I called and left a message that I was sorry and she is still ignoring me. She is 58 and to be honest I think she is acting very immature. She hurt me.
2007-04-04 19:18:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No abuse or anything. She was showing favortism to my sister's baby boy (I wont go into details, but she did) over my baby girl. I e-mailed her back and said that her calling my little girl a "heifer" is like her calling him a "retard" and that my sister would be angry.
2007-04-04 19:33:06 · update #1
I am really not one to force someone to talk to me. I left a message. I am not going to knock at her door. I just do not want to put her in a corner and make matters worse.
2007-04-04 19:34:24 · update #2
to make matters worse my parents are supposedly getting a divorce, and all I can do is hear bits and pieces of info from my siblings
2007-04-04 19:36:13 · update #3
You did your part...move on and when she's done pouting, she'll call.
2007-04-04 19:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know as a Grandmother myself, I to hear how I treat One Grandchild differently than the other,but you know what I have leaned that is the grown kids still fighting over Mome attention. I have learned to ignore those remarks from my Grand babies parents. My Grandchildren know I love all of them. Sorry but calling your baby a heifer is a far cry from calling her a retard. I think you need to give Mom some space the woman is 58 and going through a divorce she does not need your whining right now. She probably will not return your calls because you have hurt her feelings, yes we Grandmothers have feelings too.
2007-04-09 02:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise her with flowers. I'm not exactly sure what is it with this sweet smelling gifts from above that makes people smile. Also, bring her favorite food as you go to her place and talk heart to heart about how sorry you were and how much you've missed her. Big time.
Don't forget to say I Love You. This will take all the hurt and pain away. Trust me.
2007-04-05 02:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by one hot momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that you are going through that. i have a relative which i can't really say who but anyways...they have there favorites and show it. all i can say is give her time and she will come around....just apologize when she does and thing should be OK. one thing though make sure that you let your daughter now that she is wonderful. and just focus on positive things. when your mom is like that just ignore it.i now it hurts but sometime it is better to just turn a blind eye to it because she still is your mother. hope everything works out...maybe send her some flowers...
2007-04-05 03:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by domo23_2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very immature to ruin a once close mother/daughter or son relationship. what was your argument about? did you call her any vile names? did you hurt her in any physical way. maybe you scared her a bit? 7 weeks is a LONG TIME to be ignoring someone. try writing her a card. express your feelings and tell her how sorry you are and you regret the argument you guys had. hopefully she'll find it in her heart to forgive you.
2007-04-05 02:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by cocomademoiselle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to her house, bring a special gift, and talk to her face to face. apologize.
i know u're hurt too. but she's ur mother n she's in a diificult period of her life. she's 58 and getting a divorce. think about it.
get out of ur comfort zone and do something that can make u and ur mother have a better relationship.
2007-04-05 03:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by jelibin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would you do if you were in my place?
my mum haven't talk to me for 5 1/2 years becasue i found out that she gave everything she own to my looser brother 17years old and left my with not even a penny! beside she told my that she wishs me dead for my brother' sake....
your problem can be delt with, just go and talk to your mother... good luck
2007-04-05 10:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by great woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it seemed little to you but you may have hurt her really badly as well. if you live near her then go to her house and try talking to her. she might need more time. p.s try and let her know that this time wasted on grudges will be time never given back.
2007-04-05 02:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by mrs nevz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that your situation is quite a sad one however you need to live your life for you and your daughter it is sad and very disheartning what your mum is doing but you need to remeber its her loss becasue she is missing out on you and your daughters life beacuse she is to immature to apploogise you are better than that. I wish you well
2007-04-05 02:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a hard time for them since they are divorcing and nope shes not doing any more for one then another you have to lighten up and stand by her its really horrible and very stress ful.
2007-04-08 23:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not contact her at all she will either get over it or not talk to your sister about it and have her talk to your mother or talk to your father
your mother will not cut off contact with you she loves you
2007-04-05 04:48:18 · answer #11 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋