed abortion as well but once he saw the heartbeat and I saw it we were clear that thats part of us and we just take it one step at a time.He loves being a dad evnso it wasnt panned. so mayeb you both should talk about pro and cons and you have to think about the risks as well.A baby no matter if planned or not will brighten your life and yes you have to make some adjustments but believe me they so worth it once you hold the baby.
I told my bf that I know now what love of first sight is when I looked at my babies
I hope you make a desicion because the longer you wait the harder it will be.I know I regrad the baby that I aborted..
2007-04-05 01:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by JUSTICE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the act of actually picking up the phone, as the male party, calling an abortion clinic on your behalf and talking to another person about everything may just be too much for him. My suggestion would be that you both phone them together or go there together.
2007-04-05 03:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by Rabble Rouser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe deep down inside he does want the baby. Is he religious? Maybe he is feeling guilty about that. You might have to take that into your own hands. It is your body and your life that will be affected. Will you be able to finish school or continue to work? Will he always support you and the baby? He might get tired of you 3 years down the line and now you have a baby. It makes it harder to date because you have to find sitters and some guys will not date women with kids. Lots to think about. If you do want the abortion, you might have to take it in your own hands and call the clinic. Do it during your break and go find a public phone. Good luck to you.
2007-04-05 01:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by whowhat? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is your body granted but why should you kill an innocent baby made because of the stupidity of it parents. If you don't want the child you can give it up for adoption. They have open adoption where you will get to see your child and pick the family that it will live with. Don't kill a child just because you made bad decisions. I think you should have to live with your decisions because you made them not run away from them.
2007-04-05 01:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has mixed emotions about the situation. He probably feels guilty. You may feel guilty too, if you do it too. Consider having the baby and giving it up for adoption. There are plenty of good families that can not have children, and would love to adopt a newborn.
2007-04-05 01:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is a tough decision to make, even if you're sure you can't have the child.
2007-04-05 01:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by Created A Madman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really does want the baby. . .why not have it. . .save the baby. . .save the world
2007-04-05 01:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋