Family & Relationships - 4 April 2007

My boyfriend and I (now he's my Fiance) were walking around his campus about 2 years ago and he ran into this girl. He introduced us and they said a few words, then we went our seperate ways. Well a few weeks later him and I asked each other who we each lost our virginity to and he said, "remember that girl that we ran into at my school, well that was her". After I heard that I got this awful feeling in my stomach and every once in a while I think about it. Just that fact that I was once face to face with the girl he shared such an intimate moment with, a moment I will never share with him. Even though I had his child, I know that tops the girl that took is virginity but I just can't get the feeling out of my stomach. He says to me that it meant nothing to him and that virginities are more of a thing for girls. I'm not worried about the situation at all or about her I just wanted to know what other men thought about the girl they lost their virginity to. Thanks.

2007-04-04 07:18:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-04 07:16:40 · 6 answers · asked by nanhowala 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Has goals, a career, and helps provide, or a women who is a stay at home person who cooks and cleans, and maybe you know with the kids. I just always wondered what men really want but you can't expect us to do it all. Pick one please

2007-04-04 07:15:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a cousin who met her husband in April 1976 and they got married in September 1976. She was married 16 years before and didn't know if she wanted to get married again but he talked her into it and last year (2006) was thirty years(30) for them.

2007-04-04 07:15:31 · 23 answers · asked by Frank 3 in Weddings

I sure do hope not in my case I have a physco alcoholic mother who is threatening me she's taking me to court because I won't let her take my 3 childern. I used to let her come to my house and visit w/them but her condition is now worse she won't stop drinking, and she's even going to AA. I don't want my childern to be around her and see this. She's threatening me w/phone calls and letters. Someone please tell me that a court wouldn't allow her to see my kids. If so I would move out of the country!

2007-04-04 07:14:38 · 25 answers · asked by itsmeadd3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in a wedding as a bridesmaid in a week and the dress is strapless. I had some unwanted tan lines for the dress so I have been going to a tanning bed to even it out a little. However, my back is getting way more color from the "sun" than the front. What can I do to help even it out? I know I can't lay on my stomach in the bed so how do I fix it? Any help at all would be appreciated.

2007-04-04 07:12:54 · 8 answers · asked by *Heather* 2 in Weddings

ok,
a. i don't really know how to french kiss and not be terrible
b. ive only done it once or twicce with my ex of 11 mos.
c. it was really gross when we did
can ya help me out? whats the deal?

2007-04-04 07:11:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive never recieved a sign or anything from my mother since she died, will I get a sign? and will I inherit her illness she had

2007-04-04 07:09:10 · 7 answers · asked by Belinda W 1 in Family

2007-04-04 07:07:29 · 16 answers · asked by Rick D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-04 07:04:59 · 27 answers · asked by Spider b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

examples: go to the beach, massage someone, walk etc...

2007-04-04 07:04:59 · 33 answers · asked by barefootkato 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-04 07:03:55 · 4 answers · asked by my spill canvas 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

is virginty effect you in your social life?is it really bad loosing virginity before marriage?is it really important for a man(future husband)?

2007-04-04 07:03:08 · 21 answers · asked by nienna 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is married and her husband's ex-girlfriend call out the blue to ask him to the wedding. She's marrying the guy he suspected her of cheating with.

2007-04-04 07:01:50 · 9 answers · asked by Kizzy L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have never heard of this before.

2007-04-04 07:01:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Is it the fault of the man or women or is it because they dont see the quality of the women they normally choose or is it the beccause of the sex pls

2007-04-04 07:00:57 · 1 answers · asked by Jacqueline B 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been married a little over a month and eveytime i check his email he has a new personal ad he has signed up for

2007-04-04 06:56:43 · 27 answers · asked by arkansasgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-04 06:55:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and the other night it almost went all the way with alot of kissing,touching,and close to oral sex but I'm not usually this way but now that it happen I want him even more just once I know it's not right but I will keep it on the down low just one night is that to much? what would you do he is sexy and so passionate

2007-04-04 06:51:16 · 3 answers · asked by ladybug 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-04 06:50:50 · 19 answers · asked by :o) 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 10 months. I try my hardest to be completely selfless (which I am) and I take care of him and am a good wife. He leaves me home alone all the time, lies to me about the smallest things, and only thinks of himself. I tried to talk to him about all of our problems last night and he fell asleep.

2007-04-04 06:50:48 · 20 answers · asked by Courtney T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I seen this guy at work one day .. and we both looked at each other ... i walked away i seen him like 2 weeks ago .. and we talked we exchange numbers .. we started talking on the phone ... we meet up for lunch everyday .. and chill here and there ... I like him and he confessed he does to but when he tells me this !!! that he is NOt legally married but lives with someone and is expecting a kid.... So know everytime she calls and hes with me he goes outside and talks to her ...

WHAT DID I DO ?

I dont want to be that girl that DISTROYS a family just cause i got attached to him ... u feel me ? Its like i want to just let it go .. cause in the long run if he ever gets caught .. he will deny ever feeling for me and lie about everything .. and just go back to her .. im worth more and do not want to put my self in that . !!

What should i do ?

I WAS SHOCKED

2007-04-04 06:49:58 · 17 answers · asked by Melissa I 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-04 06:46:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-04 06:46:22 · 1 answers · asked by rae rae 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my husband for 10 years i cheated on him about two years ago. We had separated for a while and I was in a realtionship with the new guy. Things got complicated I ended up pregant and my husband and I got back together because I found out I was pregant I ended my realationship with the other guy. Sometime I miss this guy and although we still talk i stay my distance because I really don't want to hurt my husband again. He been a great father and he is trying to show me he change, by taking us out before he wasn't an outgoing kind of person. I just don't know what to do I don't know if I am just with him because I am use to him or because I love him please help me

2007-04-04 06:45:21 · 9 answers · asked by lisa b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So yesterday was our 3 year anniversary. I sent him an e-card (which I know he received since it said so in my inbox) JUST in case he forgot.
Waited all day, no reply whatsoever.
When I got home from work he said not one word the entire evening. He made himself dinner, left me to care for the baby, and watched TV. Finally at midnight, I just gave him the presents I bought and told him I'm going to bed. He asked all stupidly "What is this for?"
I said "Our anniversary". He then tried to play that he didn't remember. I asked him about the card I sent him..he claimed he didn't have the "chance" to really read it.
I don't know what hurts more..the fact he did absolutely nothing..no card, not even a mention. Or the fact he claims to have "forgotten"..obviously taking me for an idiot.
What would you do in this situation? I am tired of being the only one in this relationship.

2007-04-04 06:41:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was about to leave this club when a drunk guy came up to me.He said he had to tell me before I left what a nice butt I have.Has anything similar ever happened to anybody else?If so, what exactly.

2007-04-04 06:39:55 · 17 answers · asked by Mary R 2 in Singles & Dating

My grandmother moved in with us and it will be 2 years she has lived with us in September. My grandma left her house to us and it was in shambles. Things were all over the place there was bearly a hallway to walk in. Dust was everywhere and we had to clean it out (luckily we had the help of my aunt). When cleaning it out we found all these new things that had never been used. 15 sets of dishes, 20 pots and pans, 100's of clothes, and so on. Now that my grandma has moved with us it's the same thing again. She has at least 3 packages a week coming to his house and her room is full of boxes with things she has yet to use. My father's stepfather left her with 13 houses and she has no money whatsoever from that. She just charges everything which is going to be a problem because when she goes my parents might have to pay off the charges. Is there some sort of person we can get to manage her money for her?

2007-04-04 06:37:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

have you ever been apart from BF/GF in the past because things where rocky? (given eachother space) and how long where you apart? and did it help?

2007-04-04 06:35:52 · 1 answers · asked by henry_o01 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My heart is broken, I've been told so many lies that I'm filled with anger and need an outlet. Any ideas?

2007-04-04 06:34:35 · 17 answers · asked by elfkin, attention whore 4 in Other - Family & Relationships