Me and my girl have been together for 2 years and it was wonderful. But as of late she has been really distent and reserved around me. She keeps saying she loves me and cant see her self with anyone else but I am not feeling that from her anymore. Should I break up with her and if so what should I say?
2007-04-04 18:51:56 · 6 answers · asked by Blake B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her. Ask her what's going on. If you love her, don't be ashamed to go to counseling. If after that you're still not feeling the love, break it up face to face. Its disrespectful any other way.
2007-04-04 18:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you feel some distance and you want to know what the problem is. If she does not give you a straight answer then you need some time away from her. That is not fair to you if she is stringing you along. Take a week or so off from her that means NO PHONE CALLS. IF she comes looking for you then there might be some hope.
Good Luck
2007-04-05 01:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Buh Bye!
That's one way.
However I wouldn't suggest being that cold. If you have a heart at all you would talk with her. Tell her the truth and you cannot go wrong. It may hurt her at first to be told this. In the long run it is by far the best way to handle this.
She will appreciate you taking the time to care enough to explain. It is so insulting to be lied to or avoided. That hurts the most!
just talk to her.
2007-04-05 01:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by notskerd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she needs you more than ever right now. She might be going through some stuff and she might be distant with other people other than you. Just be there for her and remind her that you love her and anytime she needs to talk you are there. Just because you have one bump in the road is no right to walk away from a relationship.
2007-04-05 02:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by Alicia E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After two years, I think I would ask her what is wrong before I made any decisions. She may be having other problems that you are unaware of. If you do decide to break up, do it gently, and lovingly. After all there was once love there.
2007-04-05 01:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Let's just be best friends ok???... ..."
2007-04-05 01:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by Daffodil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋