In a family, the interests of wife & mother are generally conflicting. Due to generation gap and other reasons, there is mistrust, hatered, jealousy between a man's wife and mother. The man can not make a choice from wife and mother. How can he create the values for Care, Trust and Love in the familty so that the can live happily together? Any help & experience please.
2007-04-04 19:17:26 · 3 answers · asked by jindalsk13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
when one marries, you leave home and start new responsibilities and a new family - that doesn't mean you don't love the family you came from, but, that you are branching out in life to start YOUR family. once your do that, this is the family you have to answer to love, the one your protect, care for, trust and love. if there is conflict between them, you are probably the one that's causing it. you have to stand up for your wife, not let her feel second class to your mom. you wife has to feel that she means more to you than anyone else in your world. once you give her the attention she deserves, she'll be able to feel more relaxed with your mom. don't let it be a competition match between them. just stand by your wife. good luck.
2007-04-05 00:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we are not living in a perfect world so that you can achieved all of these, and to those who have all these, wow, you can be a saint after. kidding aside, its hard for us to maintained and sustain such kind of relationship in a family, knowing all the reason you mentioned above. to start having a happy family maybe, the parents should really show the care and love. be the model for the children so that they can carry also the good values. good and open communication will be the best to have a happy family.
2007-04-04 19:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by taurust_girl27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife and children should be your first concern. They are your immediate family. Tell your mother that you love her, but you would appreciate it it she treated your wife with respect, because you have chosen and love her. If she can't, you will need to keep them apart. Whatever you do, DO NOT share any information about disagreements, or family problems with your mother. You will cause her to feel worse about your wife. Work your problems out without you mother's input.
2007-04-04 19:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋