Family & Relationships - 4 April 2007

Ok well it is spring break and I was away for 3 days in Virginia this is one of 3 vacations I will take this year. I have to go with my family because I am only 15. We own a condo renting bussiness in Ocean City and we often have to go down to clean and renevate the condos. There is a problem, though, my boyfriend gets mad at me for going away. He says I am spoiled for going away so much but I have no control over what my family does. I tell him the condo bussiness is something the whole family has to help with and he says he understands. But then he just gets mad at me every time I go away. I know he misses me when I leave but we still constantly talk on the phone. We get into fights about this. What should I do?

2007-04-04 08:59:58 · 36 answers · asked by Lindsey G 5 in Singles & Dating

Why is it so crippling not to divorce and live in the same house with a spouse that is more like a room-mate than a spouse? How many people have separate bed rooms from their spouse, separate accounts, and just share responsibility with the kids? I dont understand why I just can not divorce when I want to so bad. Who is going through this or can enlighten me on why doing something is so hard.

2007-04-04 08:59:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went with my husband to a social event with my friend Chris and her husband Steve and some other couples. Chris and Steve and us were supposed to be sitting at different tables. I came alone to my table after fixing my plate, and sat down at our table. Steve comes and sits down next to me and starts telling me how nice I look, and seems to be settling in to sit with me. Then Chris walks up and Steve suddenly stands up and says "I better go". Of course Chris has been real standoffish since this happened. I didn't do anything but go to my table. Next time he saw me later that night, he just looked at me and went just said "mmm,mmm,mmm." This guy is very handsome, but Im not interested for alot of reasons. I know we are going to run into this couple alot, and I'm not sure how to handle it.

2007-04-04 08:58:54 · 30 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Friends

One of my guy friends, who has a long-term girlfriend, thinks that I like him. We always talk on the instant chat thing on our cellphones and I wasn't doing it intentionally but I think he got the idea that I'm jealous of him and his girlfriend. He asked me today if I was jealous, and I asked of what am I supposed to be jealous of and that I don't get jealous easily, and he said "I'm just kidding" and changed the subject. Does that mean he likes me?

2007-04-04 08:58:08 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked her if she would like to work on it with a proffesional with or without me and she said maybe down the road, I am very much in love with my wife,but, she says she needs space. I give her space but we still live together until I have enough money to move out. This is very hard. I love to touch her, kiss her and hug her. She is more stand offish most of the time. Is it over? Is there still a chance? What's the best course of action? I really don't want to lose her, but, I know it's not up to me. Please I love her and any insight is loved and welcomed.

2007-04-04 08:57:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-04 08:56:33 · 28 answers · asked by stushy 1 in Weddings

My husband and i dated for 3 years,and married for a year,he has a daughter of 7 years and im taking care of her as my own ,the thing is i feel ready to start our family but he always say to me its not easy to have a child he knows that from expirience cause the mother of the daughter left when she was 3months
I am 27 years old and feel ready to have a child of my own,we are both working and earn about 3000 euros a month im also scared that maybe that money wont be enough when we start a family
I am really confused and the time is going,he always says to me we need enough money first but i dont believe we will ever have,because every month the bugdet goes up,i do talk to him about this but now im tied,because he just feel as if im pushing him
So my question is when is the right time and age to start a family
Sometimes i just think he is being selfish because he already has his own

2007-04-04 08:55:27 · 18 answers · asked by babes 1 in Family

Seems women want everything from men, but aren't willing to give anything back in return.
I do my half of the cooking, cleaning, raising our children and do a thousand other things and my wife still wants access to all my money. I already pay half of all the bills, rent, groceries and the every day whatevers of life.
If she wants more money she should get a better job. My money comes from my career. I work hard for my career and my family. Why should I give her access to all my money?

2007-04-04 08:54:03 · 17 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-04 08:53:44 · 19 answers · asked by tinabadina 3 in Friends

2007-04-04 08:52:59 · 12 answers · asked by teenypurplebinky 3 in Marriage & Divorce

In high school I was friends with an Asian girl named Panhia and we called her Tamponhia...lol..

2007-04-04 08:52:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Male is 30 and Female is 44. She has kids and he doesn't. The female thinks the male should move on and have a different life that will give him the opportunities he would have without her. She feels selfish.

2007-04-04 08:52:39 · 44 answers · asked by Ann N 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am in love with my pregnant fiance.i am considering even marrying her. but her pregnancy has put her in funny moos and these 7 months have been from hell.we have not been intimate for about 4 months and i just needed physical fulfillment. i basically slept with one of her friends and i am feeling too guilty now.would it be a good idea to tell her so i can get rid of the guilt?i still want to be with her.i need her in my life.what should i do.serious answers pls!

2007-04-04 08:52:15 · 13 answers · asked by kwabral y 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A plus-sized girl asked me out on a date and I told her I would be busy that evening and said we should do it another time. Now, I am not superficial and I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I have never been with nor really attracted to a larger woman. Should I give it a chance & go out with her, or turn her down? I would appreciate answers from guys who are currently with or dated bigger gals and bigger gals themselves. Thanks

Also she is beyond just a few extra pounds. I would estimate her weight between 300-400lbs

2007-04-04 08:50:19 · 24 answers · asked by vikl28 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friends, he keeps saying he loves me, and says he was my servent in his past life !

2007-04-04 08:50:15 · 7 answers · asked by bunnie 2 in Family

Okay, so I have a friend who is 19. He used to live in the same town as this 14 year old girl, before going to college. This girl is really mature, but still. They are both Christians and they spend tons of time together when he visits. They haven't done anything together. They problably haven't even really kissed, but it's weird. I told him that, but he said that I don't understand. Apparently, they really actually love eachother. They're planning on dating in like three or four years, when she turns 18. Any opinions? is it okay? If not, how do I convince him?

2007-04-04 08:50:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We went out for her birthday. Instead of dancin' with me, she danced with other boys and asked me"can we be friends?"

2007-04-04 08:49:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-04 08:49:26 · 4 answers · asked by Caroline 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-04 08:47:58 · 4 answers · asked by hawty 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

This question is related to my previous question.


Most of my friends like to joke a lot. It's mean and harsh jokes. If someone say mean things to me, I don't know how to reply, I'll just get angry.

I just want to learn how to talk back to people and defend myself because I'm always too nice to everybody. How can I train myself to talk back to others?

2007-04-04 08:46:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out I am pregnant yesterday, and i am worried on the reaction my mom is going to give me. I am 19 yrs. old I have been with my boyfriend 2 1/2 yrs now and we both go to college, and are deeply in love.....But besides that I think my Mom will be mad . So how should i tell her?

2007-04-04 08:45:02 · 24 answers · asked by Jackie A 1 in Singles & Dating

i just need to know who she is and where she is..and an email if she has one... does anybody know her or have heard of her?

2007-04-04 08:40:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-04 08:40:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi i've had an pertty good life untill i moved her with my husband 's mother in law . she is nice and all but she also had an dark side in her . i love her with all my heart but she always in the way when it comes to me and my husband .. and i've also looseing two loved one's .. and my husband is trying to find work but here is not working .,. I don't want to give up but i feel like the darkness is come out to get me what do i do please help ...

2007-04-04 08:39:15 · 4 answers · asked by luvxaxlotxbear 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey everyone,

How could I ask a girl to junior prom who I've never spoken with? Is it possible? I'd have to ask in the hall or something but I dont wanna seem like a total creep! Help!

2007-04-04 08:32:43 · 12 answers · asked by Jim 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 13 months. He is the one that wants the divorce. We've been separated since august and I just found out that he is living with another woman. He is in the military and is stationed across the country from me. He left me without a home and no income. What are my chances?

2007-04-04 08:31:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you and your spouse saved yourselves for marriage, was the wedding night satisfying or was it clunky and awkward like how most people say their first time is. be honest!

2007-04-04 08:30:34 · 8 answers · asked by giiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting very tired of being single and I was wondering. Is it better to just go up to a cute girl and talk to her out of nowhere or is it better to wait for a cute girl that comes along so that you can make friends and then work towards becoming more than friends? Whichever one you think is better, why? By the way, I'm in college, and I dont want to date just for fun. I mean, I do but the reason I date is to find a girl that I want to marry. I'm pretty mature for my age, 18, and I'm a decent looking guy. Most girls would wonder why I'm asking this but I've never had a girlfriend. I've just been on dates with girls that later tell me they have a boyfriend. Anyway, thanks for your opinion.

2007-04-04 08:29:38 · 30 answers · asked by Packman 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with her. We dated 3yrs, broke up a year ago and did the "rebound relationship"thing. They dated him for 6months & in that time her and I would have AMAZING sex. All of our friends know. They broke up. (oh she took his virginity) She is 28, he is 20, i'm 26. But they are back together now for a few weeks. I am still in love with her and I have fought for her like nonother. (please check my previous questions) She has sent me texts and things (like I still love you & wanna have sex on sunday, I can 't imagine life w/o you etc) I want him to know what she did & does behind his back,but if i say anything or send him the txts then she will never forgive me, or she'll come back, but only cuz he won't talk to her & thats not how I want to win. She has lied to him about a lot of things too. What is the right move? Sit back & wait for love to come back, or go all out? Remember I lover her but she loves & cares about 2 people. Most peeps say it won't work with him anyways so wait.

2007-04-04 08:26:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If your partner(husband or wife)realy good, why would u like to have sex with another person.? is there is a huge different in sex from person to person. ??

2007-04-04 08:25:30 · 21 answers · asked by lion23 2 in Marriage & Divorce