I think I know why, but I can't explain it! Can you?
2007-04-04 18:35:20 · 15 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because there's no challenge..sometimes the spark comes from being assertive, bossy, or even *gasp* dare I say..B.itchy. when you're too nice it's like you don't mind being walked all over.
2007-04-04 18:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL- its just..i don't know...annoying!!
all i can think of is:"oh here we go again"-with an automatic roll of my eyes.
if u friends with that person, u afraid that the smallest thing will hurt them, &i dont think anyone wants to walk on egg shells everytime u around them...
also the simple fact that. . .its like talking to a pastor, priest, u have to really clean up ur stories, or news (leave out all the juicy details) because their almost constant "OMG" is irratating, or that look of dibelieve in their eyes...
Genrally i couldnt care the less, i make my stories even more explisit because the look on their faces are priceless, &i make it known before hand that i say things as it is, so put on ur armor cause i aint gonna n.i.c.e all the time!!
2007-04-05 01:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The typical man likes a challenge. If he thinks that he has you on a hook, he is off to the next challenge. Just learn to leave a little mystery about how much you really care. That way he continues to have a challenge to work for.
2007-04-05 01:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people get angry at me because when I'm sooooo nice they think i'm really thinking "god, i hate you so much." while half the time i am, other times i just don't want to upset the person. some people may think that being too nice is creepy....it can be at some points.
2007-04-05 01:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Me Being Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because nobody likes a pushover. Everyone wants to be challenged mentally and having someone so nice that they dont argue or stand up for themselves means its too easy.
2007-04-05 01:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by *Aimzie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think it is, I feel that humans are like cats, they pray on others.. We also want what we cant have.. And when we get it we dont usually want it.. there is the saying nice guys always finish last..
2007-04-05 01:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human nature. It shows that you are in charge, which is sometimes a turn-off for women. He's a wussdude & women like strong men who are confident and sometimes even a little cocky.
2007-04-05 01:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by jimmyjohn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people enjoy exciting and/or mysterious people for the the most part. Being nice is not exciting or mysterious!
2007-04-05 01:40:04 · answer #8 · answered by londam2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might get annoying? i dunno, i've always thought that that excuse of being too nice being a turn off was just a stupid concept made up by women who rather be in an abusive relationship (abuse may come in form of physical, emotional, etc.). i've heard of women who left their bf's to go with some jerk off who mistreats them just because the former was "too nice" it shouldn't be a turn off to women, it should actually attracted you more to the guy, or you'll end up F*ed in the A**
2007-04-05 01:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because guys can never tell if you like what they're saying or not. And "too nice" people don't talk about those stupid trashy sex jokes. At least I don't.
2007-04-05 01:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋